But Who Will Look After You?

[MATRIXParticipant 2349]

Absolutely no one!

THAT’S WHO!

When the hell did alimony or child support ever help out a man that lost his house, his money, his pension,

and ended up ALL ALONE ANYWAY?

ALONE.

DIVORCE RAPED.

BROKE.

That’s what what happens to a man that falls into the family divorce-rape-my-ass-broke-alone-and-dead-TRAP!

It’s a TRAP.

FUUUCKK THAT NOISE!

I’ll have my ALONE with a double order of ALL MY SHHIIITT!

ALONE with MY retirement, not handing it over to some obnoxious cuuuntt who can’t wait for me to die, ALONE!

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

[bstoffParticipant 4865]

I will look after myself, as I’ve always done.
A woman cannot comprehend that sort of logic.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Take Care of YOURSELF Because NOBODY Else is Going To…..

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[EGParticipant 1853]

Prescient relevance even if romance is not involved; family can be the worst, particularly women. As parents age and elder care looms on the horizon for their children, heaven help you if you’re male, single, and “don’t have anything better to do” such as work and keep your own a$$ afloat. That’s all child’s play compared to what you should be doing (which means taking orders and wiping butts). It isn’t just men that are disposable, but men’s lives are also valueless and disposable as well. So says Women.

EDIT: I feel the need to expand upon this and turn it into a full-fledged rant.

I can picture family members – the females – sitting around a table sipping tea and talking about how irresponsible I, their middle-aged male relative, am for being so unmoored at 40-something years old. Seems if you’re male and you’ve made it to middle-age without picking up any leeches along the way, you owe it to someone – society, or to Women – to voluntarily become Captain Save-A-Hoe or whatever title fits. They believe it’s a universal principle of life that any man with no baggage and a good income must submit himself to the High Priestesses for lifestyle-reprogramming. What?? You don’t comply??? Don’t you want to be a member of this family???

My family lives an hour away from me just over the border in another state. They’re mountain people, phobic of the “big city” and supposedly too scared to come see me. I live in a rowdy urban neighborhood in my city’s party district upstairs from a gay bar, and I moved here several years ago when I was DJing at the bar. Surely I’m a perfect candidate for the label “Peter Pan Syndrome” if you’re a woman and you want to extract resources from me, and you’re trying to invalidate my lifestyle and replan my life for me. But the thing is, in the years since moving here I’ve sold my DJ gear, stopped going out drinking at night, re-established my career after a nasty breakup, and (re)proven myself to be a powerhouse — or a good candidate to recruit as the family work-horse! These family members, living an hour away in a remote not-easily-accessible area with plenty of other family members around besides myself, will expect me to drop what I’m doing and come running to them for instructions as soon as they snap their fingers. Family gatherings are when they tell me to my face how proud they are that I put my life back together. Tea-time around the table with only other women around is when they talk behind my back about how irresponsible I am, paid bills and prosperous lifestyle be damned.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

“Who will look after you?”

Another example of the mindset of a typical woman. Women are wired to seek out ways to get others to take care of them while men are wired to learn to take care of themselves. The term “who will look after you” has different meanings for a woman depending on their age.

“Who has a car and can get beer?”
“Who has their s~~~ together and a good network of contacts and resources?”
“Who has assets and money in the bank?”
“Who has the best pension and healthcare?”

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

EG wrote:

Surely I’m a perfect candidate for the label “Peter Pan Syndrome” if you’re a woman and you want to extract resources from me, and you’re trying to invalidate my lifestyle and replan my life for me.

Funny, if it’s a woman she is strong and empowered and a fish that doesn’t need a bicycle, but if it’s a man he is shamed with having Peter Pan Syndrome.

Wear the title proudly. You didn’t get to be Peter Pan by listening to some stupid woman’s bulls~~~ shaming language. At least be original Judy.

Order the good wine

[GrumpyParticipant]

Honestly.
I have never heard a man ever make that statement.

Mr. Spock wrote:

The term “who will look after you” has different meanings for a woman depending on their age.

Sums it up accurately.
I would just add that “you” always means provider (me), beneficiary (her), in my personal experience.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3766]

EG wrote:

As parents age and elder care looms on the horizon for their children, heaven help you if you’re male, single, and “don’t have anything better to do” such as work and keep your own a$$ afloat.

That’s been my experience as well, EG.

