Boiled like a frog

[ghostParticipant]

Be careful. The forces of nature are strong. I got boiled like a frog even after I thought I was MGTOW 3 years ago. It can happen to anyone. Don’t get boiled. Do NOT get emotional. Ever.

[JVBParticipant]

Huh !! Come again.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 0]

Can you go into more detail? All of us can benefit from the experience of other men here.

[Anonymous 42]

Sounds like someone f~~~ed themselves…

[AutoliteParticipant]

Relax guys. Just be patient and wait for the sequel thread.

“Boiled Like a Frog II, From The Pan Into The Fire”…

[ghostParticipant]

I thought I couldn’t get trapped in to an emotional relationship after my last one about 3 years ago. I made every effort to avoid the emotional attachment with the most recent girlfriend but couldn’t do it. I’ve been in a s~~~ vortex for a couple months now after a 2 year relationship.

[AutoliteParticipant]

ghost wrote:

I’ve been in a s~~~ vortex for a couple months now after a 2 year relationship.

Well, is it something that you can just walk away from without any legal ties or obligations? If it is, then just do so…

[JVBParticipant]

Time to go bro. Don’t do this to yourself any longer.

Peace is > piece.

[ghostParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

Well, is it something that you can just walk away from without any legal ties or obligations? If it is, then just do so…

Yes. Trying my best.

JVB wrote:

Time to go bro. Don’t do this to yourself any longer.

Some days are better than others.

[Anonymous 18]

ghost wrote:

Do NOT get emotional

Don’t invest in a woman emotionally.

Its perfectly okay to be emotional and deny a woman an opportunity to ruin your day.

Repulsion at sloots is a good emotion.

And aren’t they all one form or another just exploiting your good nature my man?

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

And aren’t they all one form or another just exploiting your good nature my man?

You bet.

[Anonymous 42]

ghost wrote:

been in a s~~~ vortex for a couple months now after a 2 year relationship.

You can’t have a “relationship” with a woman, it’s absolute trust and obedience to your life and your being the captain and them first mate.

^^^^^That is the “old order” when men ruled supreme over our own lives and women were nothing more than an accessory unlike now where society dictates they’re the center of the universe and all things orbit around them.

The “new order” is MGTOW or loose everything to indentured servitude at best, brutal slavery on average, and death at worst!

I’m of the “new order” and that’s MGTOW!

I’m of the order that came in on the heels of feminism like shark after a swimmer!

[AutoliteParticipant]

ghost wrote:

Yes. Trying my best.

“There is no ‘try'” (and you know the rest).

If you’re only investment is an emotional tie, then just bolt! If there are no legal or financial obligations then leave. It’s the ideal situation if there’s nothing else holding you back. It just doesn’t get any easier than that…

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

In any relationship with a woman you should never make her feel like she cannot be replaced. That is if you want a relationship that lasts more than 3 – 6 months. My rule of thumb with women has been to engage 3 months but even in those 3 months I don’t spend every waking moment with them. There is a reason a woman is willing to do all those things for you when the relationship stars. All the blow jobs, and access to her pussy to lock you down. Keep her off balance and she will only try harder. If she wants to see you tonight, tell her you have prior plans. Text infrequently and when you do keep it curt. Oh and never and I mean never be afraid to tell her no. She wants to watch a chick flick that you have absolutely no interest in, say no. If she wants to go shopping and she wants you to accompany her, say you have better things to do with your time.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

foghornleghorn wrote:

…and never and I mean never be afraid to tell her no. She wants to watch a chick flick that you have absolutely no interest in, say no. If she wants to go shopping and she wants you to accompany her, say you have better things to do with your time.

Good advice there mate. Remember the pure undulating misery of trailing around shops with the woman. Hot sunny day outside, you want to be chilling out, having a few drinks….and some woman is dragging you from shop to shop wanting you to spend money on s~~~e.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Really, a relationship is like gambling isn’t it?
I gambled for a while. I used to think I did OK. I started with a big win, then started thinking that if I invested more of my time and money into it, I would get richer pickings. Truth is I didn’t, in fact I started losing money. The more I invested, the heavier the losses.

Same with women. More you invest time and money wise, more you lose. In the end, just like at the track, you’ll fill someone else’s pockets.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Princekie wrote:

foghornleghorn wrote:

…and never and I mean never be afraid to tell her no. She wants to watch a chick flick that you have absolutely no interest in, say no. If she wants to go shopping and she wants you to accompany her, say you have better things to do with your time.

Good advice there mate. Remember the pure undulating misery of trailing around shops with the woman. Hot sunny day outside, you want to be chilling out, having a few drinks….and some woman is dragging you from shop to shop wanting you to spend money on s~~~e.

Yep, I work with guys who f~~~ing slave away everyday of the week and their plans for the weekend are completely controlled by their wives. These poor schmucks get the joy of lugging around the shopping bags during their day off from work. They don’t even get to enjoy their time off. I remember one guy I worked with who had been married for 20+ years and he stated that the only joy he has anymore in his life is when he mows his yard. Just pause and consider that, this guy works his ass off and his wife is a stay at home woman. His weekends were completely manipulated by his wife to go shopping and doing other mundane insane things like that. So much so that his only joy at home was to do yardwork.

[Anonymous 8]

foghornleghorn wrote:

I remember one guy I worked with who had been married for 20+ years and he stated that the only joy he has anymore in his life is when he mows his yard. Just pause and consider that, this guy works his ass off and his wife is a stay at home woman. His weekends were completely manipulated by his wife to go shopping and doing other mundane insane things like that. So much so that his only joy at home was to do yardwork.

Poor guy, it was probably the only time he could hear himself think, can’t get henpecked over the noise from a lawnmower.

[ghostParticipant]

foghornleghorn wrote:

In any relationship with a woman you should never make her feel like she cannot be replaced.

I’m tired of these games man. It’s just frustrating and it’s not my nature to be an asshole. I wasn’t raised that way.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

ghost wrote:

foghornleghorn wrote:

In any relationship with a woman you should never make her feel like she cannot be replaced.

I’m tired of these games man. It’s just frustrating and it’s not my nature to be an asshole. I wasn’t raised that way.

It sounds like you’ve got quite a difficult emotional dilemma going on Gambit mate.

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