Becoming a Perpetual Virgin

[FeralParticipant 98]

the rest of my life

“the rest of your life”, does not make sense.

Make money, go on holidys abroad and, when there, enjoy plenty of sex.

In North Americ, be extremely cautious.
(1) be super careful to sexually transmitted diseases
(2) be careful to only go out with girls who are not dangerous, and, even then, see if you can just get blowjobs and kiss them down there, initially. It is great fun even if you limit yourself to that.

As you will get more and more expert, with no hurry at all, you will understand, when and how to take the risk of pumping a few selected girls (and after pumping, make sure to smarty let them think that they dumped you, instead of having them hate you for feeling dumped).

As you are young, focus on a long-term plan to leave the USA and to live abroad, for, at least, many years.
There are many countries out there where, as a man, you can live very happily and bang as much as you will like with no risks.

[President CamachoParticipant 941]

I would like to experience it once just to see how it feels. One of these days maybe I’ll get around to it.

A Western marriage that survives in the current year is an act of mercy and compassion by the woman.

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Taking your age into strong consideration I’d like to say this:

You havent settled in a way of thinking or feeling right now.You will be effected by various observations and expieriences and as you age you will begin to think differently.Not everything you beilieve will change but a lot will.

Don’t think life will be fair but don’t close yourself off to others.
Don’t let people take advantage of you and dont take advantage of others.
Be intent on understanding and discerning the intentions of others.
Odds arent in your favor with women but thats not to say anythings wrong with you.
Do not be your own worst enemy.

And, you always have the oppurtunity to live the way you want to or should.

Your so young.Don’t make other peoples problems your own(attempt not to take this out of context)

[Ice-JiubParticipant 491]

President Camacho wrote:

I would like to experience it once just to see how it feels. One of these days maybe I’ll get around to it.

Here’s an accurate simulation:

1) Go to the bad part of town at night.
2) Have every drunk woman, homeless man, and junky vomit into and/or rub their genitals on your fleshlight.
3)???
4) No, nobody profits here.

But seriously, it’s your own way you’re going. Take the side roots (I’m sorry…) if you have to, but try to stay focused on the main path if you can.

[Anonymous 1]

I went through the same crisis when I was your age. I decided at the time to get laid. Changed my mind when I found out my girlfriend had been with well over 20 different guys (age 19) and still pretended to be all innocent and s~~~. Then I thought “perpetual virgin” that suits me just fine.

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

Feral wrote:

the rest of my life

“the rest of your life”, does not make sense.

Make money, go on holidys abroad and, when there, enjoy plenty of sex.

In North Americ, be extremely cautious.
(1) be super careful to sexually transmitted diseases
(2) be careful to only go out with girls who are not dangerous, and, even then, see if you can just get blowjobs and kiss them down there, initially. It is great fun even if you limit yourself to that.

As you will get more and more expert, with no hurry at all, you will understand, when and how to take the risk of pumping a few selected girls (and after pumping, make sure to smarty let them think that they dumped you, instead of having them hate you for feeling dumped).

As you are young, focus on a long-term plan to leave the USA and to live abroad, for, at least, many years.
There are many countries out there where, as a man, you can live very happily and bang as much as you will like with no risks.

Thanks, Feral. I do plan to travel the world and get a better education than I ever did in high school. I’m deciding between the military (Coast Guard or Air Force) and entrepreneurship at this point.

Unfortunately, I’m not sure that the quality of women outside the U.S. is much better. I would like to visit Asia and Europe, but I fear that because of my skin color (brown) I will not be as accepted as someone who is Asian or white.

The problem lies in courting women; unfortunately, as an introvert, I have no clue about how to even attract them, let alone even maintain a steady relationship. Even if I educate myself on how women work, I don’t know if it’s ultimately worth it in the end. Plus, I don’t want to continuously deal with s~~~ tests and drama; I deal with that enough already. Prostitution is even riskier, but also begets a sense of desperation to me.

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

Execration wrote:

Taking your age into strong consideration I’d like to say this:

You havent settled in a way of thinking or feeling right now.You will be effected by various observations and expieriences and as you age you will begin to think differently.Not everything you beilieve will change but a lot will.

Don’t think life will be fair but don’t close yourself off to others.
Don’t let people take advantage of you and dont take advantage of others.
Be intent on understanding and discerning the intentions of others.
Odds arent in your favor with women but thats not to say anythings wrong with you.
Do not be your own worst enemy.

And, you always have the oppurtunity to live the way you want to or should.

Your so young.Don’t make other peoples problems your own(attempt not to take this out of context)

Thank you very much for the advice, friend. I’ll make sure to save this advice somewhere I can refer to it.

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

Anonymous wrote:

I went through the same crisis when I was your age. I decided at the time to get laid. Changed my mind when I found out my girlfriend had been with well over 20 different guys (age 19) and still pretended to be all innocent and s~~~. Then I thought “perpetual virgin” that suits me just fine.

I’m sorry you had to go through that. That epitomizes my biggest concern when it comes to dating.

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[Joey BrooksSpectator 29]

The problem lies in courting women; unfortunately, as an introvert, I have no clue about how to even attract them, let alone even maintain a steady relationship.

Get this book (or E-Book) and read it…TWICE! “Models: Attract Women Through Honesty” by Mark Manson. I was thinking of writing a book myself on this subject but in doing some research I found that this guy already nailed it. This is NOT one of those “How To Pick Up Women” books, although it will help you greatly in this regard. It’s more about how to LOOK and ACT around women so they are attracted to you. Especially how NOT TO ACT. If I recall the E-Book cost me $9US.

