AWALT, hypergamy, boredom, rationalization, gynosociety, & divorce rape

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22514]

In the past hypergamy was restrained by religion, society and family and the law. Now its applauded, religion is neutered on its comments about it, and its affirmed by society, government, family and the courts.

AWALT means all women will be hypergamous now and in the future. Given the big shifts supporting in every aspect of life, its a given it will occur, and every straight man in a relationship will experience its negative consequences at some point. All men are just the current guy, all men are the future asshole. Most married men will be divorce raped at least once.

In society today womens desire for tingles must be met. With c~~~. With exciting situations, routine is boring. Weddings are exciting. Marriage is boring. Women dont want to be in a stable regular routine. Boredom. You’re boring, i am divorcing you. My life is boring and not exciting. Your c~~~ isn’t doing it for me anymore. We dont have spontaneous sex anymore (forgetting SHE is the one who changed the sex to be on the same day, same time, same way, and if you don’t have sex then, you won’t have it that week).

There’s a component to the boredom that we overlook and rarely mention. Its not merely boredom. Women actively grow to hate the man they are with. See they begin to hate him because their life isn’t what they expected, its the guys fault they are unhappy and bored.

They begin to hate the man and what he does, his habits, hobbies, friends, things he does. This is the s~~~ testing stuff, sniping off the stuff they are beginning to hate.

This is really nothing more than women being allowed to be rewarded for living the idiom, “familiarity breeds contempt.”

See, now marriage is where people live together and start a life, together, they LIVE together, know what they do, better than anyone. They see the good and bad in people, the stuff they like and dont like. With women they get bored and hate the routine, and see the stuff the man does that they don’t do or dont like, and begin to hate these things. The familiarity doesn’t make them love the man more for the things they like that he provides or does, it makes them hate him for all the stuff he does they dont like.

In the past women’s restraints kept them in check, because they basically kept the women realizing they were not perfect princesses who did nothing wrong or bad the guy had to put up with. Today this is no longer true. Women today believe they are always right, the man is always wrong, men must apologize even when the woman is wrong and he is right. Women are hyper-justified in believing they are always correct in their assessments and actions, and as such, their contemtpt for their current man is 100% justified, and further, they do not ever do anything that the man can view with contempt. She has no respect for him because he’s stupid, he does stuff she cannot stand, and the routine they are trying to have as a couple is driving them crazy.

All of society reinforces this viewpoint.

This is why the bitchy woman of today who finds fault and boredom with their current man feels totally vindicated to dump him for any reason, never even thonks there are any problems with herself.

And because she winds up hating her man, despising him, their routine together, she also feels totally vindicated to divorce rape him in court. He deserves it because she now hates him. She hates a married life with him, or a long term relationship with him, and the contempt she has built up against him now means shes deserves a payout and pound of flesh from the man.

There is no incentive left for women to try to salvage the relationship, there are no downsides to them leaving. They have already warped their image of the man, they dont have to try and work on anything like they did in the past. All the rewards come to them regardless. And since she is bored with him, and hate him, and desire to punish him, she will divorce rape him and take his money and hurt him, and society will reward her, and itself at his expense.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Your last paragraph hits the nail on the head. The family courts just female courts, concerned with her well being. She accuses you of or demands X, you provide evidence that X is false or unfair. The court decides it’s he said she said and ‘mysteriously’ finds in her favor.

She hates me, as her BPD demands of her. However, the culture and courts encouraged her to maximize her demands. I acted fairly and respectfully, bad move. Decision, nearly everything in her favor. I literally have to purchase a 1 million dollar life insurance policy with kid as the beneficiary, which she will get to manage as kid is a minor. I feel like I have a target on my back. Family courts and exes are nasty business and best avoided.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22514]

Wheres her mandatory 1 million dollar insurance policy? What if the kid is left without mommy bitchy?

Wheres the court mandate she have a job and show she supports her kid?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[UntamedParticipant]

It’s a good post, Secret Agent. 100% correct and right on the money. Thank you !
Too bad I couldn’t read that 27yrs ago and avoid me heartache and psychosis but I can still forward it to my son and keep it from getting generational.
I’m glad all you said in your post finally got into my thick head because otherwise I’d still be ruled by my soft head.
LONG LIVE THE RED PILL and LONG LIVE MGTOW !

PS: Don’t EVER believe ONE single f~~~ing word that escapes their lips !

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

To sum all that, is that men are replaceable, we are all expendable.
It is the dimorphism presente on the species, and women know that.

I could not give less than a FF. Women are the way they are, and I cut them no corners, neither give them any crap.

The only thing I wished, was to have this knowledge 20 years ago, it would have prevented me to make a few mistakes, and to live way better and to be further than where I am today.

I thank the men who went through all of this. Without them, I would have never the knowledge I have today.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[McQuadeParticipant 135]

Secret agent has described how my marriage turned out.

I wonder if hypergamy always works out for them.

Do they always try to come back?

My ex called me recently, nearly 2 years after the i am not happy speech and 18 months after she moved out.

We have barely spoken since and only communicated by email if absolutely necessary.

I truly believed she hated me and it was total scorched earth.

Anyway, She was crying and crying,full of regrets and saying she still loved me and made a big mistake blah blah

I actually felt some concern for her well being, but after recalling all the s~~~ she pulled, I mostly felt satisfied in saying that we were finished, no going back, have a nice life.

