Brother-in-law getting a divorce. What I realized and hope I learned.

[The Missing ManSpectator 342]

I just wanna share something that I attempted to use MGTOW wisdom on.

My mom’s telling me a whole bunch of things about a whole drama between my sister and brother-in-law.
They had been married for 3 years now.

At first my position was to say, that my sister should ask for nothing from him just walk away,take nothing from him. I felt it would be a wise thing for her to do.

Another reason why I said this was because I thought of most of you on this forum and the damage that it did to your lives.

This is what I realized though, I came back at this from a different angle.

I have no contact with my brother-in-law, nor does he reach out to me. We do not talk, we have no fellowship, so how am I suppose to care that he pays alimony?

I just felt though, I didn’t think that he as ‘man’ shouldn’t have to go through it but again I realized.

He is most likely a blue-pill mangina, completely unlearned to female nature. Totally unaware to the manosphere. Probably would think of this site as a bunch of he-man-woman-hater’s club.

He’s the guy that was at Woodstock dropping acid, while other men where in Vietnam dying in the jungles.

In fact this is an accurate portrayal of him as I was told by my mother that it his own sister and mother that are telling him to get divorce.

In that last bit I see some form of Red-pill truth, that woman will eat each other.

And I do not wish for this evil to fall unto him, but he probably is a fool.

I just kinda hope that maybe he will wake up to the reality he got himself in, but again I cannot just tell “HEY YOU GOTTA DO THIS AND THAT AND READ THIS SITE AND THIS SITE!” I cannot just impart the wisdom of MGTOW on to him and expect him to get the whole thing.

What are your thoughts?

Though to consider though, that most of you went through it before you had discovered such things as the Red-pill

And as much as I would say “To hell with him”

[HitmanParticipant]

you really don’t owe him anything,
however..as a man maybe you can give him a tip…
just trying to think out loud ..
what about a typed /printed note to him..
alimony can be temporary.
let him know that.
a year or two is all she needs to get a job.
kids get child support,
alimony is for her..
3 years entitles her to what ???
not much in my book.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

The damage is done for now. Anything he could have done to help himself is most likely past and if they’re still fighting you don’t want any of that. Take no sides. Let it play out. You will just be getting between two dogs fighting and they will both turn to bite you. You can’t help a beaten dog until the beating is over anyway. You could potentially harm your relationship with your family at this sensitive time too. When the dust settles approach him then and see how he acts. How much redpill did he swallow is something you will have to judge at that time and you will know if you should broach the subject then.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 5]

Hitman wrote:

however..as a man maybe you can give him a tip…

Tell him not to sign another marriage contract

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

The Missing Man wrote:

so how am I suppose to care that he pays alimony?

You are supposed to care about justice.

Alimony is unjust.

It’s really that simple.

[The Missing ManSpectator 342]

On another,

F~~~ what I said, I’ll see if I’ll remmedy the situation.

I’ll will try to be a brother to him I guess.

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