And here..we..go!

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Good morning/afternoon, depending on where you’re located!

First off, I would like to say thanks to each and every one of you, for sharing your stories and insights. After discovering this site, I feel like I finally have some of my back bone back, after years of letting sub-zero slowly rip it out. And I have you all to thank for it. All of my friends are mainly blue pillers that can’t understand why I would give up on our marriage, even though she said the s~~~ she did, I should still try and work it out. “Oh, she’ll come around, she’s just going through a stage” etc. And I almost fell trap to it, but then this site just so happened to come along, wish I knew what I searched that day to find it…that would be a nice topic for all of us. She wasn’t going to come out of this stage, and even if she did, history shows it’ll just repeat itself. And by then, the divorce would be even worse because of mortgage and possibly kids. No thanks, check ya later!

Anyway, I just wanted to give an update on everything. So we took a “break” or so she thought this past month while she was on a business trip. I basically have been planning my escape. She comes home and we have our talk about how we both feel. I told her that I thought it wasn’t a good idea for us to stay together, and she more or less agreed. But can you believe she hit me with, “I just hope we somehow are able to stay friends”…I just laughed out the room and opened another beer. That’s when I started to zone out, last thing I heard was “I just don’t get why we couldn’t, we are each others best friends, how can you just throw that away, we don’t have to be like other people who get divorced” I wanted to just hit her with a bunch of responses I’ve learned since being on this site, but it wasn’t even worth my breath. I just left it at that and didn’t really speak to her the rest of the night. That p~~~ed her off worse, she hates it when I don’t try and argue with her.

As for my plan, I’ve contacted an old job in Lexington, ky that I’m coming back soon and see if I can get a job again. Even if I can’t, I believe it’s the best route. I live in NYC right now, and these bitches up here, I know it’s everywhere, are just ruthless c~~~s. I don’t even wanna be around any of em. At least in the country I can get away from all of em if I want. Just drive into the city for w/e job I have. Not to mention rent or owning a home in KY is like a third of the price I’d pay to stay up here, even with roommates. I just look forward to some silence, no horns blowing, no sirens, just silence. Only thing I wanna hear is the birds chirping and that’s really it. If I could afford to build a cabin on my parents land (about 100 acres, so no problem finding a good spot), and buy about 40 heads of cattle and just live off breeding and selling em, I’d do it in a heart beat.

I’m pretty sure we have to be separated for six months in the state of Ky to file divorce, but I wish I could start the process sooner. We don’t have any real assets besides a car with both signed on, but I don’t think it’s enough to get lawyers involved. If anyone has any advice on anything, let me know.

Thanks for reading and thanks for shining a light, I may still be lost in the fog somewhere living off blue pills.

[UntamedParticipant]

Hi Gunslinger. I’m familiar with your story and I’m glad you made plans to move away from her and that city. I visited NYC twice, once for one week, and I kept wondering how these people are able to stand living in such a place.
Enjoy the country and going your way, it’s the only way to live healthy nowadays.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Like you, I too am a country boy at heart. I have a huge yard for my dog and a house all to myself & dog. The mortgage is less than renting a no-pets allowed cracker box apartment in town. Life is good.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

It’s a cool place to visit for a few days, maybe catch a Yankees game or something. Other than that, everyone is just fake, they put on a mask and lie to themselves and everyone else. Maybe it’s just because I’m from the south but I think there’s something evil about this place. Maybe that’s being a little dramatic, but it changed my wife, or brought out her true nature quicker than it would have if we stayed in the south…maybe I should be thankful?? I noticed small changes in myself as well. Wanting to spend more money on material things, that I normally didn’t care for. Wanting to hit up that expensive restaurant instead of a cheap little cafe. Just a waste of money.

@roydal yea that’s the other thing I have to figure out is who is keeping the two dogs. I think it’d be best for them to come with me, more room and hopefully land to roam around on. Most apartment complexes I ever lived at in KY had a small dog park attached. If I can get that job I’m hoping for, then after a couple years I’ll be able to afford a house with a yard. No dog should be cramped up in a small apartment and no land to roam around on from time to time.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Well just got an email from the old job saying they have a strict no re-hire policy. Sucks but still isn’t going to stop me from getting out of this hellish place.

[UntamedParticipant]

Gunslinger wrote:

Well just got an email from the old job saying they have a strict no re-hire policy. Sucks but still isn’t going to stop me from getting out of this hellish place.

