Any Advice on Getting by the Red Pill Rage?

[ArcParticipant 350]

I’ve had my eyes opened for quite some time now. Naturally, I was mad about how much everyone and everything had duped me. I mean, in the back of my mind I always saw that men had the s~~~ty end of the stick; however, I was raised in a very traditional fashion so I was always chastised into thinking men had to have the brunt of every s~~~ty deal as a duty. Now, I’m absolutely furious because the more I see that women never cared at all about men, the more I see that all women are like that and have deceived men into taking the bullet for them from the beginning of time, the angrier I become. I know this isn’t a healthy way to be, I just don’t know how anyone could possibly come to peace with the knowledge that everything you were taught to be was a lie. Religion lied to you about women, your parents lied to you about women, school lied to you about women, and women lied to you about women. You were even lied to about your primary purpose. Does anyone here understand were I am coming from? My folks are starting to feel the tension building in me. I don’t want to be angry all the time and I don’t want to be irritated with my female family members all the time.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "Save us!"... and I'll whisper "no."

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Mankind, religious and educational institutions lied to you about women. If you read the bible from cover to cover you will see a lot of red pill information there but people like to take that information and distort it to their own benefit.

My advice would be to not hate women they have always been this way just move passed their nature. Working out is a good thing keeps your mind sharp and focused on things you want to do in life.

Read a lot of books there is a book list on this site that will help you cope with a lot of things you are going through. Get a pet to keep you company if you are alone and if you get horny use a fleshlight.

Cut out all your negative friends and family from your life that bring you down and try to get you back on the plantation. The sooner you do this the better off you will be in the long run.

Go ghost mode don’t deal with any mangina or female unless it is for professional reasons and never tell them anything about your personal life. If they ask ignore them and just keep moving forward. The best thing that will get rid of the red pill rage is time that is all you need. Sometimes you will see something and shake your head and sometimes some idiot will do something that will make your blood boil even years after the rage has decreased. Over time you will learn to be able to cope with it.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

The rage will eventually subside with or without your control. As rhino said, and I’m not sure how old you are, go on ghost mode and focus on your education and character to get ahead in life and I’m talking about courses that give you good employment opportunities not stupid ass social degrees that are a waste of money which you will have to pay back via starbuck employment. You can even try getting into trades if academic pursuit is not your goal.

Start working as early as possible, regardless of what job it is. I think having a work ethic is the stepping stone in toughening yourself and making you more independent.

Being red pilled means being active and the worse thing you can do is think too much. Yes, you’ve been duped, deceived, and tricked like we all have but you also have yourself a new beginning and outlook in life which you have to learn to better utilize in your favor.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[KimmurielParticipant 480]

Yes. Imagine you’ve been walking in a minefield and you now can see where and how they are planted.

Now you begin to reflect that although you’ve been hit by a couple of these things before, the rage comes from knowing how these mines are designed and the name of the army that planted them (femanazis)

The only difference is that now you have an army of your own that treats you like they are you and dont want to see you hurt and will share tactics and war stories.

You may be scared, p~~~ed, confused, and have a vague sense of betrayal, but all that matters is that you’re home.

"You meet a few exceedingly forsaken, Sit around the cooler refusing domestication" Aesop Rock

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Arc wrote:

I just don’t know how anyone could possibly come to peace with the knowledge that everything you were taught to be was a lie.

The red pill rage must be experienced. It’s important to your development. Once all of the lies of the matrix have been exposed your first reaction should be rage. As you begin to accept the way things ARE, and not the way you were told that they should be, you learn to not give a f~~~ about all of the societal lies that you were raised with. No F~~~s Given EMPOWERS you to walk away from the societal bull s~~~ that you have been saddled with.

When you can truly apply No F~~~s Given to your life, then you can begin to walk away from your past life and start planning for YOUR new life. The rage may kick in from time to time, but you refocus your energies on your NEW life.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[RoyDalParticipant]

I second the good advice offered in the previous posts.

You have had a severe shock, and your body is going to go through a series of emotional stages whether you like it or not. It’s just your glandular system at work. The main thing is to live a productive life on your own terms: Go Your Own Way. In particular, do not let your emotions run your life.

Here is an interesting article on the subject: https://www.cleverism.com/understanding-kubler-ross-change-curve/

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 0]

I can only add this to what has already been said.
Do not deny your rage at being used. Let it consume you, wallow in it, scream to the moon about it, cry about it, grieve for your losses. You will reach a point when you no longer care. AND THEN, decide who you are and what you want in life and then go for it. Let your ambition and your goals consume you. If you want to climb Mount Kilimanjaro, do it. If you want to get ripped. Do it. Buy a motorcycle and ride the Dragon’s Tail if you want. As much as you were hurt, you will then be happy by that amount. You will live your new MGTOW life with the same gusto and loyalty as your old blue pill life.
We all have relapses. Luckily you have found a place where men actually care about and will help you thru those times, even though they will never meet you. Your eyes are open now! That is what hurts. You have the opportunity now to re-make yourself the way YOU want. All those that hurt you in the past do not deserve you. Good Luck.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Society is upheld by lies. It will take time to accept this.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Anonymous 11]

Any Advice on Getting by the Red Pill Rage?

Arc wrote:

Does anyone here understand were I am coming from?

Some of the people here understand more than some others can imagine. If you want to get by the red pill rage then don’t take the red pill. The pill you took was a blue pill painted red, you’ll be fine. If anyone disagrees about these painted pills, it’s okay, I’m sober now after last night, so I won’t raise my sword and behead hardly anybody, and I think that’s a good thing.

[Anonymous 54]

Oh I understand Brother I understand.
I dont like being played.
I dont like being lied to.
I dont like deciept
I dont like my sacrafices taken for granted.

