Are men not helping here?

[boisdevieParticipant 257]

It seems to me that men aren’t doing themselves any favours when it comes to online dating because it’s often said that women are bombarded by messages from men. This therefore has two negative results:

1. The decent men who take time to read a profile and then send a message are literally drowned out by all the mountain of messages men are sending to women.

2. Because women are being bombarded by messages this is giving them an overly inflated sense of entitlement. Examples of this could be: no photo on the profile, a photo but only showing the face (land whale?), sketchy profile information. It’s as though becuase they get lots of messages anyway they think ‘hey I’m really something special’

So, if this is the case how on earth do we get men to back off and stop being so desperate for anything with a vagina and a pulse that they’ll send messages out here, there and everywhere. Then possibly women might up their game a bit?

Discuss.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

You say that like you actually want any of the women these men are responding to. Who cares how many men respond to some woman’s online personals ad? I’m not one of them. The very fact that these women are posting online personal ads in the first place is a huge red flag in my book.

Women’s online personal ads are for laughing at (and occasionally f~~~ing with, vis-a-vis Operation C.O.L.D.). They are not for responding to.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

boisdevie wrote:

So, if this is the case how on earth do we get men to back off and stop being so desperate for anything with a vagina and a pulse that they’ll send messages out here, there and everywhere. Then possibly women might up their game a bit?

It may be helpful to note men aren’t really interested in “online dating”. SIMPS are. Those are the guys those women deserve. The quantity of emails and responses she receives are doing her no favors. It has the REVERSE effect.

It’s not even “DATING”. It’s just ….. online EMAILING.
Only in a woman’s head does she think she’s “dating” online.

Dating happens OFFLINE. Where there is hair to smell and , and boobs to play with. PAYING (monthly) for the possibility of paying for sex is hardly anything to aspire to. A corner of the business of a company I worked for was in “online dating”, and letting women think they are “dating” is precisely how you take their money. It’s a sick perversion to them. They open an email and go “OMG! This guy totally wants me! Let me check him out!” while she makes no effort to be attractive, doesn’t need to make efforts, she can be a total fat f~~~ and – online – she can PRETEND anything she wants.

Go “online dating” for a while and take the approach that you ACTUALLY WANT TO MEET ONE and get her offline and out into the real world as quickly as possible. The attention whore gets nervous because now she has to WORK. She can’t just sit back and tell herself she’s “fabulous” anymore just because there are 5 dozen emails in her box.

“Hey, none of this emailing bulls~~~. What are you doing Friday? Let’s meet at 9 for a drink”.

Most of these “online dating” women PANIC when you don’t email them back and forth for a couple of weeks and want to get her out into the real world AQAP. They are afraid you might actually see them for EXACTLY WHAT THEY ARE. She will respond with something like “but I don’t even know you!”…. to which you would reply and ask her: “um…. when you meet men in real life, do you refuse to talk to them until they EMAIL you a dozen times first??????”

It’s totally unrealistic. Let them pay for their f~~~ing fantasies and ego boosts. You have better women to know.
The only kind of chick worth even bothering with, is one who would grab her purse in 2 seconds and would be excited to meet you right away.

Ignore the rest.

Those women are EXACTLY where they belong.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

@keymaster: You just explained exactly WHY women who post online personal ads are a huge red flag to me.

Women who resort to online dating only do it because they can’t cut it in the real world. And they can’t cut it in the real world for a reason. Why waste time and effort on them just to find out for yourself whatever that reason is? Simply knowing it’s there is more than enough to pass them by.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

boisdevie wrote:

It seems to me that men aren’t doing themselves any favours when it comes to online dating because it’s often said that women are bombarded by messages from men. This therefore has two negative results: 1. The decent men who take time to read a profile and then send a message are literally drowned out by all the mountain of messages men are sending to women. 2. Because women are being bombarded by messages this is giving them an overly inflated sense of entitlement. Examples of this could be: no photo on the profile, a photo but only showing the face (land whale?), sketchy profile information. It’s as though becuase they get lots of messages anyway they think ‘hey I’m really something special’ So, if this is the case how on earth do we get men to back off and stop being so desperate for anything with a vagina and a pulse that they’ll send messages out here, there and everywhere. Then possibly women might up their game a bit? Discuss.

1. It’s just a bunch of guys with dick picks,(but I been told by women it’s not as bad as they make it out to be) they over dramatized it. Any chance to be little men, they will do it.

2. It’s the same recycled guys over and over again.

3. You do got a point, it be nice to convince men not to reply to the personal ads. It will make women, very uneasy.

4. Speaking of women on online, it’s a f~~~ing junkyard.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

The only thing I can suggest is pass the word around with your guy friends and get them to do some reading online. One thing I do is post stories about injustices of men. I will also post the link to the Tom Leykis show. It really starts with us. Get involved. I have a youtube channel and I started a blog. I’m pretty candid on there.

[Anonymous 11]

boisdevie wrote:

It may be helpful to note men aren’t really interested in “online dating”. SIMPS are. Those are the guys those women deserve.

