Batman for real

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

Since the introductions are the most important aspect of this site I will come out of the shadows and reveal mine.

In late 2007 I was set up on a blind date by my best friend and his girlfriend. I had never been on a blind date and haven’t been on one since. I wasn’t too sure about it, and asked for a hint, and found out she was asian. I said ok, I’m cool with an asian chick. So I go to my buddy’s girlfriend’s house to meet her. I walk into the room and there is this stunning Korean girl very petite, smiling widely and wearing a short white skirt and denim jacket. I introduce myself and we all take off for the date at a bowling alley. On the way I could tell that she was very interested and eager. I asked her if she was a nympho because I kind of got that vibe, she asked what was that? I also got the innocent good girl vibe from her too. Anyways we go bowling and it goes great, we were drinking Sparks alcoholic energy drinks in the car, we weren’t of age, and when we went to the car things got hot in the back seat in a hurry.

Well the second date was her company Christmas party that we went to and got our first picture taken together, a Polaroid that I kept for a long time, and are relationship really started. Right at about the same time I was in the process of getting hired on to a really good state job. I was also in the Army National Guard at the time and new I was deploying to Iraq in about 6 months. So I thought it was all coming together. I got hired on and went to an academy for 6 weeks. I convinced her to wait for me and date me exclusively and forget about any other guys. She visited me while I was at the academy and stayed over in my hotel a few times. I graduated the academy on my 21st birthday and at the time she was 19. We celebrated and really started our relationship together. She had her own apartment that I would stay at and while I was working and things were great, we got a kitten, she gave me great BJ’s and some of the best sex of my life… We took lots of trips in my Jeep and went offroad in the trees a few times for some wild sex, and I think people were watching. Anyways it was a great six months before I deployed to Iraq.

In August of 2008 I left the states for Kuwait, then eventually northern Iraq, Mosul for a 9 month deployment doing convey security operations. I was a machine gunner, I carried both the M249 and M240 mounted. I went on missions escorting hundred of trucks from Mosul to Turkey and back. We ran into IEDs, we got rocketed on our base 100m from where I slept on Christmas, many times. I’m a field artilleryman so was awarded the combat action badge for taking so much indirect fire while we were there. In April of 2009 I finally got 2 weeks to go home on leave. I almost didn’t get it because I was unmarried and had no children, I guess girlfriends don’t count, luckily I got to fly home though. It was a great 2 weeks, lots of time on the beach in my Jeep with my girl and friends, played some poker tourney’s and won because I was playing so much overseas, so much confidence because I was at war and had to go back..

The last part of my deployment was hard. We got extended from our previous leave date another 3 months. In that time I found out my girlfriend wasn’t being exactly faithful. I had got her a cell phone on my accounted before I left so I could call her. Well it also allowed me to track where the phone was… So I would check and found her at an unknown place near her old home town. I confronted her on it and she confessed that she had gone to see some guy. She said she was crying the whole time while they did it.. Lies.. I was so busted up over it, I was 3 weeks from leaving Iraq. I was in some s~~~ty C-Hut barracks crammed like a sardine, outside with my laptop next to a loud generator when I found this s~~~ out, I thought it wouldn’t happen to me.

Got back home to the states with all my limbs, and the girlfriend was still talking to me. Her and her mom picked me up from the Air Force base where we flew in. She wasn’t the same. I wasn’t the same either but we rekindled our relationship and I put her mistakes behind me in blue pill fashion.

We moved into a bigger apartment together and I went back to work. 2 months back to work and they were talking about closing my facility down because of budget cuts. I had to make a choice to move to another facility or get laid off. She wasn’t working at the time, somewhere along the line she gave up her job as a caregiver for the developmentally disabled. We had a pregnancy scare in this time, which we thought was a miscarriage, I was happy that she was pregnant but it didn’t happen. She didn’t take very good care of her health and wouldn’t eat at some times because she thought she was fat. 5’2″ 102 pounds and she thought she had fat. Anyways we moved across the state and tried to start a new life. This is when everything took a turn for the worst.

I was in the market to buy a house and so we looked at a couple and I picked one. We had to stay in motels for 3 months while we waited for the house to close and move in. The motels weren’t bad and were kind of fun, she would be out looking for a job while I was at work or so I thought. We finally moved into the house in May of 2009 and I thought everything was going good. I was working at a new facility that had opened and it was a new learning experience for me. She on the other hand couldn’t keep a job for more than a month or two. She worked at Victorias Secret, Walgreens, and finally the airport by our house because she dreamed of being a flight attendant. She had an interview for it and flew to Denver. I supported her. She came home without the job. After that things went down hill. Since we weren’t married and I didn’t have the intention of getting married or having kids for that matter she started to grow more distant. I think at that point I was already starting to go MGHOW and didn’t know it. The house was in my name only and so she had no ownership in it. I did all the decorating which wasn’t much, paint a wall here, put some cool s~~~ up over here, a fight club picture there. You get the picture. I wouldn’t pay for cable and didn’t watch TV. We listened to music, drank beer and had sex a lot. All over the house. I made friends with the family accross the street and they gave me my first dog. Then my second. We had two chihuahuas, two cats, and even a snake at one point that my best friend brought me.. more on that later.

