And the real Oscar winner is…

[inneedoftruthParticipant 94]

On the phone with the soon to be ex wife. I’m one of the few men here due to receive child support and Alimony. We’ve agreed to everything except the length of the Alimony. I want 6 years she wants 4.

Inspired by the academy awards, I went, in my best wounded, puppy dog voice. “Cmon, you know me. I can’t be alone. Alimony is only good unless I am cohabiting with a woman in our state. I won’t be able to be single for 6 years. Hell, I’ll probably be an idiot and fall in love in a year or two and you’re done. You know this!”

Her response “good point, let me think about it and I’ll call my lawyer tomorrow”

Little does she know.

MGTOW!

[VanXingParticipant 98]

LMAO that’s classic! So what is the family dynamic between you and the ex? Are you a stay at home dad?

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

So you are divorce raping your wife and manipulating her into paying alimony longer than necessary. That sounds really f~~~ed up dude.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[inneedoftruthParticipant 94]

Please! Eat a dick. You want to know what’s f~~~ed up? Making a vow to someone, then asking that person to raise their step kids, and your own kids, and support her as she goes back to school to become a doctor and promises you that one day it will all pay off and we will enjoy the spoils for the rest of our life. So you do it, you spend 15 years raising her kids, your kids, working crappy part-time overnight jobs and watching kids during the day so she could go to school because you couldn’t afford daycare. You then offer to quit your job once you finally got your own career going, because she now wants to move and open a private practice and needs you to run it. So you do that for two years and it becomes crazy successful, and right when you’re about to enjoy the life you work so hard to help her and you live comma she starts f~~~ing your best friend, tells you she wants a divorce files a bulls~~~ protection order on you to get you kicked out of your house and living in your moms spare bedroom. So yeah eat a dick

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

White knight alert.

The only way the system will ever change is if women feel the same alimony/CS pain and unfairness, so save me the “but the poor woman!” tears.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

inneedoftruth wrote:

Please! Eat a dick. You want to know what’s f~~~ed up? Making a vow to someone, then asking that person to raise their step kids, and your own kids, and support her as she goes back to school to become a doctor and promises you that one day it will all pay off and we will enjoy the spoils for the rest of our life. So you do it, you spend 15 years raising her kids, your kids, working crappy part-time overnight jobs and watching kids during the day so she could go to school because you couldn’t afford daycare. You then offer to quit your job once you finally got your own career going, because she now wants to move and open a private practice and needs you to run it. So you do that for two years and it becomes crazy successful, and right when you’re about to enjoy the life you work so hard to help her and you live comma she starts f~~~ing your best friend, tells you she wants a divorce files a bulls~~~ protection order on you to get you kicked out of your house and living in your moms spare bedroom. So yeah eat a dick

I’ll pass on the dick. Sure, she f~~~ed you over. I just don’t think that revenge is justified. Especially alimony. It is an evil system that women created and commonly use to destroy men. I don’t think it is cool to lower ourselves to their level. I’d prefer to unc~~~, start over, and never deal with her again.

We are all MGTOW so we can make our own choices.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

White knight alert.

The only way the system will ever change is if women feel the same alimony/CS pain and unfairness, so save me the “but the poor woman!” tears.

I wasn’t defending her dude. I just don’t think it is valid to fight a nuclear bomb with a nuclear bomb. That just gives everyone cancer.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[VanXingParticipant 98]

007 let the guy enjoy his limited 6 years of reward already. 6 years is nothing for a Dr.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

VanXing wrote:

007 are you a woman?

No. I just don’t think using alimony as revenge is justified. It doesn’t mater if a man uses it against a woman, vice versa, or if homosexuals use it. I still think alimony is retarded.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

Pedal, run, row wrote:

White knight alert.

The only way the system will ever change is if women feel the same alimony/CS pain and unfairness, so save me the “but the poor woman!” tears.

I wasn’t defending her dude. I just don’t think it is valid to fight a nuclear bomb with a nuclear bomb. That just gives everyone cancer.

Hey, we all slip up with some vestige of our white knight/blue pill past now and again.

Dude put her through medical school. Time for the system to show its fairness.

[inneedoftruthParticipant 94]

007. I think alimony is abused by women all the time. Fat asses who contributed nothing to their husbands success find a way to screw them while screwing other men too.

That being said, that’s not what happened here. I didn’t pay into my social security. I don’t have a 401k. Even when I was working sixty hour weeks and taking care of the kids running her practice, I never got paid a penny. Our accountant advised since it’s all going into joint accounts, just not to take a paycheck. My wife dumped every penny we had, including our money from selling our house into that practice. We have no assets. I have 3 totes of clothes and a toothbrush to show for 15 years. She has a practice I built, a doctorate that will make her a 120k earner for the next 30 years because of me. I have a s~~~ resume full of s~~~ part time jobs and little education. Sorry, this is one of those cases Alimony is deserved. I deserve to go my own way. And put that alimony check into investments every month and try and make up for the years I lost in income.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

inneedoftruth wrote:

007. I think alimony is abused by women all the time. Fat asses who contributed nothing to their husbands success find a way to screw them while screwing other men too.