Acceptance is the end goal. Not meaning that your ok with it, but rather realizing its something you cant change. A wrong you cant right.
Yea youve been had.
Awalt. Its damn ugly isnt it!

[The Red Pill ChaliceParticipant 16]

The best way to get through the red pill rage I would say is find a new hobby, maybe even find little things to better yourself. You see one must focus on himself whether it be mentally, intellectually, or physically. The point I’m making here is that the focus must be on you! Take that rage , and say “you know what I’m going to do what I always wanted nothing will hold me back”. Trust me you will soon disregard what has happened to you entirely, because your life maybe in the future will be great. Hope this helps, and remember you’re a freeman you can get past this!

[ArcParticipant 350]

Thank you, everyone for all of the advice. To be honest, all of it is a bit easier said than done. I can understand that men’s standing in our society is largely out of our control. Women have betrayed us and are steering our society off a cliff. If it’s all out of our control, it is understandable that we shouldn’t get too worked up over it all and just opt out.

I would submit however, that as biological creatures we are denying our primary purpose by opting out. We forfeit our own propagation. And, for those who are religious, as spiritual beings we have allowed the natural order of what we were meant to do become irrevocably corrupted by letting women subjugate us and throw away their obligations. I just feel like we are in a damned if you do, damned if you don’t situation and it is ALL women’s fault.

You can opt out and live your own life, but leave nothing behind. Or you can try to participate, get chewed up by the system, become a slave, and even then there is no guarantee you have a legacy or pass on your teachings. I think that MGTOW is the correct and reasonable choice and I agree that the healthier thing to do would be to focus on myself. It is a bit hard to juggle self improvement with a career these days though. My biggest problem though is that I don’t know if I can forgive such an utter betrayal. I’m a bit of a grudge keeper X)

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "Save us!"... and I'll whisper "no."

[AttonParticipant]

Arc wrote:

My biggest problem though is that I don’t know if I can forgive such an utter betrayal. I’m a bit of a grudge keeper X)

The funny thing is that you simply do not have to. Obsessing over the s~~~ that women have done to the lives of men is unhealthy. However never forgetting it and on occasion calling women out on their bulls~~~ is rather healthy and enjoyable.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[All OutParticipant 87]

Arc wrote:

I’m a bit of a grudge keeper

As I am as well. I have been traveling MGTOW road for about 6 months and still have a significant amount of rage. I found self improvement the most helpful such as going to the gym and eating healthier along with expanding knowledge. Constructive hobbies also help the whole doing what you want to do not what others tell you or expect you to do. Also one thing I find extremely helpful is correcting women. I am a well educated and technically experienced so correcting women that think they know things is ecstasy. Of course they will make non-factual arguments of which I debunk factually. You need to enjoy the little things and find what makes you happy!

[Y_Participant 4591]

Arc
The brothers here want to see you get over this.
My two cents worth
You need to let it out and deal wit it. Shout scream break things – get it out of your system.
Then let go. It’s over. Done with.
Do not take a guilt trip or blame yourself for any of this.
Do not think – keep yourself busy.
The feeings and the anger WILL go away. Just takes time.

One day you will realise you really don’t care what happens to them.

Then you are free.

[Joey BrooksSpectator 29]

I have found, for me, that having high expectations for the behavior of other people was my problem when I was young. Those expectations, when not lived up to, will cause disappointment. Extreme disappointment leads to rage.

My best advice to add to all of the help given here: Keep your expectations low when it comes to other people, male or female. This way you are pleasantly surprised when others do good to you and you don’t get so crushed when someone fails you.

I trust NO ONE until they earn it. I am very careful and suspicious of everyone new. I don’t give strangers the keys to my car or my life right away. I feel them out, observe their actions OVER TIME. I don’t stick my dick in anyone I have not gotten to know for three months AT LEAST. Most can’t keep up an act that long. After three months you have a much clearer view of people. But you have to LOOK in order to SEE. Don’t get bedazzled by “love”.

Conversely, if you fall into neediness or desperation and let someone into your life, heart, and mind too quickly, that is on you my friend. Proceed with caution. Not everyone is a doosh-bag. Don’t become so bitter that you miss out on the good ones. They are out there and generally they are not trusting new people either so it takes time and patience to root them out.

Hang in bro. It just takes time. Distract yourself with activities. Use your hobbies or lean on your trusted friends. Volunteer at a senior home. Help someone else. Get lost in a good book. Maybe learn Tai-Chi or Yoga or meditation or all of that. These things use your body functions to relax your mind. One day you will wake up and the anger will be gone and you will feel kinda silly for getting so worked up, maybe even laugh at yourself a little bit. Look at the situation from outside yourself, like a TV show. Get perspective. When I get angry I think of my friends suffering with cancer, then I feel lucky to not have that. Also, force yourself to smile. Find something that actually makes you laugh like Comedy Central. It’s hard to be p~~~ed while you are laughing. Seriously! Whatever you do, get BUSY.

One person here mentions letting it out and screaming. Instead of yelling into a pillow or something, go to a sporting event like hockey, basketball, or football. Even high school football which is everywhere during the Fall. Some sport is always going on. Go there and yell for one or both of the teams! This really helped me a few times.

If you could walk through walls, would you still use doors?

[ArcParticipant 350]

@joey Brooks
Gotta admit, that is some good advice. It’ll be a little hard to find anything entertaining since feminists have been co-opting everything in the entertainment industry. It’s just disheartening to see EVERYTHING, even from my own mother. I suppose I just need to learn the “Zero F~~~s Given” kind of life.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "Save us!"... and I'll whisper "no."

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