Because that's what they want!

[MR TVParticipant 67]

Feminists are always complaining about violence against women–maybe that’s what they want! I had some dates with a chick named Lori. One night we had dinner at her place and drank some wine and talked. I had brought a video that I wanted Lori to see. About midnight she’s like,  “Let’s go in the bedroom and watch the video!” It seemed to be a suggestive situation. While we watched the video I asked Lori if I could give her a neck and shoulders message. She said yes. After I had been messaging her neck for a few minutes I tried to kiss her. She said, “I don’t want to have sex with you, because I’m not in love with you.” She said she was in love with a woman named Darcy. (Lori is bi). Darcy

was a 16-hour a day alcoholic with warrants in every nearby county. Darcy was currently in a mental hospital. I made a few more passes at Lori, but nothing seemed to work so I gave up and went home. Lori and I stayed friends and continued to talk on the phone together. One day when I was talking to Lori on the phone, she said, “Darcy broke into my house and beat me up! I curled up into a ball and hid under the couch, but she kept kicking me anyway. She completely tore my house apart, it went on for hours until finally the police came and took her away!” Apparently, she can’t be in love with me, because I’m not an alcoholic who beats her up and tears up her house.

The same was true with Rachel. Rachel was a homeless alcoholic, and I let her stay at my house for a few weeks. She was also very attractive and used to be a model. I tried my best to help  Rachel get on her feet by giving her a free place to stay. I also gave her books on psychology that I thought maybe could help her and talked to her about the 12 step program, which has helped a lot of alcoholics. I also tried to take the relationship to a physical level, but she spurned all of my advances. On Valentine’s Day I gave her a flower and she threw it on the ground and started screaming at me, “I’m not your girlfriend! Don’t get all doey-eyed and start acting like I’m your girlfriend just because it’s Valentine’s Day!” She also stomped on my flower after she threw it on the ground. After being treated like this for too long, I asked her to leave. We still continued to talk on the phone sometimes. I talked to her on the phone about a year later and she said, “My boyfriend has been beating me up! I’ve been in and out of jail over and  over for the past 6 months for domestic violence!” So apparently, if you give a woman flowers and try to help her, she throws the whole thing back in your face. If you’re an alcoholic who beats her up every night you become her boyfriend.

My friend Calvin reported a similar story. He was dating a chick named Vicki. One day she and Vicki were in Calvin’s car and Vicki’s ex-boyfriend started following them. Apparently, the  ex-boyfriend was stalking Vicki. He began firing shots at Calvin’s car. Vicki was scared and Calvin let her stay at his place for a while. In the long run, she went back to the ex-boyfriend, the one who was shooting a gun at her. When I asked Calvin about it he just said, “Because that’s what they want!”

 

 

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

I’ve experienced similar situations when it comes to girls with histories concerning “womanizers”: They all claim they want a man who treats them respectfully, but they only claim that because they’ve already f~~~ed the dude who doesn’t care about them at all. You then either have to become that guy yourself or take your dick off the market because it’s not in demand. Year or two later, they come back complaining that they made the wrong choice because they’re pregnant/broke/been dumped yet again/gained weight/lost their job and wonder why you don’t want them now.

[MR TVParticipant 67]

By “womanizers”, do you mean guys that beat them up? Yeah, that same chick came back over here a few years later and she was pregnant, still homeless, no job, no money. She wanted me to take her to the abortion clinic. At first I said yes, but then when I thought about it, why should I take her to an abortion clinic? She wouldn’t have sex with me and then some guy knocks her up and I’m supposed to be the “white knight” and rescue her by taking her to the abortion clinic. We got into a big  argument and I ended up kicking her out. GOOD RIDDANCE!

[LathanderParticipant 6]

I once argued with my ex in my car. She tried to open the door and go but I  hold her arms and told she cannot go and  was gonna stay. She later  told me that she liked that behaviour of mine. Actually I was quite surprised at I did that! I was not “the bad boy” who talks and acts in a dominant  way.