Even if I educate myself on how women work, I don’t know if it’s ultimately worth it in the end. Plus, I don’t want to continuously deal with s~~~ tests and drama; I deal with that enough already.

Man…in the modern day of cell phones it is SO much easier. You just delete/block the Drama Queen’s number and move on. Best to do this during a vacation so she can’t track you down immediately. But that’s another story.

Contrary to what many here talk about, women are FUN! I have gone two or three years without one due to my adventure travels where I just didn’t have time or money for them, but I also had a one-man escort service with over 60 clients while I was in college. No, I wasn’t screwing most of them but you figure how many lonely friends 60 normal women have and this gave me access to hundreds of women to date when I was in my 20s.

Of course, you have to be careful and choose wisely. You have to consider disease and pregnancy protection fo sho. Nowadays, there are legal issues to worry about with rising claims of date rape if the girl is drunk when you have sex. Having sex with a drunk/drugged women is IDIOTIC, lazy, and impatient way to get laid, but many here have made that mistake, paid the price, and now come here all butt-hurt hating all the women in the universe. With the 200+ women I have dated or been really, really close with I have only come across TWO impossible, stupid, mean bitches. But since I had the sense to not MARRY any of them, I just stopped seeing them when they “changed”.

I could go on and on here, and people are going to flame me for certain. DO NOT go through life without ever getting laid. That is just not normal and I don’t care if you are a Catholic priest, bishop, nun, ninja, sumo wrestler, or actual monk. Don’t rush it, but get yourself laid before you turn 25, and don’t get stuck with ONE GIRL EVER. Well…at least until you hit 40, then maybe if the right one comes along.

Prostitution is even riskier, but also begets a sense of desperation to me.

If you are flush with cash and visit areas where prostitution is legal and regulated then it’s just like going to a restaurant. You just order what you want and get what you order. You get physical release but miss out on sexual tension that comes with meeting, getting to know, and eventually getting physical with a woman who actually likes YOU.

Yes, as with anything worth doing there is a price to pay. No doubt. But if you handle it correctly and be smart, you will have a boat load of fun with many women.

Get the book. Read it. Twice at least. (I have no connection to that author whatsoever other than reading the book).

Cheers!

If you could walk through walls, would you still use doors?

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

Joey Brooks wrote:

The problem lies in courting women; unfortunately, as an introvert, I have no clue about how to even attract them, let alone even maintain a steady relationship.

Get this book (or E-Book) and read it…TWICE! “Models: Attract Women Through Honesty” by Mark Manson. I was thinking of writing a book myself on this subject but in doing some research I found that this guy already nailed it. This is NOT one of those “How To Pick Up Women” books, although it will help you greatly in this regard. It’s more about how to LOOK and ACT around women so they are attracted to you. Especially how NOT TO ACT. If I recall the E-Book cost me $9US.

Even if I educate myself on how women work, I don’t know if it’s ultimately worth it in the end. Plus, I don’t want to continuously deal with s~~~ tests and drama; I deal with that enough already.

Man…in the modern day of cell phones it is SO much easier. You just delete/block the Drama Queen’s number and move on. Best to do this during a vacation so she can’t track you down immediately. But that’s another story.

Contrary to what many here talk about, women are FUN! I have gone two or three years without one due to my adventure travels where I just didn’t have time or money for them, but I also had a one-man escort service with over 60 clients while I was in college. No, I wasn’t screwing most of them but you figure how many lonely friends 60 normal women have and this gave me access to hundreds of women to date when I was in my 20s.

Of course, you have to be careful and choose wisely. You have to consider disease and pregnancy protection fo sho. Nowadays, there are legal issues to worry about with rising claims of date rape if the girl is drunk when you have sex. Having sex with a drunk/drugged women is IDIOTIC, lazy, and impatient way to get laid, but many here have made that mistake, paid the price, and now come here all butt-hurt hating all the women in the universe. With the 200+ women I have dated or been really, really close with I have only come across TWO impossible, stupid, mean bitches. But since I had the sense to not MARRY any of them, I just stopped seeing them when they “changed”.

I could go on and on here, and people are going to flame me for certain. DO NOT go through life without ever getting laid. That is just not normal and I don’t care if you are a Catholic priest, bishop, nun, ninja, sumo wrestler, or actual monk. Don’t rush it, but get yourself laid before you turn 25, and don’t get stuck with ONE GIRL EVER. Well…at least until you hit 40, then maybe if the right one comes along.

Prostitution is even riskier, but also begets a sense of desperation to me.

If you are flush with cash and visit areas where prostitution is legal and regulated then it’s just like going to a restaurant. You just order what you want and get what you order. You get physical release but miss out on sexual tension that comes with meeting, getting to know, and eventually getting physical with a woman who actually likes YOU.

Yes, as with anything worth doing there is a price to pay. No doubt. But if you handle it correctly and be smart, you will have a boat load of fun with many women.

Get the book. Read it. Twice at least. (I have no connection to that author whatsoever other than reading the book).

Cheers!

Good to see you again, Joey. I’ll make sure to pick up the book as soon as possible and read it. I’ll see how I feel once I go out into the world; maybe I can find something. Thank you for the valuable wisdom and insight.

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

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