So true Key. I will not touch online dating with a 10 foot pole. I also know some women who refuse to do it too. They’re still women, but they are not the dregs type of women. The pool of women who do online dating are either dysfunctional or just attention whoring from the flood of responses. I once posted a fake as a female and got 33:1 reply ratio to my profile so I totally believe any woman who claims this. One of the guys was so persistent it even creeped me, and I did not reply to a single one.

My sorry ass roommate is a total SIMP/pussy addict and is currently on an online dating marathon. He’s had four dates in four nights and got some snatch from one of the skanks. Frankly, I’m hoping he finds one who’ll let him move in with her should I be so lucky as I’m the the process of engineering his departure.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Cancel your account and walk away. Nothing else makes sense, that is, if you are a man.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 42]

boisdevie wrote:

So, if this is the case how on earth do we get men to back off and stop being so desperate for anything with a vagina and a pulse that they’ll send messages out here, there and everywhere.

Who cares? Really, let the lunacy run free, some guys will learn on their own, most won’t, we’re prepared for ALL the s~~~ this world slings at us! Online dating is like going on CL “Women seeking Men”, It’s a freak show of slutrickery!

Man, don’t guys just walk up to women anymore and strike a conversation? Any kind of “HIVE” is no place to meet women! That’s where they get to play their sorcery, whenever they have an audience, they’re in manipulation mode! They think more about what their girlfriends think, than actually paying attention to you, you’re just another c~~~ in the crowd to be manipulated! The hypergamy has ruined my desire to play any longer, I’m much better off….

Women have become totally narcissistic and self adsorbed, they manufacture man dolls in their mind, how they should act, how they should cater to their every desire, how men should “fit” into their fairytale lives, they make up this whole personality of a man, and IT’S ALL DELUSIONAL!

This society is unhinged when it comes to the actual value of a man! Women should be begging a good man to be with her, and serving his every want and delight! Things are so backwards and upside down that men have chosen to just walk away, f~~~ the game. Women are detrimental to men under this society’s warped ways of thinking! Men are a personal slave to the modern woman’s thinking.

Give it time, you’ll see MGTOW’S numbers grow exponentially. Not to long ago, in the not to distant past, women weren’t asking “where are all the good men” they had good men, they supported their man in every way possible. Now they sit on their fat asses, abuse the f~~~ out of men, and wonder why they’re asking “where are all the good men?”.

My answer to them; WE’RE SAVING OUR LIVES FROM RUIN and watching women SELF DESTRUCT!

 

[Anonymous 11]

Anonymous wrote:

Man, don’t guys just walk up to women anymore and strike a conversation?

If you can manage pry her away from the 27 orbiters she’s currently herding via her lame smart phone dating app, then you might have a chance to speak to the princess.

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

Man, don’t guys just walk up to women anymore and strike a conversation?

Why would we? Not even that is worth nowadays. The risks are too high, the reward is too low. And by reward, I am not even talking about sex. Have you tried to hold a conversation with a c~~~ recently? I admit I am not the most interesting guy in the world (but I am damn close :D), but even I can do a better job in holding a subject. It’s like talking to a child… with a short memory span. >.<

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Man, don’t guys just walk up to women anymore and strike a conversation?

Ask a stupid question and get a MGTOW answer. I s~~~ canned women altogether before cellphones had cameras, The insanity was mind-boggling! Just in conversation and interaction with my “married girlfriend” I learned the term “Boy Toy”, it disgusted me how office women would look to cheat on their husbands just for something to talk about amongst the girls. I was a real sucker for that sweeeeet pussy. Another “married girlfriend” I had, couldn’t answer my question as to why she cheats, while I was f~~~ing her! So yea, I may have a couple of screws loose. BUT I DIDN’T LOOSEN THEM! THEY DID!

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

I’m super glad that I’m over that stage. Yeah, I went the online dating route for a while. I had mixed experiences, a few girls were pretty cool, two in particular were really very good in bed, but the overwhelming majority are BPD crazies, raging alcoholics or desperate single moms.

Sometimes I think it would be fun to reactivate my OKStupid account and have a contest with some of you guys for who can get the most p~~~ed off reply.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

boisdevie wrote:

1. The decent men who take time to read a profile and then send a message are literally drowned out by all the mountain of messages men are sending to women.

 

Decent men period have been drowned out. Online dating has only made it into a tidal wave. At one end there is douchebag, abusive criminal thugs; but who cares? They have coke. On the other end is the 6′ millionaire. Well, I’m not an abusive douche and I’m 5′ 11″ and not a millionaire so I’m in limbo somewhere I suppose.

 

What was once mocked is now praised and what was once praised is now mocked. We live in Bizzaro world, make no mistake.

 

F~~~ online dating. Easy way for them to pick and choose and get there fragile egos stroked. They say men don’t handle rejection well, ever seen a woman rejected? I lived it. It turned into a fiasco at the bar. I made some chick cry and when her friend tried to be nice and get me to apologize and realized she wasn’t getting anywhere, I became a ‘rapist’ and a ‘pedophile’. No need to tell you guys how the shift gears when they don’t get what they want.

 

Starving them of attention is the first step.

 

Rant over.

Fuck this planet.

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