Carousel Trophies? – Common Phenomenon or Unique Psychosis

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Hello all;

Just wanted to throw this out there are see if anyone has experienced similar to this in their dating or relationship experience.

Once I were married, the ex started, unsolicited, bringing out random items and commenting on it being an item from a former relationship.

For example, a t – shirt would come out, and she would innocently state – ” “X” gave this to me, he was an asshole but fantastic in bed. ” Some of the items, were reported to be from guys almost a decade ago. At the time, I did not know how to respond. She is a master of manipulation and had this innocent way of delivery.

I now realize what she was trying to do, in hindsight, she was trying to get me to leave the relationship on my own – so she could be a victim.

Just curious if collection of these fornication trophies is common?

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Did any of these trophies include genital warts or herpes lesions??

There is no higher status, no loftier goal, no greater work for a woman than for her to be considered a victim. — Me.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

She was just trying to hurt you.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

The classic ego crush to let you know that her better replacement for you is around the corner and attainable whenever she needs or wants it.Even an asshole ex with a big c~~~ buys me gifts so you better step your game up. She’s playing mind games with you and herself so she can think she’s still the catch(10 years later) while convincing you she is at the same time. Without women being a master sorceress they have nothing! They are the biggest fraud to men and make Enron look like the magic palm reader with the tip jar outside your supermarket.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Possible reasons,

1.To make you think you are a loser but lucky enough to have her.

2.Proud to show off that she has f~~~ed a lot and she was in demand.

3.Still having feelings for all the guys she dated.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

globemaster wrote:

Possible reasons,

1.To make you think you are a loser but lucky enough to have her.

2.Proud to show off that she has f~~~ed a lot and she was in demand.

3.Still having feelings for all the guys she dated.

Number 3 seems quite unlikely. Way more likely to be number 2 or 1.

Anyway, taking this kind of behavior to the extreme (somewhat misguided “pride”) it would probably look something …

… like this:

Now don’t ask me where I found that picture almost a year ago. But as a hint: It was on some social networking site, what do you know…

Well, what a questionable “hall of fame”.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Anonymous 1]

2 months into the relationship with my ex and she was still posting angry, hate riddled FB statuses about her ex husband, whom she’d been seperated from for nearly 2 years.

When I questioned it, she took much enjoyment in explaining her reasons for doing this.

It’s always about control. The moment I took issue, her eyes lit up.

C~~~.

[Anonymous 1]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

There is no higher status, no loftier goal, no greater work for a woman than for her to be considered a victim. — Me.

To the victor victim go the spoils.

[experiencedParticipant]

She’s a manipulative c~~~ too stupid to realize that by saying such things she is only lowering her value.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 11]

Very bad sign, man.

Borderlines are known to keep trophies. Even if not, that’s one rude f~~~ing c~~~.

[Anonymous 42]

So that’s why they don’t hug rubber trees!

Stop all harvesting except rubber, it’s needed in the manufacture of latex products, including condoms, and more important, DILDOS!

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

By carousel trophies do you mean syphilis outbreaks?
Canada facing national shortage of syphilis medication amid ‘outbreaks’ of disease

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Thanks for the input gentlemen.

I greatly appreciate it.

The actions described above are just the tip of the iceberg. The whole marriage was nothing more then a trudge through passive aggressive hell. Asking her if anything was wrong only solicited adamant admissions she was fine and “deeply in love with me”; but I was walking on eggshells. I tell you, there is nothing worse then dealing with a femanized, passive aggressive women. Made me doubt my own sanity.

Boarder line personality disorder is a good possibility – I am shocked I did not pickup on it before the marriage. But that diagnosis takes years. Definitely the behaviour is extremely passive – Aggressive now that I think about it. As was stated; she wanted to hurt me – and succeeded.

What can I say – I am an idealist, saw only the best in her, and it bite me in the ass.
Thank god no kids, short marriage, with no assets in common.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Sorry I’m late to the discussion.

Make no mistake- this lady knew exactly what she was doing. She intentionally hurt you. That fact alone is good reason to run like hell.

Who knows why she intentionally hurt you.
Some sick people derive pleasure from hurting others. Maybe it was a control issue. Maybe by upsetting you she thought she would receive more attention from you and that you would spend more money on her.

Unfortunately, when a man cares for a woman, the woman can often play him like a violin. You may have gotten played. (I suspect a lot of us here have gotten played) No problem. The bitch didn’t deserve you and you are far better off without her.

Once this happens to you, your tolerance for mean, hurtful women will probably be zero. Good luck.

[Anonymous 11]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

Boarder line personality disorder is a good possibility – I am shocked I did not pickup on it before the marriage.

High functioning ones will hide it quite well and slowly let it out the bag. No matter what, you were walking on eggshells around her so something is wrong with her. No one should have to put up with that.

[Anonymous 42]

I was just struck by a thought, I was never one to collect or sniff panties, but I did always wonder why women left them behind from time to time, and the answer just came to me.

If you hammer them good enough, when they get dressed they can’t feel anything from the waste down, and being punch-drunk is why they leave half unaddressed.

I love this MGTOW thing, lots of long awaited answers!

[Anonymous 11]

I always thought it was because she is just warning off the other women in her Chad’s life. Like Chad would even care. He can use his expanding pantie collection to make even more pussies wetter for him.

My borderline(diagnosed) once showed me her trophy trunk. Some of my property is in it too now. It was a creepy experience to say the least. Everything a borderline does is to break you down so she can control you. I’ve learned to not rationalize borderline behavior as it cannot be done.

Long term borderline victims are rendered empty husks. Some even end up so low as to watch her get drilled by other guys.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Long term borderline victims are rendered empty husks. Some even end up so low as to watch her get drilled by other guys.

That’s not me C-Pig, in my younger days I use to SHARE! I’ would get some of the chicks I banged to do my friends, I s~~~ you f~~~ing NOT! thump thump thump in the other room and there’s another friend that owes me a favor, why just pump and dump when you can hand it off for list of favors? I grew up in the city, Do you wonder why I’m not going back?

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

This pic is brilliant and says it all. No thanks, I will pass, and be happy to the very end.

[Anonymous 11]

I remember those days. Gang bangs going on in a back room. The sluts eagerly inviting every man in the house to bang her. I’ve always had a hang up about my c~~~ coming into contact with another guy’s jizz so I always declined. I hunt alone. Now that I’m at level 3, I don’t hunt at all.

I just heard the latest on the most notorious slut in my neck of the woods. Her roommate reports she has at least one new guy a day drilling her sometimes more than one. This is a 48/49 year old woman who used to be an HB-8. She’s now a pot-bellied pill head. I think these men are simply closing their eyes and imagining her 25 years ago.

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