Also one day same girl started an arguement becayse I refused to see her in 10 minute course break-up, while we spent nearly all of  the day on that times. She didn’t shut up for an hour and she reminded it for hours too. Then we came to my home. We were making foreplay in my  bed (goddamn that was all she gave)   and she  started talking about same subject. I took a deep breath  and thought of a different approach to the problem in cold logic.Girls loved bad boys at all, why not try something different than ı did for months. I touched her ribs and strengthened my grip suddenly.Not with full power of course but enough to give her little bit pain. She got angry and said things like “what are you doing? Are you mad?” I went with compassionate and kind approach  and said “sorry but you pushed it to far, you should not have said that”. She didn’t do or said something positive, can’t recall her words exactly. Then I returned to my computer, was  reading a local gun forum  without her in my mind. About 20 minutes later, she came to me, hug me, apologized and was very sweet.

Women  love dominant males and they don’t hate violence as they always say (like it makes them some sort of intellectually superior human being).

I didn’t\ don’t hit  any female  of course , nor do I advice. But this is another proof  for  the difference of what women say and do. They are indeed lack of logic and full of hypocrisy.

 

 

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

MR TV wrote:

Feminists are always complaining about violence against women–maybe that’s what they want! I had some dates with a chick named Lori. One night we had dinner at her place and drank some wine and talked. I had brought a video that I wanted Lori to see. About midnight she’s like, “Let’s go in the bedroom and watch the video!” It seemed to be a suggestive situation. While we watched the video I asked Lori if I could give her a neck and shoulders message. She said yes. After I had been messaging her neck for a few minutes I tried to kiss her. She said, “I don’t want to have sex with you, because I’m not in love with you.” She said she was in love with a woman named Darcy. (Lori is bi). Darcy was a 16-hour a day alcoholic with warrants in every nearby county. Darcy was currently in a mental hospital. I made a few more passes at Lori, but nothing seemed to work so I gave up and went home. Lori and I stayed friends and continued to talk on the phone together. One day when I was talking to Lori on the phone, she said, “Darcy broke into my house and beat me up! I curled up into a ball and hid under the couch, but she kept kicking me anyway. She completely tore my house apart, it went on for hours until finally the police came and took her away!” Apparently, she can’t be in love with me, because I’m not an alcoholic who beats her up and tears up her house. The same was true with Rachel. Rachel was a homeless alcoholic, and I let her stay at my house for a few weeks. She was also very attractive and used to be a model. I tried my best to help Rachel get on her feet by giving her a free place to stay. I also gave her books on psychology that I thought maybe could help her and talked to her about the 12 step program, which has helped a lot of alcoholics. I also tried to take the relationship to a physical level, but she spurned all of my advances. On Valentine’s Day I gave her a flower and she threw it on the ground and started screaming at me, “I’m not your girlfriend! Don’t get all doey-eyed and start acting like I’m your girlfriend just because it’s Valentine’s Day!” She also stomped on my flower after she threw it on the ground. After being treated like this for too long, I asked her to leave. We still continued to talk on the phone sometimes. I talked to her on the phone about a year later and she said, “My boyfriend has been beating me up! I’ve been in and out of jail over and over for the past 6 months for domestic violence!” So apparently, if you give a woman flowers and try to help her, she throws the whole thing back in your face. If you’re an alcoholic who beats her up every night you become her boyfriend. My friend Calvin reported a similar story. He was dating a chick named Vicki. One day she and Vicki were in Calvin’s car and Vicki’s ex-boyfriend started following them. Apparently, the ex-boyfriend was stalking Vicki. He began firing shots at Calvin’s car. Vicki was scared and Calvin let her stay at his place for a while. In the long run, she went back to the ex-boyfriend, the one who was shooting a gun at her. When I asked Calvin about it he just said, “Because that’s what they want!”