That’s what my mother was hinting at. She wanted me to apply for a well-paying job, she criticized the fact that I purchased a car with a manual transmission (it had to be automatic just in case they had to borrow it) and also hinted at the fact that she was gonna divorce my father after like 45 years. Guess who was gonna be the man/slave of the house ? Fu.ck ’em.

They can’t ask that of other people. Fuc.king narcs…

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22529]

MATRIX wrote:

Absolutely no one!
THAT’S WHO!
When the hell did alimony or child support ever help out a man that lost his house, his money, his pension,
and ended up ALL ALONE ANYWAY?
ALONE.
DIVORCE RAPED.
BROKE.
That’s what what happens to a man that falls into the family divorce-rape-my-ass-broke-alone-and-dead-TRAP!
It’s a TRAP.
FUUUCKK THAT NOISE!
I’ll have my ALONE with a double order of ALL MY SHHIIITT!
ALONE with MY retirement, not handing it over to some obnoxious cuuuntt who can’t wait for me to die, ALONE!

Remember, this “logic” statement is being uttered by someone in the gender who is four times more likely to divorce you and come out way better in family court than you do. The simp cucks who say this stupid shiite to you are brainwashed simps who believe in unicorns and nawalt and that its always the guys fault for things going wrong because women are innocent and wonderful and can’t do anything wrong.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

MATRIX wrote:

ALONE with MY retirement, not handing it over to some obnoxious cuuuntt who can’t wait for me to die, ALONE!

This is what matters…money is a far bigger factor in if you are taken care of well in your old age than marriage. I’d rather be a rich single guy than a broke married guy going into my golden years. The most at risk guy though is the wealthy married guy. I don’t think its exactly uncommon that should a guy still in his working years get diagnosed with a degenerative disease that cupcake cuts and runs. Should that be my fate in life, I’d prefer not to have a life altering diagnosis followed by someone legally robbing me for half or more of my assets on the way out the door.

[EGParticipant 1853]

SpiderHerder wrote:

EG wrote:

As parents age and elder care looms on the horizon for their children, heaven help you if you’re male, single, and “don’t have anything better to do” such as work and keep your own a$$ afloat.

That’s been my experience as well, EG.
That’s what my mother was hinting at. She wanted me to apply for a well-paying job, she criticized the fact that I purchased a car with a manual transmission (it had to be automatic just in case they had to borrow it) and also hinted at the fact that she was gonna divorce my father after like 45 years. Guess who was gonna be the man/slave of the house ? Fu.ck ’em.
They can’t ask that of other people. Fuc.king narcs…

Indeed. In light of some sh!t that went down between me and my sister this past winter, I can be quite sure how I’d be treated if the family womenfolk had me under their thumb. Let’s just say it would be as much fun as being married to one of them. And I could find myself subverted by them way too easily (and I do believe they’re all in cahoots about roping me in). Just by listening to sob stories and pleas for assistance with my big heart on my sleeve, I could find myself as controlled by these women as any man by his female S.O. could be. And thank heavens for my sister’s candid moment last winter with her outburst and her joking about filing a fake DV complaint against me in my own home, just for a laugh. It opened my eyes indeed. We haven’t spoken since. And THANK GOD that I got to see this disgusting display now instead of after I commit myself to going over there and submitting to them.

I don’t feel paranoid in my prediction, here, because I’m old enough now to have seen some of my youth’s most paranoid fears about the future turn out to be spot-on predictions of how it would actually turn out, except I didn’t think it would turn out this bad.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

EG wrote:

I can picture family members – the females – sitting around a table sipping tea and talking about how irresponsible I, their middle-aged male relative, am for being so unmoored at 40-something years old.

The ‘You are selfish because …’ is just another blackmail/bullying/shaming tactic.

Seems if you’re male and you’ve made it to middle-age without picking up any leeches along the way, you owe it to someone – society, or to Women – to voluntarily become Captain Save-A-Hoe or whatever title fits. They believe it’s a universal principle of life that any man with no baggage and a good income must submit himself to the High Priestesses for lifestyle-reprogramming.

Their sense of entitlement knows no bounds.

And thank heavens for my sister’s candid moment last winter with her outburst and her joking about filing a fake DV complaint against me in my own home, just for a laugh. It opened my eyes indeed. We haven’t spoken since.

She wasn’t joking. Cut her off, forever.

The comment also shows how close to the surface the One Phone Call now is in the mind of the average female.