Then I was thinking, you left because you ‘weren’t happy’, destroyed everything I mainly worked for, but now you still are not happy so you want to come back?? WTF? Insulting to me.

Uncunted

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

All true. Women have weaponized their long-term relationships with men. The risk and consequences of divorce rape are far too high. No wonder marriage rates are plunging. Short-term relationships are no better.

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Untamed wrote:

It’s a good post, Secret Agent. 100% correct and right on the money. Thank you !Too bad I couldn’t read that 27yrs ago and avoid me heartache and psychosis but I can still forward it to my son and keep it from getting generational.I’m glad all you said in your post finally got into my thick head because otherwise I’d still be ruled by my soft head.LONG LIVE THE RED PILL and LONG LIVE MGTOW !
PS: Don’t EVER believe ONE single f~~~ing word that escapes their lips !

You didnt, but i did, im found mgtow 3 years ago, without mgtow, popp, leykis, stardusk, sandman, TFM, i wold be on my way to second marriage, now im 34, whole life ahead of me and RED PILLED AS F~~~.
I got 5 bases ADN, adenine, guanine, citosine, timine and MGTOW.

And a f~~~ing alien to boost.

LET THE CARNAGE BEGIN.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

The family unit has been under attack for years. This is the end of it. It’s no longer worth it. And this is how society dies.

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT
#HIDEYOURWEALTH
#VAGINAISWORTHLESS

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[TwistParticipant]

It is so far beyond boredom. True hate. You would have to hate someone to want to destroy all that is important to them, to destroy the rest of their life with the grasp of the law.

I could never understand the hate (now I do, thanks). I would face hate that could not be greater than if I had burned down the house drunk with the kids and the dog in it. Pure, unadulterated hate. Why?

And there is no answer to the “why?” that makes sense, except as explained in this thread. Because. And this is it: because.

Don’t ever put yourself in a position to be hated. You don’t deserve it. It is horrible to be hated. Just because.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22514]

McQuade wrote:

Secret agent has described how my marriage turned out.
I wonder if hypergamy always works out for them.
Do they always try to come back?
My ex called me recently, nearly 2 years after the i am not happy speech and 18 months after she moved out.
We have barely spoken since and only communicated by email if absolutely necessary.
I truly believed she hated me and it was total scorched earth.
Anyway, She was crying and crying,full of regrets and saying she still loved me and made a big mistake blah blah
I actually felt some concern for her well being, but after recalling all the s~~~ she pulled, I mostly felt satisfied in saying that we were finished, no going back, have a nice life.
Then I was thinking, you left because you ‘weren’t happy’, destroyed everything I mainly worked for, but now you still are not happy so you want to come back?? WTF? Insulting to me.

No it does not always work out for them, as your example shows. Trying to come back is a power play on their part and they know you are the weaker one if you say yes.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22514]

Handsome Vic wrote:

All true. Women have weaponized their long-term relationships with men. The risk and consequences of divorce rape are far too high. No wonder marriage rates are plunging. Short-term relationships are no better.

Women and cuck white knights are even trying to get laws passed that if you just date for awhile and money and lifestyle is affected she can go to court to leech onto assets if you break up.

From just dating.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

McQuade wrote:

She was crying and crying,full of regrets and saying she still loved me and made a big mistake blah blah

I wish I could believe that a woman could be genuinely remorseful, to the point of character growth.

I think it was Matrix or Red-Pillable who once said here, “One Life, One Person, One Chance… that’s it, no exceptions.”

Meaning, it doesn’t matter how she feels now, or the lengths she willing to go to explain how she was wrong or to explain how she’s now changed… It’s too late. You can never give them the opportunity again.

I for one, have embraced that advice. I will not go back.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

At McQuade,
Just after my marriage broke up 15 years ago, when I was still trying to salvage some civility between us (don’t ask me why), I was talking to my ex on the phone and she was methodically going down a list of all the things that were wrong with me. I let her finish and asked her if she thought she’d ever made any mistakes in her relationship with me. She got p~~~ed off and snarled into the phone that the only mistake she ever made was marrying me, then hung up.

I didn’t argue with her at the time. I was already divorced, and she failed to respond to the court papers, so I’d gotten off cheap. I didn’t really need to argue with her. I was just giving her a chance to either declare herself to be perfect, or own up to any mistakes she’d made. She said marrying me was her only mistake.

Not long after that, she found out that I’d bought the dream house and was making significantly more money. We had another phone call where she told me she’d thought about it and decided she wanted to give us another chance. (I passed on that offer).

She has been trying to re-make her mistake for more than 15 years now… 😀

Saying ‘No’ to women is one of the best experiences I’ve ever had. I recommend it for every man at least once in his life. It’s especially important to make ‘No’ the complete sentence. Don’t say, “No, there is someone else now…”, or “No, this is not a good time right now…”. That makes it too easy for them. It leaves room for denial, bargaining, hope… The complete answer is, “No.”

If they want to make it a longer sentence inside their own head, they can complete it with whatever they want. But deep down, it’ll be clear that for the man who is in the best possible position to know exactly what being with them is like, being alone was preferable to being with them.

And that’s exactly the message that “No.” delivers.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

The first no makes you see who they are. The last no, makes you see who you can be.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

No… just like talking to a naughty dog.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

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