Being a dad

[JosephParticipant 274]

My kid was taken from me so I never had a chance to be a father. I’m at peace with that fact now. Having kids and then seeing something really terrible happen to them changes a man. Makes a man realize this world is dangerous hell. The world is a s~~~ hole and hell hole. If you want to have kids in such a place you better make sure you can protect them.

How will you be able to protect your children when there are people stronger than you with more POWER who can take them away at any moment? It’s too dangerous to have kids in this hell hole s~~~ hole world.

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[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Tic wrote:

Wtf you talking about you stupid mother fycker.

N~~~~~ please.

I’m not the one spouting off tradcuck judas goat bulls~~~ like: “Lots fathers I know are proud of producing successful children.”

You should know better than to call them fathers, because they’re not. They are nothing but sperm donors and ATMs. They are cucks and chumps.

You have a problem with the system and woman why you do you have to be jerk to a fellow member.

I have a problem with tradcuck judas goat bulls~~~, and those who speak it are unworthy of respect. But if you go back and actually read what I’ve written, you’ll see that my contempt is for what you’ve said, not you.

You are the one taking this personally, and making it personal.

[TicParticipant 4329]

sidecar wrote:

tic wrote:

Wtf you talking about you stupid mother fycker.

N~~~~~ please.
I’m not the one spouting off tradcuck judas goat bulls~~~ like: “Lots fathers I know are proud of producing successful children.”
You should know better than to call them fathers, because they’re not. They are nothing but sperm donors and ATMs. They are cucks and chumps.

You have a problem with the system and woman why you do you have to be jerk to a fellow member.

I have a problem with tradcuck judas goat bulls~~~, and those who speak it are unworthy of respect. But if you go back and actually read what I’ve written, you’ll see that my contempt is for what you’ve said, not you.
You are the one taking this personally, and making it personal.

Bulls~~~. You made it f~~~ing personal and leave the racial slurs for someone else. Lol. Motherf~~~er putting words in my mouth. There are fathers that are proud of their sons. That’s the way the world should work. If it didn’t work for you, that’s fine. Doesnt mean it doesn’t exist. I didn’t anything tradcon. I stated being a father isn’t worth. In fact I agree with 95% of what you said. Except you said like a f~~~ing asshole. Which is why I got upset. You keep going on about nonsense, nothing that even came close to what I have claimed

You want to converse, then fine. Be a gentleman about it. You don t, don’t. But don’t be rude to me pal.

God bless peace and freedom.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Tic wrote:

You made it f~~~ing personal

No.

You are taking it personally.

You are the one who started with this “stupid mother fycker” business.

I have merely pointed out that your position is false and untenable and shown due contempt for your silly ideas, and then further contempt for your insults.

There are fathers that are proud of their sons.

No. There aren’t. BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT FATHERS. They do not meet the standard of fatherhood, because meeting the standard of fatherhood is now illegal. This is not their fault. It’s the fault of the feminist courts for making them thus, but the fact remains: they are not fathers.

If you understood Going Your Own Way, you would know that. Why is that so difficult for you to understand?

Be a gentleman about it.

You are conflating agreeing with you with “being a gentleman”, which is fundamentally a shaming tactic. You should know better than to try that here. Who does that?

No, seriously, who actually does that? Let’s look at your track record so far:

1. You espouse invalid tradcuck beliefs about “fatherhood”.
2. You take rebuttal of your unsupportable position personally.
3. You get angry and upset from that rebuttal. (Cognitive dissonance much?)
4. You make personal attacks and insults.
5. You refuse accountability for the above by crying “you did it first” even though that’s patently untrue.
6. You try to use shaming language to shut down the argument.

And so on. There’s more, but that’s enough to go on.

What sort of person behaves like that? Hint: they often claim to be dolphin safe. I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt here and assuming you’re not actually that sort of person, but you sure as hell are acting like you are. You probably want to do something about that.

Abandon your precious ego. Go back and read what I’ve said, and understand that fatherhood is a lie. When people say “father” these days, all that actually mean is “chump”. So why would you persist in using that word?

[TicParticipant 4329]

I 100% stand with I said. Fathers make this world go around Without them, you have single mothers and see what that has done for many communities. It is a sacred role and it’s to be honored.

But just as I said. In this day and age, it is foolish to have kids. I said that. In my first post. The negatives outweigh the benefits. I said that. In my first post.

You started rude with me and hence I reacted. I notice that despite all the bulls~~~ brotherhood here, people go to each other’s throats. Many times it has happened. Yes, I took it personal. I try to be civil. But it doesn’t work here sometimes. Think what you want of me. But here I am, a single man, childless, accepting the notion that I will never be a father. And that’s a good thing. Because, it would be Foolish.

God bless peace and freedom.

[HermitParticipant]

Tic wrote:

I 100% stand with I said. Fathers make this world go around Without them, you have single mothers and see what that has done for many communities. It is a sacred role and it’s to be honored.
But just as I said. In this day and age, it is foolish to have kids. I said that. In my first post. The negatives outweigh the benefits. I said that. In my first post.
You started rude with me and hence I reacted. I notice that despite all the bulls~~~ brotherhood here, people go to each other’s throats. Many times it has happened. Yes, I took it personal. I try to be civil. But it doesn’t work here sometimes. Think what you want of me. But here I am, a single man, childless, accepting the notion that I will never be a father. And that’s a good thing. Because, it would be Foolish.

