An app that women hate the most "Venmo"

[rorickParticipant 682]

Thought of sharing this:

Source :- http://nypost.com/2016/05/25/cheap-bros-have-found-a-new-way-to-get-out-of-paying-for-dates/

Cheap bros have found a new way to get out of paying for dates

So much for chivalry.

Venmo, a peer-to-peer payment app owned by PayPal and popular with millennials, isn’t just letting 20-somethings split cab fares and utility bills — it’s turning guys into really stingy dates.

Shaquan Bailey, a 22-year-old caretaker, was thrilled when a guy she met online invited her out for their third date at a restaurant near her Bed-Stuy apartment.

She found the man charming over pizza and wine and, like a gentleman, he picked up the check and then walked Bailey back to her apartment.

She thought the date had gone well — until the guy sent her a $30 payment request on Venmo to cover half the dinner bill, which she grudgingly paid.

“I cut him off so quickly and stopped texting him back,” Bailey told The Post. “I do not have time for scrubs.”

The app, launched in 2012, lets users link debit and credit cards online to send and request money.

In January, users digitally transferred more than $1 billion on the app.

“I had a guy who asked me to Venmo him to pay for a $3 well drink,” fumed Tammy, a 21-year-old beauty blogger who asked that her last name be withheld for professional reasons.

“And I was like, ‘Bye.’ Where are all the real men?”

She refused to cough up the dough.

Although what these guys did was in poor taste, financial expert and author Lynnette Khalfani-Cox defends them, noting that going Dutch is a sensitive topic.

“Communication about money matters is always fraught with misunderstanding, and Venmo is kind of a technological twist to these age-old issues about money and dating,” Khalfani-Cox told The Post. “Maybe these guys thought they were being modern by splitting the bill and acknowledging that women can pay for their fair share?”

But to women like Kisha Pace, 31, of The Bronx, who was Venmo-requested by a former fling for a $50 meal, men should always pay for the first few dates.

“I can pay for my own bills, but I don’t think we should be splitting the bill until we’re seriously dating,” Pace, who did pay up, told The Post.

The solution to the dilemma is simple, if a bit awkward.

“Both parties should agree on who’s paying for what before going on a date,” Khalfani-Cox said.

Your thoughts guys?

I think the moment you talk about splitting money, equality just flies out of women’s brain.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

The woman in this article is like something out of a Jane Austin novel.

What’s wrong with her, can’t she pay her way? The parasytic leech.

[Anonymous 11]

“And I was like, ‘Bye.’ Where are all the real men?”

Running away from the plantation my dear.

The ire of these entitled c~~~s is amusing. However, I would not use this app. It makes it too easy for parasites to try to hit you up for money.

Seriously, if some wench thinks I’m repeatedly dropping $40+ on dinner/drinks for her at a normal low-mid(Cheap) type place to feed her fat rolls then she has another thing coming. I’ll never pay for any date, but I’ve quit dating so it really does not matter.

[Anonymous 54]

Empowerd bitches can pay there own way.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Just look at the accompanying language. Stingy, “I don’t have time for scrubs”, and “don’t think we should be splitting the bill until we’re seriously dating”. There is another solution ladies, cats and box wine… enjoy.

This article is just so far into the blue pill tradcon world that I can’t even understand it. I’ll bet that none of the women quoted has a traditional level c~~~ count, yet they expect the treatment.

A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is just a bad lock.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

When I was in a relationship her money was her money. My money was our money.

Read what the t~~~s say. They want the man to pay yet studies show females make more money in their 20’s than men.

They only want your money.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

I’m kind of confused. Forgive my noobiness.

If somebody sends you a money request, can’t you just decline?

Or are there legal consequences?

If he’s being cheap, you are allowed to be cheap too and just say no..right?

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[AttonParticipant]

It’s just easier to make her flat out pay the entire thing.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Running away from the plantation my dear.

And setting the fields ablaze sweetheart! I hope you like char, mud, and burnt stalks, and don’t bother using the bridges, C-Pig soaked them with diesel and set them ablaze!

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Ogre wrote:

Just look at the accompanying language. Stingy, “I don’t have time for scrubs”, and “don’t think we should be splitting the bill until we’re seriously dating”. There is another solution ladies, cats and box wine… enjoy.

This article is just so far into the blue pill tradcon world that I can’t even understand it. I’ll bet that none of the women quoted has a traditional level c~~~ count, yet they expect the treatment.

A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is just a bad lock.

Yeah, that sentence. Of course they won’t date seriously, because all she cares about is getting food for free, and the moment she’s had enough of the guy, she drops him and looks for other providers.

I’ve never dated, only went out with my gf’s and we always split the bill, or first time I pay, second time she pays, etc.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[rorickParticipant 682]

I don’t understand why still men want to do it or fall for it.. The investment you are gonna make is kind of one sided and no gains in return, obviously she’s not gonna allow you to have sex with her unless you spend a percentage of your savings on her which i think is ridiculous cause for that money you could have easily hired an escort..

