Another (a bit long) story and hello

[DescentParticipant 7]

Hi to all, I am really grateful to have found these forums, and here is my slightly long (but hopefully useful) story as to why.

Back around one year ago, without even knowing what all of this was about, I considered myself a man going his own way. A young one, that is, but still rather redpilled and conscious for my age. I was really into politics, history, and I somewhat heard of these forums and the way, but I really didn’t see the need to join them since I was… Well, going my on way. I have always been a sensible person in general. And I knew about many of the stuff talked about around here. I am 18 now, soon turning 19, but I hope my story will still be useful to someone. It may not seem like a big deal for many of you after other stories I’ve read (of divorces, way longer relations~~~s and such) from people who have also found this site, but I have been pleasantly surprised at the similarities with a few some.

You probably have guessed by now what got me on the wrong track, or away from that way. Yeah, a woman. Made me change a lot and the way I saw things, together with the whole bluepill that college is. Couple of years older than me but by far way more inmature, too, as it is the case with most women in the dating game at the end of the day, or that’s what I’ve come to think. It makes the term “manchild” seem ironic considering women CAN be childs and most of the time act like it but can get away with it perfectly fine… Oh well, enough ranting.

It all started when I started college. I had been noticed by girls in the past, but I really wasn’t interested. Not because of any reason in particular, I just didn’t feel like I could share my life in that way. “This one is different” “It is the one”. Yeah, mistake number one. Became friends in 3 months and shortly after started something serious. Week later she tells me that a guy she had been with for 3-4 years and cheated on her, hurt her, and was emotionally abusive was still contacting her. Told me she was over it and I believed her, told me she wouldn’t hurt me in that sense and really wanted to be with me. Mistake number two. Following months that we had a relationship (around 6-7) I basically was the rebound. Playing into her games, was manipulated and was emotionally abused as much as I hate to admit defeat in that sense. Played the fool in love. As she even called that person wanting to be friends and he didn’t want to several times, and I still listened to her sob stories about her and this guy every single time and cared about her, white knighted for her extremely (“she is my gf right? I should take care of her” HA). She even helped HIM with school related s~~~ while she was meant to be with me. And there was probably more s~~~ in the fray I don’t even know about. As summer starts, she says she needs time. She wants to be alone. I ask why and after some time smothering her (mistake number 3?) she slips her tongue and I realize that it is about this person she can’t get over and move on because she is just an almost 21 year old with the mind of a child with issues. Maybe not entirely her fault since she was abused, but still, she knew about ALL OF THIS when we started something. No reason to have dragged me in it. Says that she wants to be alone, can keep that past and those feelings hidden or asleep for a while but can’t erase it and feels bad for that, so she is going to a psychologist. I feel extremely stupid. I wasn’t really a sad person before all of this happened, but I certainly am now. Let’s say she isn’t the only who is going to need a therapist if I keep feeling this way, or need some kind of help, as much as I hate to admit that. They were really intense feelings, still are. After all. It may seem stupid but it has changed me (for the worse) completely.

Basically, was a rebound. Nothing more to it. But I feel like I have wasted my time, and I have been dragged to this by someone who didn’t deserve it, or any of my time and I have played a fixed game. Doesn’t make me feel better for that matter, since I am somebody who, feels things. But I am still thankful to have found this place, and I feel it is the time to join it, because it has helped me so far and I plan to stay around to have it keep helping me in that sense and see if I can contribute something when I feel better in the future.

Thanks for reading if you have come this far and thanks for your welcomes.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I do not think you wasted your time. You learned something valuable about yourself. Many men never learn. Look at all those Hollywood stars who get married three times, divorced three times, and keep coming back for more. You are smarter than all of them.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Thanks for posting your story…it’s as important as any other’s listed in these forums. The reason being is like RoyDal mentioned, you learned a lesson. There are a few people here that have always been a MGHOW, and they have never put up with a womans s~~~. Unfortunately, like me and most here, we had to learn it the hard way, same with you. Thankfully if you learn from this mistake and see the evil of signing that Marriage contract, then you will live one happy life bro! I was 21 when I got with mine, I’ve basically wasted 8 years of my life on her, but I’ll be free soon enough. I know now that I never want to marry again, even if she looks and acts like a unicorn…she’s just another roach under neath it all.

Hey guys…can we get an extra large order of those red pills…and maybe a die hard movie or something?

[HashParticipant 21]

Hey mate.

