Short sweet simple thread about what character qualities jump out at you as red flags, boner killers, or maybe light up your biological fires and blindly go for the snatch trap in hopes your NAWALT is a UNICORN.
Globally we seem to have a different game we play with women, but the results often end up the same. You only have to read about picking up women around the world and the huge variety of results from place to place, this would indicate the enviromental factors play a large roll in how women develop their roll as gate keepers of sex, and more so the pair bonding dating and mating game.
To keep it simple I’m just going to throw some words at the acronyms about what I see as why I either loose interest, invest in the interest or can’t seem to find me unicorn even though I don’t expect them to s~~~ gold nuggets.
AWALT
FAT is not sexy (ever since I was a youngster I dreamed of a woman smaller than me in my bed. Just like a woman wants a taller man, I want a woman who won’t tip the scales too far past where they stop for me.
WORKER DRONE in the modern day of dating, being time poor makes people stressed and difficult to spend time with. It reduced the time for hangouts, and wears down peeps. Survival of the fittest starts to creep in. Or giving your good face to your job, too tired for anyone else once you clock off.
SMV fail. If the sexual attraction is not there then I’m out, and the older I get the more AWALT.
UNHEALTHY habbits – sure a bit of partying is ok, have a drink from time to time, but if you are not eating right and not exercising, you tend to get unhealthy, and this is ultimately a depreciating asset. Youth is a blessing, to age well you need to put your own health, mentally and physically high on the list of priorities.
PRINCESS, THOT, GOLDIGGER etc – Guess I should add that alot of the beautiful people are the least attractive out there, which really makes it a f~~~ed up game. Give me plain Jane with a good head on her shoulders, and nice body bellow and we are starting to head into NAWALT / UNICORN territory.
NAWALT
RESPECT – not in the way your parents taught you all the pleases and thankyous, although that is a good base for being civil. More along the lines of a heart connection, eb and flow, feeling and absorbing exchanges of energy. Giving you a chance when you step out side the boundaries and not reacting to the back and fro. Finding balance and understanding different levels of vibration, ie energy of two people is going to be greatly different, taking the time to see how these energies balance out over a span of time, and not being the vampire who is always draining.
HEALTHY BODY, MIND = SEX BOMB – I live a very active lifestyle. I learnt the hard way in my twenties the pitfalls of not respecting your body. I’ve changed that curve and going monk has helped to nail the basics – eats, sleeps, exercise, banter. I find women attractive who tick off these boxes because I know in another 5 years they will still be looking and feeling great. Lots of young women have a rude awakening with the wall, it can be dealyed though diciplined approach to maintaing body and mind.
UNICORN
NAWALT plus more – basically the NAWALTS seem to be pretty rare or already dating, and often get a bad attitude as they are not finding their “where have all the good men gone?” – WHATGMG. For me a unicorn would be someone who stays a NAWALT and doesn’t bait and switch to the status quo.
Anyway, just a random thought that I thought I’d throw into the manosphere about how my idea of a NAWALT is pretty simples really, yet here I am 20 years an adult and still without my unicorn. Of course this is tip of the iceberg type stuff and dosn’t get into divorce etc etc, but I seriously think people are being conditioned to chase cash and prizes rather than be good people. Sayings like “I’d rather cry in the back seat of a BMW than smile on a back of a bike.” seem to sum up alot of the hypergamous nature we see around us today.
"Society is to blame" Denton
Awakened 1 year, 2 months ago.