So things were going kind of good. Then she started getting sad about her Dad’s health. We visited back home almost every month. Things got worse, since she wasn’t working she would sit at home and go crazy. We started talking about illuminati and morbid s~~~, I started hating working and being house poor because she couldn’t help me with the bills. I had to work more overtime.. Mortgage went up, paycheck went down. She wouldn’t eat, only ate when I was home with her.

We started to argue about everything, she hated my one friend that I hung out with and barbequed with and called him ‘my boyfriend’ He was a buddy that also moved across the state and I knew from my hometown. Him and my neighbors were my only real friends. Well one day the argueing over stupid s~~~ that I can’t even remember escalated to her leaving with her few things and going back to her moms. I was free to do my own things for the whole winter! We still talked, it was just a break. She came back after winter, of course because it’s nice where I was at. We had a good summer and had some friends move in – Husband wife and daughter that were working in the area and needed a place to stay that I knew from hometown. I finally felt a sense of responsibility because I was putting a roof over a little girls head. My girlfriend couldn’t take living with them anymore and that next winter went back to her moms again. Then the family that was staying with me left. I was alone.

This time I said f~~~ it and banged the hot admin girl that I had been eyeing at work in my house. It was just a fling that lasted a week. She broke it off because she told me she didn’t want to date anyone at work. 3 months later she was married to a guy at work. Go figure

So after winter my girlfriend comes back and I being the doormat that I was let her back in. At that point I had already stopped paying the mortgage because I felt like it was over, everyone was gone and I was done being house poor. About a month after she got back I could tell she was getting restless again, having Daddy issues, not eating, and one day I came home and found she had f~~~ed with my 45 pistol, stove piping a round because she couldn’t rack it back all the way. Good thing I didn’t leave a round in the chamber. She was suicidal, Borderline, the whole works, I couldn’t leave her alone for long.

I ended up quitting one day at work after a stressful interaction with my boss and anxiety attack. I was dealing with too much s~~~. The house was going, and so was I. I called her on the way home and said I just quit. She said that’s funny because I was just talking to my mom about how much you work. I said yeah, now we can chill. Things were good for about another month, we hung out watched movies, talked about death, watched videos of people jumping off the golden gate bridge.. Her suicidal thoughts were rubbing off on me. She finally broke it to me that she had an abortion while I was deployed in Iraq. I asked her when she was pregnant and she said right before I left. SHE DIDN’T TELL ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS. That’s when it clicked with me why she was suicidal and all f~~~ed up. Really f~~~ed me up kind of too. Then one day I said it’s time to go home and get out of here. She didn’t even help me pack and left again with her few things. I loaded the whole U haul myself and drove me, an 3 animals home. She took one of the dogs though. I said I have no job and we have no place to live together anymore so she just went to her moms and I went to my Dads

About a month later she brought the dog back because her mom couldn’t handle it, Chihuahuas like to pee in the house. We had some good sex, she f~~~ed me like it was going to be that last time.

I managed to get unemployment insurance paid for quitting because of PTSD. Lived on that for 18 months while I looked for a new job. This is when I really became a MGHOW.

Played video games, did whatever I wanted, visited family, friends, went out drinking. My car finally got repossessed and I had to start biking it. Boy was that awesome! I made lots of new friends and had a biking buddy that we would ride across town, everywhere, to the bars, fishing, learned to fish! I was being free!

Finally got a new job driving taxi, it was cool, they were all electric vehicles and I started at the beginning of summer. I have a few stories, I know their is another guy on here that drove taxi for 20 some years, maybe in another post. Anyways it was a great little gig that put a lot of women in my car.. That ended when I got offered back my job with the state at the original facility that I started at that reopened. I went back to work in September 2013 and have been working ever since banging away at my awesome little MGTOW life. I have had a few flings here and there, but for the most part I’m done with their craziness!

Fishing has been a life saver for me. I do that all that time now, just being with me and maybe a buddy down by the river smoking my pipe and drinking good IPA’s. I don’t even look at these chicks anymore. I’m 29 years old now and had my fun in my early twenties with a little again minx. But it doesn’t last forever.. and I’m over it. MGTOW!

P.S. The snake I had was brought to me by my old bestfriend when he came to visit and it got loose in the house. He was all broken up about losing his girlfriend and lost his mind for some time. He thought a ball python would help…

Well I’m off for now, see you guys on the forums.

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Great story, thanks for sharing.

[Anonymous 42]

Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnn! Abortion, Suicide, infidelity, you had the makings of a genuine nut house! If that doesn’t fire up your MGTOW NOTHING WILL!

Batman, thanks for your service in the sandy s~~~hole. And definitely WELCOME TO MGTOW~!!!You deserve a break! She reminds of my late X sister in-law, she went nuts years ago and died in the loony bin. I don’t miss her, or her kind, and cold COLDheartedly never will!!! One or two those and you learn to scrape females off like stepping in dog s~~~!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

Thanks guys. I turned beat red making that post. Good to release this s~~~. I hope it helps others.

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Holy s~~~ it’s Batman.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Welcome to the forums and thank you for sharing your story.

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