Can a Man Have BOTH a Relationship and Peace of Mind ??

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

For some Men, I think there comes a point in life when they become comfortable enough with themselves that a Woman’s CONSTANT NEEDS far Outweigh ANY perceived benefits that she once offered within the confines of a “relationship”.

For Most men, Female companionship is exchanged for peace of mind and inner contentment.

A woman’s parasitical nature goes beyond the material, and physical services provided by her host as she continues to drain him of his mental focus, peace of mind, inner peace, emotional stability, and his general psychological well being as long as he remains HER HOST.

It’s hard, if not impossible, to focus on developing Inner Peace and Contentment for thyself when ONE must consistently focus on Attempting to Please and Satisfy ANOTHER.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

First you get the relationship, then you get the gun, paint your brains on the wall and you get peace of mind.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

When your an ATM machine being ridden as hard as a rodeo bronco it’s hard to concentrate on anything other than keeping your balance. And that’s where they want you, off balance.

The short answer is no a man can’t have a relationship and peace of mind. They are mutually exclusive.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[BoarParticipant]

No. Especially if the relationship is with a female. Their constant security seeking behavior means that they can never let their host have a moments peace if more resources and attention make her ‘feel’ more secure.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Can someone be a Jedi and a Sith at the same time?

(Oh my God, I just realised I’m a massive nerd… and if anyone responds to my question with an actual answer from Star Wars lore, they bloody R2…)

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Yes, you can have BOTH a relationship and peace of mind, so long as it is this…

The dog is indeed man’s best friend and the most trusted partner you could ever have.

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Carnage wrote:

…paint your brains on the wall and you get peace of mind.

I think that would be “pieces of mind”.

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Boar wrote:

Their constant security seeking behavior means that they can never let their host have a moments peace if more resources and attention make her ‘feel’ more secure.

Yep. I experienced this.

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[MACHOParticipant]

I’ll let Bill Burr speak on my behalf!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

LOL ^
Some more from Patrice O’Neal – check out the woman with the resting bitch face LOL

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Yes, you can, if you adopt my philosophy.

I have a post-Wall gf, not super-attractive but she is thin at least. She more intelligent than most females, but not as nearly smart as she thinks she is. She has a decent-paying job that she is competent at, and she has her own house – courtesy of her ex. She has two old non-divorced parents that are still living with each other, and her ex is the one that cheated on her and left her. She lives 45 minutes away, so we spend weekends together.

I’ve made it clear I will never marry nor cohabitate again. Very clear. Fairly often, I re-iterate this, so it never gets forgotten.

But… I don’t go down the NAWALT road simply because in this society, having a vagina or a wedding ring is like having the Ring of Gyges, or the Ring of Power from LOTR.

I get sex more often than I actually want it. I’ve sometimes passed up invitations to eat dinner at her house and get sex, when I simply didn’t feel like driving 45 minutes to her house.

I’m vasectomied so pregnancy is not an issue; she isn’t big on the c~~~ carousel concept so STI is less likely. We’ve done 3 joint vacations in the past 2 years, and split the costs on all of them, which resulted in me having to spend less money than if I went on my own — considerably less in some cases.

There isn’t a real large exchange of stuff like gifts, and what little there is, she’s spent as much on me as I have on her.

I’m not really emotionally invested; I don’t feel anything for women anymore since being red-pilled. I’m simply a pragmatist. I don’t think romantic love is actually real; therefore I have no ethical qualms about pretending to love. Since apparently I pass the “relationship” Turing test, this isn’t an issue, and she is apparently getting whatever she needs out of the Black Box that is me.

Most people who think they know me would be shocked at how cold-blooded I have become regarding “romantic” relationships. I simply don’t believe in the illusion anymore, but it doesn’t cause me any mental anxiety pretending to. I used to believe in that bulls~~~, so I know how to act in order to be convincing.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

Like the above poster, it’s possible but you have to have the b~~~~ to draw solid lines.

Doesn’t matter what the line is. The first time she nags stop calling her and block her. If she turns you down for sex, take out your phone and call another lady, and set up a date, right in front of her.

If you feel the risks of STDs or pregnancy are too high, or simply don’t feel like having to kick women to the curb so often and decide you want no part of it at all, great! As long as your happy, that’s the whole point of mgtow. But too many guys do act like they have no control over who enters and leaves their life and the limits of how those people influence them.