Good speed to you, Gun. Keep your chin up 🙂

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Gunslinger wrote:

Well just got an email from the old job saying they have a strict no re-hire policy. Sucks but still isn’t going to stop me from getting out of this hellish place.

Sorry about the job, but I am happy for you. One bullet got you, but you managed to avoid the rest in the magazine. You’ll find a job soon enough and you’ll be on your own way.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

I’m not to worried about it…I’ll have a lot of support once I break the news to the family. Worst case I move in with them until I find a job. Sucks but I’m sure they could use some extra help around the farm, and it’ll be nice to work outdoors for a couple of weeks.

 

 

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

“I hope we can still be friends.”  where do bitches come up with that?  It’s so f~~~ing stupid.  My ex said that to me too as she had been taking God knows how many other c~~~s on the side for God knows how long.  Do they all say this stupid, stupid line?

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

It’s like they are hardwired to think it. And they honestly believe you can still be real friends. And then think getting p~~~ed at you will make me wanna be friends all of a sudden. Nope sorry, just doesn’t work like that.

Eventually I said “that wall is coming for ya babe and within a few years, you’ll know what I’m talking about” she looked at me like I was crazy, I didn’t wanna ruin the surprise that most older men would rather date a 20 year old than a middle age woman that’s been divorced. She’ll eventually figure it out.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Jack Harper wrote:

“I hope we can still be friends.” where do bitches come up with that? It’s so f~~~ing stupid. My ex said that to me too as she had been taking God knows how many other c~~~s on the side for God knows how long. Do they all say this stupid, stupid line?

I heard the same s~~~ from my ex. I will be true and admit that I tried to be, at first, because she told me “I am still alone” and that just sparked a dim lit inside me.

But, I am indeed a very lucky man, and some days later, I saw the proof of her bulls~~~ and the lies, right on my face…

But, today, I am free of all that. I am free of the bulls~~~, had more money on my account thar I ever had, do things I always wanted to do without the fear of her judgment and all the things that all of you know.

We are not new to that s~~~.

But I share the same vision, brother.

And thank you for making me remember that!

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Jack Harper wrote:

“I hope we can still be friends.” where do bitches come up with that? It’s so f~~~ing stupid. My ex said that to me too as she had been taking God knows how many other c~~~s on the side for God knows how long. Do they all say this stupid, stupid line?

My ex wife gave me the same s~~~ – ” I don’t think I could live with myself if I lost your friendship”. It truly is like they have a hive-mind; reading from the same script. She too was taking multiple c~~~s for multiple years on the side.

I have come to the conclusion it is a last desperate attempt to wrestle control. She will do one or both of the following.

A.) Keep you as an beta in her orbit in the hopes that you will stroke her ego ( parade you out as “my ex” as some sick trophy), or use you for free resources (my car needs fixed).

B.) Get you agree to be “friends” and then run you thru the psychological, gas-light, torture mill by being the biggest c~~~ possible until you have had enough a walk away. Then she gets to play the victim card as you “betrayed the friendship”.

Just walk away.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

I just literally got into it with her again because I didn’t wanna have a conversation about football. Normally I love talking football with her but why do I wanna even acknowledge she even exists. It’s bad enough I have to see her 4 or 5 hours out of the day…but talk too…check please.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Jack Harper wrote:

“I hope we can still be friends.”

Ask “Friends with benefits?”

After she says “No”, say “I agree, there is no benefit being your friend.”

[The ShrikeParticipant 147]

Good luck Gun.  Nice job on the two birds one stone thing.  Get out of NYC and a crappy marriage in the same shot.  Get back South and let this be a lesson to you.  Stay the f~~~ out of yankeeland!

[Anonymous 42]

The Shrike wrote:

Stay the f~~~ out of yankeeland!

Hey Shrike, yankeeland isn’t so bad once you tear it a new asshole, rip off it’s head, then toss your cigarette butts down it’s neck hole!

A MGHOW rearrangement can make anything fit like a glove!

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Thanks shrike. I’ll never move anywhere north of ky ever again. Lesson has been learned. Let me get back to my state where I can still legally own a gun…that I don’t have to jump through a million hoops to have in my OWN home. Get the f~~~ outta here.

Freedom is on the horizon fellas..i can almost taste it.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Gunslinger wrote:

Freedom is on the horizon fellas..i can almost taste it.

 

Run for it, Gun!

And, when you get to the Promise Land, crack a bottle to freedom and to us, ’cause we’ll surely crack that bottle for you and for freedom, brother!

Cheers!

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Thanks a lot…and I look forward to that bottle and I shall cheers to each and every one of you men.

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