That being said, that’s not what happened here. I didn’t pay into my social security. I don’t have a 401k. Even when I was working sixty hour weeks and taking care of the kids running her practice, I never got paid a penny. Our accountant advised since it’s all going into joint accounts, just not to take a paycheck. My wife dumped every penny we had, including our money from selling our house into that practice. We have no assets. I have 3 totes of clothes and a toothbrush to show for 15 years. She has a practice I built, a doctorate that will make her a 120k earner for the next 30 years because of me. I have a s~~~ resume full of s~~~ part time jobs and little education. Sorry, this is one of those cases Alimony is deserved. I deserve to go my own way. And put that alimony check into investments every month and try and make up for the years I lost in income.

Gotcha. Sorry for starting s~~~. I didn’t know the whole story.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

inneedoftruth wrote:

Please! Eat a dick. You want to know what’s f~~~ed up? Making a vow to someone, then asking that person to raise their step kids, and your own kids, and support her as she goes back to school to become a doctor and promises you that one day it will all pay off and we will enjoy the spoils for the rest of our life. So you do it, you spend 15 years raising her kids, your kids, working crappy part-time overnight jobs and watching kids during the day so she could go to school because you couldn’t afford daycare. You then offer to quit your job once you finally got your own career going, because she now wants to move and open a private practice and needs you to run it. So you do that for two years and it becomes crazy successful, and right when you’re about to enjoy the life you work so hard to help her and you live comma she starts f~~~ing your best friend, tells you she wants a divorce files a bulls~~~ protection order on you to get you kicked out of your house and living in your moms spare bedroom. So yeah eat a dick

I’ll pass on the dick. Sure, she f~~~ed you over. I just don’t think that revenge is justified. Especially alimony. It is an evil system that women created and commonly use to destroy men. I don’t think it is cool to lower ourselves to their level. I’d prefer to unc~~~, start over, and never deal with her again.

We are all MGTOW so we can make our own choices.

YOU ARE WAY OFF BASE HERE…

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I just wanted to point out to any lurking bloggers: two men disagreed, through a mutual conversation and gained understanding they resolved the issue with no shots fired.

Try that with two women, they’ll be mortal enemies forever without ever even trying to understand the other’s point of view.

Another win for men, and MGTOW.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

So you are divorce raping your wife and manipulating her into paying alimony longer than necessary. That sounds really f~~~ed up dude.

Wrong.

It’s the laws that allow divorce rape etc. that are really f~~~ed up.

And flipping the script on women by using those f~~~ed up laws against them whenever possible as hard as possible is the ONLY way we are ever going to see those f~~~ed up laws eliminated.

@inneedoftruth isn’t “divorce raping” his ex. He’s teaching her and women in general a very needed lesson.

[nick123Participant 137]

inneedoftruth wrote:

Please! Eat a dick. You want to know what’s f~~~ed up? Making a vow to someone, then asking that person to raise their step kids, and your own kids, and support her as she goes back to school to become a doctor and promises you that one day it will all pay off and we will enjoy the spoils for the rest of our life. So you do it, you spend 15 years raising her kids, your kids, working crappy part-time overnight jobs and watching kids during the day so she could go to school because you couldn’t afford daycare. You then offer to quit your job once you finally got your own career going, because she now wants to move and open a private practice and needs you to run it. So you do that for two years and it becomes crazy successful, and right when you’re about to enjoy the life you work so hard to help her and you live comma she starts f~~~ing your best friend, tells you she wants a divorce files a bulls~~~ protection order on you to get you kicked out of your house and living in your moms spare bedroom. So yeah eat a dick

You have no honour, morals, ethics and integrity. just because the c~~~s f~~~ us over doesn’t mean men should stoop to that level. us men have to hold ourselves to a higher standard and walk tall and proud. best not to get involved with these c~~~s, women will f~~~ you over and will be backed up by the state. its f~~~ed what happenned to you though.Actually i read your posts and i can see entirley why you’re raping her. good luck.

[VanXingParticipant 98]

Yea men should Man up….NOT!!!

[inneedoftruthParticipant 94]

Nicki, wtf did you just say? I have no honour or morals but you wish me luck? You can also eat a dick. My soon to be ex wife is a powerful woman in my city. She’s a Dr., On city committees, boards of this and that. Perhaps, in the end, she will feel she was “divorce raped”.. if so, good, then maybe she’s the type of woman in the type of position to change these laws and men for years will benefit from it.

[AttonParticipant]

I cannot in good conscious condone alimony in any context before 1900. However considering the fact that the only thing that forces women, to consider the treatment of others is to be influenced by said treatment. Playing softball for men’s rights isn’t the way to actually win this struggle. I hope this sends a message to women everywhere that what they do onto others will be done onto them. I can ignore this taboo because it works in the long term interests of men but not without discomfort. Also please do right by your kids they deserve nothing less.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[GrumpyParticipant]

IMHO

Whats good for the Goose is good for the Gander.
The only way to change laws is to prove they are unjust. Millions upon millions of men have been, and continue to be divorce raped, forced to pay alimony and support regardless of circumstances.
Why should I shed a single solitary tear for the few hundred women who will take a hit before they scream for change and get it?

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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