[TwistParticipant]

SpiderHerder wrote:

, she criticized the fact that I purchased a car with a manual transmission (it had to be automatic just in case they had to borrow it)

I’ve done that too. Made me laugh thinking how much satisfaction it gave me…

[Gravel PitParticipant]

EG wrote:

a full-fledged rant.

no worry, GOOD RANT. Like KM’ definition of MGTOW in the preamble here: “Refusing to bow, serve and kneel for the opportunity to be treated like a disposable utility.”

Yeah, I didnt get sober and unfvck my life just to kneel down and marry some Single Mom from the Kay Jewelers Advert. Its insane that society thinks I should settle for a leathered up, flappy vagina that has had 80 men through it. I wont even settle for one that has had 15 dicks… AWALT

The ship sailed long ago for meeting a NAWALT. That is a clinical delusion at this point.

Its time to focus on Survival and Understanding what makes me Free and Prosperous while Avoiding what makes me a target and cuck. That means ghost all women

Mr. Spock wrote:

“Who has a car and can get beer?”
“Who has their s~~~ together and a good network of contacts and resources?”
“Who has assets and money in the bank?”
“Who has the best pension and healthcare?”

and they suck dicks to get all of it. LOL. At every stage in their life, its the same trick. Their only currency!

EG wrote:

except I didn’t think it would turn out this bad.

I have to agree. If you had walked up to the 19 year old me, in my heavy drinking, woman pining and general ignorance… I would have confirmed that Id probably drink and smoke most of my twenties away, and either die or clean up before 30. And in the event I sobered up, I would of swore to you that an average looking gal and I would be head over heels in real LOVE and have a house and kids… and since I was sober, we’d be happily ever after….. Buwhahwhahawah!

I never saw the Big Reveal coming. I had no idea about the utter horrorshow that is female instinct. That is why the Stardusk Compilation hit me like Gabriel’s Horn from a Mountain Top. That is how muddy my eyes were, and how swiftly they cleared up. I couldnt believe it. I didnt want to. AND NOW THAT YOU SEE IT — you cant unsee it. There is no going back to the Matrix.

Monk wrote:

The comment also shows how close to the surface the One Phone Call now is in the mind of the average female.

I dont know about cutting off family members. She certainly deserves a few years cold shouldered. But you nailed it Monk, by saying, it just shows you that THEY ARE THINKING ABOUT IT. She revealed the thought is present, like some option she keeps in her pocket to deploy against a random man. And that card will be played eventually against some guy, probably not her own flesh and blood brother, but for sure some guy is in for it. She SAID IT. Its not a fvcking joke. Watch!

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

SpiderHerder wrote:

she criticized the fact that I purchased a car with a manual transmission (it had to be automatic just in case they had to borrow it)

I am SO GLAD the Nightmare is over.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Nobody will take care of the
Sky-0 when the time comes

When it is time someday, I will be going out the way of the Samurai. Once I am too old to maximize my life’s full potential or have some kind of terminal health condition.

I’m going to find a drop zone somewhere tropical near the ocean. Jump for about ten days straight then execute Operation: No Place For Disgrace

I’ll be on a jump run – getting on last under the guise of doing a solo tracking jump.

Then get out at about 12,500 feet and track straight towards and over the water. Then open at about 3,000 feet and continue my final journey out via canopy.

Then at about 800 feet, undo my chest and leg straps and go straight in, being knocked unconscious or breaking my neck on impact.

Then hopefully currents take me way out and my body may find the peace that my mind and soul could not find in this world.

Deo Vindice

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

‘In a mans glory, his spirit is stored, his very being inside – Dignity respected, courage is shown by his ritual suicide’
•No Place For Disgrace•

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Balance and peace will be restored once nothing is left that binds me to this world and I am free to transcend to the next level of consciousness. °Sky-O☠️

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Here are some national average costs for long-term care in the United States (in 2016):
– $6,844 per month for a semi-private room in a nursing home
– $7,698 per month for a private room in a nursing home
– $3,628 per month for care in an assisted living facility (for a one-bedroom unit)

Long term care insurance is a way of addressing costs.
According to the American Association for Long-Term Care Insurance, a married couple both age 60 can expect to pay $2,170 per year for $328,000 worth of coverage. (I didn’t look up rates for a single male- probably 12-1400 per year)

I see too many wives put their husbands in a nursing facility and never visit them. Wives can be amazingly cold and heartless.

Friends are often more supportive.

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