Assumption Hell

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

I am sure every guy here has had this happen to them… So I was hiking with this chick friend of mine and she starts talking about this backpacking trip she is going on. I am like hey cool that’s awesome tell me more… she talks about that it will be for 2 days and a bit of a hard hike and the gear she brings etc. I have been on several major hikes carrying heavy loads etc so I know you have to be somewhat fit to make it… so as we are hiking I mention she should do the hike we are now many times with all her gear on to start building up endurance… yeah know like any friend would mention.

Soooooo several days later I get a call from her asking to talk…. So I am like sure what’s up. She says she has been fuming over my comment to her and reems me out saying I should have not made any comments to her about getting more fit for the trip as she thinks that I am calling her fat. I had to hold back myself from telling her off because I knew she was making untrue assumptions like most women do. I simply said to her that all I was saying since she has never been on a trip like that it’s good idea to build endurance first. Same thing like if you were to go somewhere super sunny like Mexico and you currently are white as a ghost…. you tan before you go.

Well as most women do they make assumptions on what men say without any factual reality. I told her that by you making assumptions and believing them to be true then reacting to them in a negative way just makes you look crazy. She did not like what I said at all and just started to blah blah blah blah I lost interest, I put the phone down on speaker and just kept working on my car. What a Joke eh brothers? Share your stories!

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

Favourite mind boggling s~~~ test from my ex, who I broke off four weeks ago:

Her: What would you rate me out of 10?

You already know this is going down south. I’ll tell you right now, if you saw her, you’d probably not even stick your penis in it. When I first started seeing her, I had a pretty warped view of what was “beautiful” since I wasn’t getting laid. She’s a 5/10, 16 (but still legal for me in my country) and 25 lbs overweight. Somehow to the day I broke up with her, I got a boner for her every second I was around her. Pretty s~~~ty since she barely gave it to me.

Anyways, I told her she was an 8/10. Instead of asking about what gave her such a high score, she asked why she wasn’t a 10. Kim Kardashian is a f~~~ing 10. She is not kim kardashian. Therefore she’s an 8. I understand she suffers from low self esteem. But if you can’t even take an 8 confidently then you’ve got f~~~ing problems.

Even if I called her a 10, she’d call me a liar…F~~~ing bitch

Brother, we need to stick together.

[HitmanParticipant]

this sums it up quickly !

[globemasterParticipant 443]

She was testing you, what she expected was a sorry from you and begging for forgiveness.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Oh man. I have a million of these, but I think my favourite one has to be when I met this one chick, God she was annoying as f~~~. But the most annoying thing was everytime you got a little bit mad at her (not even mad, but just stop talking to her) she’d ALWAYS say “You hate me don’t you?” EVERY. F~~~ING. TIME. It got to the point where I legitimately ended up hating her. Whether in person, online, or on the phone, she would always assume I hated her when I got the slightest bit mad or annoyed. A lot of times, it wouldn’t even have anything to do with her.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

It’s been so many years since I had a female “friend”, I can’t really recall much.

As my life is completely woman-free except immediate family (mum/sister/nieces I rarely see) and women I have minimal interaction with in my profession, I have a drama-minimal life and then some. No spouse, no dating, no female friends.

No judgement of course on anyone else, but it works beautifully for me and I highly recommend it.

“Female friend” is an oxymoron as far as I have experienced. Sooner or later (usually sooner), their true nature bites you on the arse.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

The_Young wrote:

Her: What would you rate me out of 10?

PERFECT opportunity for a backhanded compliment:

“You could be a 7 if you really wanted to be.”. (said with a SMILE)

Twice as effective if she’s an 8. I’m serious. Use it. When they give you the “do you think Im pretty” s~~~ test…. give her a s~~~-eating grin and say “You could be a 7 if you really wanted to be.” and don’t hide the fact that you’re being a c~~~y bastard on purpose.

A cool chick will smile , call you an asshole and maybe punch you on the shoulder. An insane chick with throw your X-box out the window. But both of them will still f~~~ you.

Tell her what she wants to hear like “you’re the most beatiful woman in the whole wide world”, and she will never f~~~ you again.

Backhanded compliments. Add them to your arsenal.

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On “assumption hell”, I could go on for a month about that. Statements like:

“But I thought you would….”
“I thought you like…..”
“I thought you wanted….”

“DON’T THINK. You have a question? YOU MAY ASK.”

And then they don’t! They would rather make assumptions than ask directly. It’s like preferring to live in her own head instead of reality. We see it the MGTOW sphere all the time. The s~~~ they “ASSUME”.

Every shaming tactic is an assumption based nowhere in reality.

SolidusX wrote:

Well as most women do they make assumptions on what men say without any factual reality. I told her that by you making assumptions and believing them to be true then reacting to them in a negative way just makes you look crazy.

This ^^^

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Hmm… My thoughts on this one (comparing analogy):

Just like most men are so confident about navigating the roads when driving their cars (never mind the meanwhile helping sat nav device today) and are rather embarrassed, whenever there is no other option but to ask some people for a way description, women equally are so confident about constantly being able to navigate the feelings of their surrounding peers, they are virtually always embarrassed to ask for advice in that respect as well, so that’s why usually they don’t ask.

I mean the same thing really applies with regards to mgtow and this site. They never or hardly ever ask anything in here that they are really genuinely interested in, instead they are way more likely to just enter and make wild assumptions for anticipated control sake, simple as that.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Keymaster wrote:

When they give you the “do you think Im pretty” s~~~ test…. give her a s~~~-eating grin and say “You could be a 7 if you really wanted to be.” and don’t hide the fact that you’re being a c~~~y bastard on purpose

See, this is why 99% of the dates I go on end in disaster: because in order for them to go well, you have to constantly be conscious of what you’re saying, what she’s saying, what you’re doing, and have to be able to detect a “s~~~ test” the nanosecond it happens, and then you have to have a response.

Dates are supposed to be fun. And how the f~~~ can you have fun in a situation like that?

Don’t know about you, but I can’t have fun if I can’t unwind, let my guard down, and assume good faith in people who are with me.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

The_Young wrote:

Kim Kardashian is a f~~~ing 10

In my eye’s any cosmetic surgery procedure you are docked 3 points per surgery,can anyone give me a total on that?

Let me just put a banana in my pants and you will hear about how fake of a man I am and I should be ashamed of myself you f~~~in loser!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

If you hang around bitches and talk to them on the phone then you’ll turn into a bitch yourself.

Monk

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