That happened to me as well, only it lasted 2-3 months before I accepted what my intuition was telling me all that time and ended it. I’m glad it happened cause I learned from it. I feel sorry for the guys that never learn.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

RoyDal wrote:

Welcome! I do not think you wasted your time. You learned something valuable about yourself. Many men never learn. Look at all those Hollywood stars who get married three times, divorced three times, and keep coming back for more. You are smarter than all of them.

And I will echo both RoyDal and Gunslinger… WELCOME! And if I may say, never underestimate your story, your ‘edge of the blade so to speak’. There’s an old adage that goes “Just as steel sharpens steel, so one man sharpens another.” Your story, for those both new and well seasoned, either serves as a reminder, or spares someone the potential whoa. It matters man. Glad you found us and thanks for sharing!

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Hash wrote:

I feel sorry for the guys that never learn.

I would’ve been one of these guys had I not found this site. I’m going through the beginning stages of divorce and now I know the best way to handle it. Before, I would have still been that little bitch that catered to her needs all the way to the day we signed off on it. Then after that, I would have tried to be her friend. After the divorce, I would have always just been a door matt for any woman that walks into my life moving forward.

It’s hard to admit…even as I type it out. However, not it’s like the fog is finally clearing.

[YAZParticipant 140]

A very clear & concise post from a young man.  Cool.

 

I’m one of the few over 50 crowd that’s active here.  I’m gonna tell ya something.  Nothing f~~~ing changes.  Women in their 50’s act the same damn way.

Use condoms.

 

 

Whore Magnet

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Descent wrote:

It may not seem like a big deal for many of you after other stories I’ve read (of divorces, way longer relations~~~s and such) from people who have also found this site, but I have been pleasantly surprised at the similarities with a few some.

No story is not worth hearing my friend.The sight of a man freeing himself always brings joy to my heart.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Descent wrote:

It may not seem like a big deal for many of you after other stories I’ve read (of divorces, way longer relations~~~s and such) from people who have also found this site, but I have been pleasantly surprised at the similarities with a few some.

That is the exact s~~~ that young men would get as an answer from everywhere else except here.

‘Get over it, you were the rebound guy, big deal…”

‘Man up! Everyone gets rejected, deal with it!’

‘NAWALT, NAWALT, NAWALT…’

‘YOU need to be more understanding…’

‘You need to look at her lies and manipulation as a cry for help…’

‘It was a man’s fault in the first place…’

etc

I say that your story might very well be MORE important than our sad marriage stories (no offense to all the other guys who have suffered greatly). Because it is right then and there wen you are in your first adult years that the matrix starts the dumbing down of men’s expectations. So you are supposed to take this s~~~ “like a man” and come back for more? NO! Just go MGTOW and save yourself a lifetime of disappointment.

Imagine other young guys searching the internet for answers when they are in a situation like this, and all they find is those crappy “advice” lines I wrote above. Endless websites dedicated to the mass production of blue pills. It’s insane. That’s why I believe your story will save lives. Thank you for sharing it with us!

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Anonymous 42]

@Desscent, KeyMaster put it best when he said this movement saves “lives and fortunes”, he’s right! And you’re going to save a fortune, not to mention your life being ruined in gynocentric misery…

Welcome to the green and clean pastures of MGTOW, no c~~~cesium 137 in these fields, we refuse to consume the toxic radiological waste harvested and distributed by the feminist movement since the 1960’s, they can eat every molecule they ever made! Let them be eaten by their cats…

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome good sir ! ” the game is rigged ” yep . always is.. better to learn sooner than later , or never like many ! im learnin all the time..

[DescentParticipant 7]

John Woods 13 wrote:

Descent wrote:

It may not seem like a big deal for many of you after other stories I’ve read (of divorces, way longer relations~~~s and such) from people who have also found this site, but I have been pleasantly surprised at the similarities with a few some.

That is the exact s~~~ that young men would get as an answer from everywhere else except here. ‘Get over it, you were the rebound guy, big deal…” ‘Man up! Everyone gets rejected, deal with it!’ ‘NAWALT, NAWALT, NAWALT…’ ‘YOU need to be more understanding…’ ‘You need to look at her lies and manipulation as a cry for help…’ ‘It was a man’s fault in the first place…’ etc

This is dead on, so far all I’ve got elsewhere, from my circle of friends and such has been things like these, which don’t make anything better considering how I was before all of this happened for that matter.

It does feel good to be back on my own way, thanks to everyone for your welcomes! And yes, I’ve learned a lot from it even if it was short, it was intense… Which is good not to let anyone make me go astray again. Oh well.

 

 

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