I’m sorry man.. I really want to add something intelligent to the conversation but.. um… WTF did I just read?!?!?!?!??! :\

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Lathander wrote:

once argued with my ex in my car. She tried to open the door and go but I  hold her arms and told she cannot go and  was gonna stay. She later  told me that she liked that behaviour of mine. Actually I was quite surprised at I did that! I was not “the bad boy” who talks and acts in a dominant  way. Also one day same girl started an arguement becayse I refused to see her in 10 minute course break-up, while we spent nearly all of  the day on that times. She didn’t shut up for an hour and she reminded it for hours too. Then we came to my home. We were making foreplay in my  bed (goddamn that was all she gave)   and she  started talking about same subject. I took a deep breath  and thought of a different approach to the problem in cold logic.Girls loved bad boys at all, why not try something different than ı did for months. I touched her ribs and strengthened my grip suddenly.Not with full power of course but enough to give her little bit pain. She got angry and said things like “what are you doing? Are you mad?” I went with compassionate and kind approach  and said “sorry but you pushed it to far, you should not have said that”. She didn’t do or said something positive, can’t recall her words exactly. Then I returned to my computer, was  reading a local gun forum  without her in my mind. About 20 minutes later, she came to me, hug me, apologized and was very sweet.

In reading that a second time, I realized that you are indeed on to something. The thing is, I think that behavior was “liked” because that is what SHE wanted at that moment. In the latter situation not so much.

Thing of it is, if she knows that’s not your usual behavior, then she thinks she can normally control you for the most part, yet you can assert dominance when you pressed to. It’s a sick twisted psychology. Almost a level of stupidity and immaturity I don’t want to understand for fear of losing a few brain-cells.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[LathanderParticipant 6]

Binary Logic wrote:

In reading that a second time, I realized that you are indeed on to something. The thing is, I think that behavior was “liked” because that is what SHE wanted at that moment. In the latter situation not so much. Thing of it is, if she knows that’s not your usual behavior, then she thinks she can normally control you for the most part, yet you can assert dominance when you pressed to. It’s a sick twisted psychology. Almost a level of stupidity and immaturity I don’t want to understand for fear of losing a few brain-cells.

 

Good point friend. I felt many times she was putting effort to make me mad.In one occasion when we were arguing, she stood up, put her face close against mine and said “what you are gonna do”, she was taunting me to hit.I  did not, nor was showing signs that I would.
ın latter situation, she was not  expecting it but having verbal dominance over me. After it she used cuteness and boobs to take the control back.

The dominance she wanted was a loud, violent, animalistic rage lack of intelligence. When she was countered with logic, she didn’t like it.

She desired  to see me  dominant on occasions yet tried to control many aspects of my life, from religion to  facial hair.  They want a slave to satisfy their needs, but a strong one.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

I know of two women that are definitely the “hurt me” type.  One likes to be essentially raped, specifically in her car.  Another one likes to be slapped hard in the face during sex.  I know this from two different guys, they were both freaked out by their respective girls bizarre behavior and verbalized it as one of the reasons they stopped hooking up.  Yep girls like bad boys, and yep girls are very twisted when it comes to kink.

Sovereignty above all else.

[MR TVParticipant 67]

!Yes, since I wrote this a few months ago, I’ve experienced the same thing again. I’m a street performer on the beach. A few years ago I met a chick named “C”. We started talking and we seemed to hit it off and then suddenly she said something about “my boyfriend”–great, I thought she was single!  She said her boyfriend was in jail. I asked her on what charges. She said “felony assault, but he got it reduced to a misdemeanor!” She seemed like this hippy chick, she sold crystals and she always talked about peace and love stuff, so it was hard for me to understand why she would be dating a violent felon who had assault charges. I gave up on her since she was dating someone. I talked to her boyfriend on the beach a few months later. He was a homeless addict (of course, the chicks out here always date hoodlums!) He said they had broken up and she was in San Diego. So I thought maybe I would see her when  she got back into town.

A few months ago she came up to me when I was performing on the beach and started coming on to me, like, “Mr TV, let’s get together and hang out tomorrow!” So the next day I went over to her stand and we hung out and talked. So, before I left I said , “Can I call you sometime?”, because she had really been coming on to me the day before. She said, “Yeah, I’ll text you!” Of course she never texted me, it was another dick tease. I’ve put all this work into my act and appeared on national TV and been profiled in the newspapers, but the chicks out here always dick tease me and date homeless losers and guys that beat them up. Because that’s what they want.

[Anonymous 12]

It appears from the OP’s post that women pick female lovers for themselves just as poorly as they choose male ones. Perhaps they just like that idea of being able to “Fix” someone with their oh so powerful pussy…er love. 😉

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