Bettina Arndt on the sociology of online dating

[joetechParticipant]

I found it quite interesting. Thoughts?

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Too many used cars coming in…..

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[joetechParticipant]

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

Too many used cars coming in…..

I like when she says about one of the introduction services that the only man they introduced her friend to was her ex husband…hilarious.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[HitmanParticipant]

this overly articulate c~~~ croaks like a frog..
go to the 25min. mark,
and check what she says…
..there..
she’s completely out of touch with reality.
no surprise here..
“divorced women are more financially secure ,
than men who are divorced”…
.
forgive my para phrasing..
but DUH.
.
Wallet Rape .
C’mon please..
she doesn’t know how MEN get screwed over ???
..she makes a living from too many women,
with too many standard’s,
trying to meet men ,
who got F~~~ED by the legal system.
.
buy cat’s ladies…
the entire system has been stacked against men for generations..
.
you stabbed us with the law,
and want us to run to you..
..nice try.
aint happening.
.
good post joe..
shows monkey branching females swinging till they are alone.
Hasta La Vista Baby.
.
MEN ARE THE PRIZE.
you do NOT get a participation trophy for THIS event bitches!!!

[Anonymous 25]

The only thing that stands out in her ‘theory’ is that as usual women don’t look at their own behaviour or take any responsibility.

I’m professional and well educated and I wouldn’t touch any of them with a barge pole. There’s lots of educated professional men on here that don’t want a woman either.

The fact is, women are unpleasant and unlikeable and the legal system is corrupt against men because of women like Harriet Harmen and Hitlery Clinton, so it’s dangerous for men to be around women

They better get used to this, not only are men refusing to date or marry them, men are also now refusing to speak to them more generally

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I’m staunchly against the term “online dating”.

I call it –>> “online EMAILing” and nothing else.

It’s called “online dating” for women, so they can romanticize, and they will fabricate “chemistry”, “attraction” and a “connection” they can somehow “feel” through the internet. Judging character by a couple of paragraphs someone posts on their profile – or even putting forth a perception of themselves based on that.

Women actually think they are good at it.
They are complete s~~~ at it.

ALL “dating” happens in the real world – where there is hair to smell, hands to hold and boobs to fondle. The purpose of “online emailing” sites is to meet in person as quickly as possible.

Explain that to a woman and watch her push back on it. She’s like “Mmmmm I’d rather develop a connection here first and get to know you better” . . . . while she rehearses and re-writes her replies and strategically calculates her responses…. trying to figure out “what does he really mean?” between typed sentences.

No.

You don’t get to do that when you meet someone in life. You don’t say “Im sorry I can’t speak with you right now until we email back and forth for a couple of weeks first,… so I can get to know you better electronically“.

EVERYTHING pertaining to “online dating” that goes beyond “online emailing” is complete bogus. The purpose is for one thing only. To meet someone in the real world – as soon as possible – whom you wouldn’t otherwise meet at random for various reasons. AND TO HAVE FUN.

Remember that?

FUN??

Try and have some “fun” on a date in 2017. I double-dare you. To a woman, it’s procedure like a job interview, or a hysterectomy. Women actually approach it like a man they never met or interacted with should want a “serious” relationship. “Don’t contact me unless you’re looking for a serious relationship”. It’s unbelievable.

The female idea that they can create a profile and – POOF!!! – magically get to have some decision ( or control ) over when Mister Right is supposed to waltz into her life is a joke. And if you’re not mister right within three emails, she won’t even want to meet you because you didn’t *type* the right thing. “Online dating” is what a woman loves to call it while she orders a man like she orders a pizza.

That’s not even exaggerating.

“I just signed up for online dating! He should be this, he should look like that, he should say this, he should do that, he must do this, he wouldn’t do that….. Is this thing on? Where is he?”

. . . . with double cheese and pepperoni and I want him here in 30 minutes or it’s free.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 25]

Keymaster wrote:

“I just signed up for online dating! He should be this, he should look like that, he should say this, he should do that, he must do this, he wouldn’t do that….. Is this thing on? Where is he?”

Yeah, what a catch. Not a thought given to what she has to offer and brings to the table. And they’re all like that on internet dating.

I just put a profile up now with a couple of pics, I’ve no intention of ever using the site. I just troll them, lots message me.

Internet dating sites are for men to say to women: look what you can’t have. enjoy your cats

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

The only thing that stands out in her ‘theory’ is that as usual women don’t look at their own behaviour or take any responsibility.

I’m professional and well educated and I wouldn’t touch any of them with a barge pole. There’s lots of educated professional men on here that don’t want a woman either.

The fact is, women are unpleasant and unlikeable and the legal system is corrupt against men because of women like Harriet Harmen and Hitlery Clinton, so it’s dangerous for men to be around women

They better get used to this, not only are men refusing to date or marry them, men are also now refusing to speak to them more generally

They are not worth the effort, mate. Plenty of good looking, educated and healthy men who are going or have gone their own way. Unfortunately, we wouldn’t get to this point without having personal experiences. We all had to go through a certain amount of pain to arrive at the conclusions we have. We uncovered the truths of female nature after we were treated like a utility. Never again.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

ghost wrote:

They are not worth the effort, mate

For me the absolute buzzkill is when someone isn’t any FUN – because that’s what it’s supposed to be. If I’m not having any fun, I don’t wanna know her. I don’t even care how hot she is. Bring that to the table FIRST. If she won’t bring that, she’s done.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 18]

Keymaster wrote:

“Don’t contact me unless you’re looking for a serious relationship”. It’s unbelievable.

I used to find it confusing as to how two people can consider serious relationship without knowing each other.

You NEED to get to know her before you can even consider anything ‘serious’. Which for a woman is code word for a man emotionally investing in her so she can feel free to use him as a spring board to monkey branch.

It all turned out to be an irony of Blue pill hell:

-Most of these women who demand a serious relationship have been f~~~ed and chucked enough times for them to assume that Chad will look at her profile and go ‘oh my, she is a decent girl she don’t want no c~~~ for fun. I must not tempt her’.

-More than few had a f~~~ buddy who was f~~~ing her brains out while she was out on dating site looking for someone to love her. They never understood my reasoning for calling them out on this duplicity.

Things were better when men kept a lid on women’s stupidity because they didn’t want other men to think how dumb their wives/mothers/daughters were.

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