Jan Sobieski wrote:

When I was in a relationship her money was her money. My money was our money.

I have seen that in married couples where her money goes to savings in her name, while his money is used for all monthly expenses including her’s.. so by the end he would be left with zero money while she would have all her money, plus this technique works well in favor of women when it comes to divorce.

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

. . . . “And I was like, ‘Bye.’ Where are all the real men?”
. . . . She refused to cough up the dough.

Big surprise there about a woman refusing to cough up the dough. If a man did that, the courts would garnish his pay.

. . . . But to women like Kisha Pace, 31, of The Bronx, who was Venmo-requested by
. . . . a former fling for a $50 meal, men should always pay for the first few dates.

So basically these women think a “real man” is one that pays for access to their genitals. These whores can find all the real men they crave while walking shady streets at night wearing colorful hot pants. They are just too shallow to admit it to themselves.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

I think its funny when women get p~~~ed over getting their equality once and for all but my question is how do you force the chicks to actually pay? because what if she does not have the app? does it go to her email?

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10917]

I can see why this app would be so disliked by women. It helps cut through the bulls~~~ of their games.
In the traditional method, a guy would have the task of asking them to go dutch. Some princesses would literally melt down right there causing a scene and worse, other women and manginas could start a barrage of shaming and guilt tactics. It would also kill the mood of any chance of getting some after the date.
Now this app avoids that hassle and also forces the cheap c~~~s to lay their cards out. Don’t wanna pay? Then I don’t wanna waste any more of my time with you. If you’re too spoiled to pull your fair share now then I already see how cheap you will be when we are together.
Another feature of this is that if a guy goes on a date and gets laid, he has the option of not sending the bill. If the bitch doesn’t want to have sex, he can send her a bill. The beauty of that is that rather than be tacky and admit that a second date is out of the question because she didn’t put out, he can decline based on her refusal to pay her fair share. She has no way of knowing whether his refusal of a second date was because she didn’t pay or that she didn’t put out. For a change, THEY can play the “guess what I am thinking” game.
The whole “He should pay for the first few dates until we are actually in a relationship” is classic too. Women use that same strategy right after they have a kid. “I shouldn’t have to go right back to work after having a baby until I am ready” which we all know translates into “I want to be a stay at home mom”.
This app sounds awesome.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

It’s a reverse s~~~ test. Any woman who doesn’t want to date you because you ask her to pay her way, is a gold digger/mooch/leach and it’s good that she “dumps” you. These women don’t realize they’re being s~~~ tested and failing.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Anonymous 3]

Because of women’s hypergamy it makes no sense to ever give women equal or higher wages to men. It really makes little to no sense at all to employ women in significant numbers period.

That being said, through my teens and 20s I never had to spend a cent paying for a woman, and in fact got many free dinners and other gifts. I’m sure if I dated at my age now I’d have to pay though. I used to think men were supposed to pay as well, until pretty much everyone, from women to other men, insisted I didn’t have to, and in fact women seemed to greatly resent that I thought they wanted me to pay for them.

I think the norm is most men do pay and insist on paying. These women they found are a minority, and they’re just trying to set a narrative. I do know female co-workers that have bragged about using men to get free stuff. But it seems like if a woman wants you to pay for things she’s not sexually attracted to you, and so it makes no sense for men to pay in the interests of getting sex out of it. The men that like to pay for women should just enjoy taking them out for that experience, and never expect sex. If they want to pay for sex they need to hire prostitutes. A woman will never ask a man that she is sexually attracted to for a cent, instead she will ask other men to give her money and often will just then give the money to the man she likes.

[RedpillPrimateParticipant 1026]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

When I was in a relationship her money was her money. My money was our money.

Women have always been like this since they started preaching “feminism” and “equality”.

Women want a traditional man, but they never want to be a traditional woman.

They don’t realize they can’t have it both ways!

[The_Mad_PirateParticipant 1278]

Strong, Independent Women who Need no Men, complaining about guys who treat them as Strong, Independent Women who Need no Men?.

SHOCKING!!!!

"We didn't start the fire. It was always burning. Since the world's been turning" "A world that vilifies men only breeds a generation of men that feel no empathy towards women" “In a woman’s mind , there is really no such thing as a ‘we’. In her eyes, earth allways revolves around her, not the other way around. So thinking that your needs , aspirations or desires are valid enough to be persued, or even that you are entitled achive such goals, is like asking your boss for a pay rise in your very first day at the job.”

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Varun wrote:

If somebody sends you a money request, can’t you just decline?

Yeah, simple as that.

Of course, if a guy tells a woman “Hey, it’s our first date so let’s go 50/50”, that means the guy doesn’t realize she has a golden vagina. Resulting in bad feelz for the wymynz.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

As for this app, I think it is bad form to send someone the 1/2 bill after a day after the date. You should negotiate these thing up front or better yet Not date at all!!!

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