I am very proud of my son and I AM HIS FATHER. He and I have always had a good relationship as he was growing up and now that he is 23, we still have a very good relationship. He understands how women are and even though he loves his mother, he understands and sees her female faults as well. I couldn’t have asked for a better son.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Hermit wrote:

tic wrote:

I 100% stand with I said. Fathers make this world go around Without them, you have single mothers and see what that has done for many communities. It is a sacred role and it’s to be honored.But just as I said. In this day and age, it is foolish to have kids. I said that. In my first post. The negatives outweigh the benefits. I said that. In my first post.You started rude with me and hence I reacted. I notice that despite all the bulls~~~ brotherhood here, people go to each other’s throats. Many times it has happened. Yes, I took it personal. I try to be civil. But it doesn’t work here sometimes. Think what you want of me. But here I am, a single man, childless, accepting the notion that I will never be a father. And that’s a good thing. Because, it would be Foolish.

I am very proud of my son and I AM HIS FATHER. He and I have always had a good relationship as he was growing up and now that he is 23, we still have a very good relationship. He understands how women are and even though he loves his mother, he understands and sees her female faults as well. I couldn’t have asked for a better son.

It’s good to hear that, hermit. It’s a blessing to have a good son, because I believe that’s what I am for my own father. Even though, we are at odds a lot.

Without you, he may have been lost in this world, because you can give him guidance and are a role model. That’s the way the world has worked for millenia. Now, our culture has become a joke where single mothers are proud to be independent. And we see what that has caused.

God bless peace and freedom.

[HermitParticipant]

Tic wrote:

Hermit wrote:

tic wrote:

I 100% stand with I said. Fathers make this world go around Without them, you have single mothers and see what that has done for many communities. It is a sacred role and it’s to be honored.But just as I said. In this day and age, it is foolish to have kids. I said that. In my first post. The negatives outweigh the benefits. I said that. In my first post.You started rude with me and hence I reacted. I notice that despite all the bulls~~~ brotherhood here, people go to each other’s throats. Many times it has happened. Yes, I took it personal. I try to be civil. But it doesn’t work here sometimes. Think what you want of me. But here I am, a single man, childless, accepting the notion that I will never be a father. And that’s a good thing. Because, it would be Foolish.

I am very proud of my son and I AM HIS FATHER. He and I have always had a good relationship as he was growing up and now that he is 23, we still have a very good relationship. He understands how women are and even though he loves his mother, he understands and sees her female faults as well. I couldn’t have asked for a better son.

It’s good to hear that, hermit. It’s a blessing to have a good son, because I believe that’s what I am for my own father. Even though, we are at odds a lot.
Without you, he may have been lost in this world, because you can give him guidance and are a role model. That’s the way the world has worked for millenia. Now, our culture has become a joke where single mothers are proud to be independent. And we see what that has caused.

One of the reasons I stayed in that s~~~ marriage was because I believed my son deserved both a mother and a father. If she would’ve allowed it, I would’ve stayed longer to raise and protect him, but she kicked me out when he was 17. Thankfully the x didn’t keep me from seeing him so I could still be a father even though I was no longer in his home.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Hermit wrote:

One of the reasons I stayed in that s~~~ marriage was because I believed my son deserved both a mother and a father. If she would’ve allowed it, I would’ve stayed longer to raise and protect him, but she kicked me out when he was 17. Thankfully the x didn’t keep me from seeing him so I could still be a father even though I was no longer in his home.

I don’t know how you guys do it in those type of situations. it’s crazy to think this type of scenario is common place now.

God bless peace and freedom.

[HermitParticipant]

Tic wrote:

Hermit wrote:

One of the reasons I stayed in that s~~~ marriage was because I believed my son deserved both a mother and a father. If she would’ve allowed it, I would’ve stayed longer to raise and protect him, but she kicked me out when he was 17. Thankfully the x didn’t keep me from seeing him so I could still be a father even though I was no longer in his home.

I don’t know how you guys do it in those type of situations. it’s crazy to think this type of scenario is common place now.

It wasn’t easy, but as I said, he was one reason. There were others that kept me enduring the misery, such as not yet having enough money to start over. If she had allowed, by the time I had been financially able, my son would’ve also been old enough to better take care of himself. As it happened, he was so young that the divorce upset him greatly and I had to take out over $12,000.00 of my retirement to survive until I was more financially stable.

Yeah, marriage and kids………..there’s a reason I swore none of that was going to happen, but who knows how my life would’ve turned out if it hadn’t? One good thing about the marriage and being a dad is, it grew me up and taught me quite a bit, even if the lessons were very hard.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Hermit wrote:

It wasn’t easy, but as I said, he was one reason. There were others that kept me enduring the misery, such as not yet having enough money to start over. If she had allowed, by the time I had been financially able, my son would’ve also been old enough to better take care of himself. As it happened, he was so young that the divorce upset him greatly and I had to take out over $12,000.00 of my retirement to survive until I was more financially stable.

Stories like yours are what’s important to educate the young men out there.

God bless peace and freedom.

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