Attraction vs Obsession, the Mystery of rejection

[GregB0Participant]

Today’s Wordles.com Thought For the Day quote “The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science. – Albert Einstein” has me considering the sometimes obsessive attraction humans have towards all things mysterious.

This attraction is dramatically different between men and women.

Stonehenge, Nazca Lines, the Plain of Jars in Laos, the Gobekli Tepe are examples of architectural marvels that continue to draw the attention of scientists and the lay public, just as do animals and plants from around the world. Men seem drawn to these marvels of nature, as well as the intricacies of science shown within the atom and interstellar galaxies.

The opposite can be said of women, the rejection by a man is a straight forward and simple matter. “No, I have no interest in you.” Such a simple logical statement of fact can distract and completely sideline a woman for quite sometime.

The absence of attention from men becomes an unavoidable mystery for women. They cannot understand why anyone would ignore them as they continue to inflate their own sense of self-worth and importance over time. As they pass out of their prime, this delusion becomes stronger and stronger, as does their desire to obtain those men who remain unobtainable.

The same absence of attention from women towards a MGTOW man becomes a humorous footnote on the day, or an opportunity to share a red-pill moment for another male.

Despite a man’s continued rejection, women cannot stop thinking about men and the more they are rejected, the more interested women become.

Why the constant search for the mysterious (wanting what one cannot have) when the obvious (having what is readily available) requires no effort.

Is it a chemical reaction that is associated with rewards, pain or addiction, or a legacy genetic trait of being drawn to someone with a higher perceived value? Or are women socialized to be co-dependent or continually seeking to change the story of rejection with a happy ending for once?

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 18]

GregB0 wrote:

The absence of attention from men becomes an unavoidable mystery for women. They cannot understand why anyone would ignore them as they continue to inflate their own sense of self-worth and importance over time. As they pass out of their prime, this delusion becomes stronger and stronger, as does their desire to obtain those men who remain unobtainable.

Extremely true.

The delusions older, post-wall, and especially obese women entertain always baffles me.

I haven’t quite gotten to the root of their entitlement. Perhaps the delusions act to safeguard her non-existing sexual market value; if the woman is low-tier then basically her essential value as a human being as perceived by her own metric of younger days when she was desirable.

GregB0 wrote:

Is it a chemical reaction that is associated with rewards, pain or addiction, or a legacy genetic trait of being drawn to someone with a higher perceived value? Or are women socialized to be co-dependent or continually seeking to change the story of rejection with a happy ending for once?

It is a form of power trip. Once she controls your attention, she controls the levers of manipulation. She can’t manipulate if you do not acknowledge her existence.

Women are far more primitive and society’s generous free pussy passes only prevent their maturation.

[GregB0Participant]

Anonymous wrote:

if the woman is low-tier then basically her essential value as a human being as perceived by her own metric of younger days when she was desirable.

This point is certainly upheld with the marketing and advertising being directed towards women products and services. The illusion of the fountain of youth is still to be seen daily on a cable channel near you.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 18]

GregB0 wrote:

marketing and advertising being directed towards women products and services

They’ll blame men for treating them as sex objects and running off to buy chemicals to doll themselves up to hide the wrinkles.

Patriarchy is in-built women’s DNA. So is misogyny.

Projection 101.

[GregB0Participant]

Anonymous wrote:

Projection 101.

Which goes back to being driving to obtain the greatest value of what is available on the “market”. Be that market men, jobs, social status or any other part of life.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

GregB0 wrote:

marketing and advertising being directed towards women products and services

They’ll blame men for treating them as sex objects and running off to buy chemicals to doll themselves up to hide the wrinkles.

Patriarchy is in-built women’s DNA. So is misogyny.

Projection 101.

: Stop treating me like a sex object!

*wears skirt that barely covers her ass*

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

GregB0 wrote:

the more they are rejected, the more interested women become.

Learned this first hand last week. Got the 1:00 am phone call asking , “why don’t you want my pussy?” All because I did not come running when she called. The less you give them the crazier they become.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

GregB0 wrote:

This point is certainly upheld with the marketing and advertising being directed towards women products and services.

I’ve often reflected on the fact that the vast majority of advertising is directed at women, and that the mental age range of a typical advert is 8-12.

[GregB0Participant]

IRuleMe wrote:

*wears skirt that barely covers her ass*

Which is in keeping with every other woman who is dressed and outside to be noticed. Society has changed from the male of the species having to be flamboyant and colorful to attract the female for mating, to the female dressing in outlandish fashion just to be recognized.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[GregB0Participant]

MarketWatcher wrote:

The less you give them the crazier they become.

So is this because you are rejecting her like others have done?

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[MonkParticipant 16995]

IRuleMe wrote:

[female] Stop treating me like a sex object!
*wears skirt that barely covers her ass*

All the time.

Some skank is parading down the street, cameltoe visible, t~~~ hanging out.

I glance across her because I want to cross the street, and all of a sudden, skankola is theatrically pulling the shirt across, and tugging the skirt down.

FFS.

[GregB0Participant]

Monk wrote:

that the mental age range of a typical advert is 8-12.

—————————— excerpted from —————————————–
https://www.theguardian.com/media-network/2015/jun/22/30-second-commercial-advertising-outdated
Last month, researchers found that viewers who focused just on the TV screen were able to recall 2.43 out of every three brands mentioned, while smartphone and tablet users only managed to recall 1.62 on average.
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As the old military saying goes, K.I.S.S. – Keep It Simple Stupid.

simple, slow and repetition are what it takes to sell things these days. It’s not about the product, but how they show the product looking on other women that seems to be important. Keeping up the Barbie is all important as she is seen as the Alpha of the pack.

You can change the name to anyone on social media/magazines/cable that you like and the results are still the same.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

GregB0 wrote:

So is this because you are rejecting her like others have done?

I do not know. All I do know is that I want to be left alone and live a happy life. I give her nothing, I am not her emotional tampon, and I will not be her white knight. The less I give her the more she wonders why.

Same situation in my previous job. The less I would tell them about my personal life, the more they wanted to know. Nosey, curious, little things they are.

[Fr JackParticipant 926]

Monk wrote:

I glance across her because I want to cross the street, and all of a sudden, skankola is theatrically pulling the shirt across, and tugging the skirt down.

According to the latest Australian survey of university students, you just raped her. What a load of bolloks.

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