Hell, I’ve got family that are overwhelming leeches on society that live on government benefits and beg and “borrow” money from people all the time.

Rest assured, they’ve been trained thoroughly not to ask me for a f~~~ing penny, because they know I’ll go ghost on them and no contact for literally years if they do. That doesn’t bother me but it seems to work on them.

Remember, the men in out of control relationships are volunteers.

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

I’m at a point in my life where I think not only do I understand female nature more than ever, but I have a deeper understanding of myself. There in lies contentment.

I may get a dog if I really want companionship.. But for now.. I’m happy getting to myself more. That’s the only relationship I need.

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT
#HIDEYOURWEALTH

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[Branched offParticipant 10958]

You can be dead and have total peace of mind. You can be a reclusive loner and have a fair degree of peace of mind -if you are a natural born loner. However for all other men, some social interaction is needed to actually be happy within. This means relationships. What matters is how you navigate your relationships. You also need a degree of luck and if it is not there or you get a bad relationship you need to quit while you are losing. Humans were not born to have peace of mind all the time, they were born to seek it and to take risks to get it.

What matters is that you need to take sensible measured risks in relationships with stop losses in place. Ranger one has given a good example of one solution for this. Ranger one is likely to be happier than he is to be sad and if he is sad, he can stop the sadness pretty easily. Marrying a hot thot with a ton of debt and a child by another man who says she has dismounted the c~~~ carousel just because you are the one would be an insane risk to take and would probably almost certainly result in utter misery.

Keeping your peace of mind is about the risks you take. No risk, probably misery. Too much risk certainly misery.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[narwhalParticipant]

Caring about someone or something pretty much means you cannot have guaranteed peace of mind, by the nature of the fact that you can’t control what happens to the thing you care about. Even your dog, you can’t fully control his behavior, or what happens to him, and therefore you’re going to lose your peace of mind if the dog pees on the rug or develops medication issues.

The best you can do is limit what you care about and make wise chooses regarding what you do chose to care about.

For many/most men though, I think we do have a need to give a s~~~ about something. Not caring at all can lead to a rather unfulfilling life for many. Having nothing at all to give a damn about can actually cause you to lose your peace of mine as well. At least it does for me.

Ok. Then do it.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

One last thing to remember: other things being equal, the person who cares the LEAST in the relationship, has the MOST power over it.

Since I don’t give a f~~~ at all, that gives me Zeus-like powers.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

MACHO wrote:

I’ll let Bill Burr speak on my behalf!
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And then he got f~~~ing married.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[MACHOParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

And then he got f~~~ing married.

All men as he says in this one are programmed to have sex with women and can hardly resist the temptation if given the opportunity.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

Ranger One wrote:

I don’t think romantic love is actually real; therefore I have no ethical qualms about pretending to love.

I think “romantic love” is a Real Phenomena, but I also believe that we do it to Ourselves. Some lil HO comes along at the right/wrong time, and she plays WHATEVER game(s) that our Blue Pill selves happen to be vulnerable to, and before we know it WE START FEELING “IN LOVE”, but I think that it’s just our reaction to the gaming lil HO. WE create “Love” WITHIN US.

In other words, if we are aware of this, then we can also recognize how and what the lil HO will say and do that begins to set the trap.

Once armed with Red Pill Logic/Knowledge/Defenses, I think that it makes the whole “falling in Love” CHARADE into just ANOTHER Example of the things that WE USED TO DO.

Branched off wrote:

However for all other men, some social interaction is needed to actually be happy within. This means relationships

I should have clarified relationships as being “romantic” types of relationships. I didn’t mean to imply that Men need to be void of human contact in other types of “relationships” to achieve inner peace/contentment.

narwhal wrote:

The best you can do is limit what you care about and make wise chooses regarding what you do chose to care about.

I think many Men have to LEARN how to care LESS about MORE Things/People. It’s a process just like actually applying NFG to one’s own life.

Ranger One wrote:

the person who cares the LEAST in the relationship, has the MOST power over it.

If you CHOOSE to have some form of relationship with a woman then this is the only way to do it. Once they KNOW that they have secured you then there is just no limit to their demands and/or expectations.

So many IMPORTANT things we have to LEARN the HARD WAY, but at least WE HAVE LEARNED.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

Although it’s not a matter of how much you care really, but how willing you are to end things that aren’t satisfactory. You can care as much as you want as long as you have the b~~~~ to call it quits at a moment’s notice.

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

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