Can you give us your thoughts on "bitter" shaming?

[RedPillDETOXSpectator 24]

This is easily (along with anger) the most common shaming that men who say anything against women receive from them as well as gynocentric men. MRAs used to receive it too but now they seem to be more accepted. Loser shaming is another common one that goes along with bitter shaming.

 

In chinese philosophy the YIN is the all-knowing, life-giving feminine. I guess they know, but I’m sure they also know that when they say this they are only doing more damage or at least attempting it? They’re just being nasty to try and get us to comply. This is all encompassed in the “you have issues” shaming I guess. What they don’t want to admit though, imho, is that THEY are the issue!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

 
: “You’re just bitter!”

: Laughs in her face because not bitter at all. “Hardly honey. But you sure have a bad case of sour grapes you’re working on there.”

[Anonymous 11]

It’s a simple ad hominen attack to put YOU on the defensive and make you submit.

The best and most civil way to handle it is reflect it back on them a la Sidecar’s suggestion. Another example of this technique, if someone falsely calls me a racist, I immediately say “No, you’re the racist!” right back in their face. It leaves them bedazzled. You could also insert misogynist in lieu of my racist example. I’m not a misogynist either, but I take no s~~~ from women, white knights or manginas.

If you want to be more blatant, you can just tell them something along the lines of “I don’t give a f~~~ what you think!”

The main thing is to not submit to the manipulation attempt and enforce your boundary. I’m glad to see you sticking around RDP.

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