Amazing how they are all the same..

[OldBillParticipant]

ForeverDone wrote:

However, I have zero tolerance for this s~~~.

Zero tolerance? Please. She was playing you like a fool.

You went 4 or 5 rounds with that bitch. Calls, voice mails, and texts from week into the next. And for what? A meal or something at your house?

The Friday she didn’t call first to tell you about the alleged change in her work schedule should have been the last time you spoke with her.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 11]

She’s banging other men or found a larger wallet to pillage. Women never break dates if they are 110% interested in you.

I know of an early 50s post waller who is banging both her ex husband and a simp. Neither know about the other. Women are sneaky liars.

I’d move on down the line if I were you.

[ghostParticipant]

Reading these types of threads puts me in a rage. I am seriously about to lose it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Vague / non-commital / flakey behavior in women is abhorrent.

75% of the time it’s a stupid s~~~ test anyway – to see how you’ll handle it (where they are aware of it or not)

ForeverDone wrote:

Friday came along, I texted her to confirm, she said she has to work . . . .

Experience has taught me that’s where you STOP. Mostly to communicate that your time and attention is a monetary gift – because it IS.

Show interest ONCE at the very most. Women who expect to be “pursued” in the slightest are buzzkill right out of the gate. When a woman wants to see you, she’ll find a way.

The endless tennis games back and forth can just f~~~ off.
If you’re not her priority, you’re only “an option”.

If you’re still into dating, ask yourself “why?”. It’s gotta be FUN. And if you’re not having FUN, there really is no point. After a while, I would say that directly: “you’re not much FUN” because that’s the whole point.

You don’t have to insist or project requirements onto them, but THAT is something you can insist on. Am I having any FUN? If the answer is no, there’s no point.

Women don’t think they have to be “fun” to spend time with. Bitch sessions and “serious relationships” are perfectly fine with them. They will even stay in relationships and keep dating a guy they can’t stop complaining about!

F~~~ that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 11]

ghost wrote:

Reading these types of threads puts me in a rage. I am seriously about to lose it.

Peace men. We have assumed control.

I had one about twenty years ago that used to play these same games with me. She had two other men here and a few in Atlanta.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

narwhal wrote:

I don’t think it’s very productive to blame or find fault in her communication skills. The result is just giving her the attention she wants, and allowing to twist into appearing like you’re controlling, not understanding, or whatever.

The reality is, you simply don’t want to deal with this, and don’t want to see her anymore. Any fault or reason is unimportant and unnecessary, since you don’t need a reason to not see a woman.

No doubt.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

OldBill wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

However, I have zero tolerance for this s~~~.

Zero tolerance? Please. She was playing you like a fool.

You went 4 or 5 rounds with that bitch. Calls, voice mails, and texts from week into the next. And for what? A meal or something at your house?

The Friday she didn’t call first to tell you about the alleged change in her work schedule should have been the last time you spoke with her.

Only one call. The texts she sent.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Keymaster wrote:

Vague / non-commital / flakey behavior in women is abhorrent.

75% of the time it’s a stupid s~~~ test anyway – to see how you’ll handle it (where they are aware of it or not)

ForeverDone wrote:

Friday came along, I texted her to confirm, she said she has to work . . . .

Experience has taught me that’s where you STOP. Mostly to communicate that your time and attention is a monetary gift – because it IS.

Show interest ONCE at the very most. Women who expect to be “pursued” in the slightest are buzzkill right out of the gate. When a woman wants to see you, she’ll find a way.

The endless tennis games back and forth can just f~~~ off.
If you’re not her priority, you’re only “an option”.

If you’re still into dating, ask yourself “why?”. It’s gotta be FUN. And if you’re not having FUN, there really is no point. After a while, I would say that directly: “you’re not much FUN” because that’s the whole point.

You don’t have to insist or project requirements onto them, but THAT is something you can insist on. Am I having any FUN? If the answer is no, there’s no point.

Women don’t think they have to be “fun” to spend time with. Bitch sessions and “serious relationships” are perfectly fine with them. They will even stay in relationships and keep dating a guy they can’t stop complaining about!

F~~~ that.

True. I’m just walking away. That’s how I handle it. Pussy ain’t worth a headache. Crazy.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Keymaster wrote:

When a woman wants to see you, she’ll find a way.

Exactly:
If she wanted to be with you, she would.
Otherwise, she’s s~~~ testing you.
Why let her?

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

XSDBS wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

When a woman wants to see you, she’ll find a way.

Exactly:
If she wanted to be with you, she would.
Otherwise, she’s s~~~ testing you.
Why let her?

Technically speaking, she did text me Saturday afternoon to hang out after she said she couldn’t on Friday, but my phone was off as I was hiking (no reception – battery would die). The issue was she said she was working on Saturday on Friday, so she couldn’t do chill on Saturday. I just said okay, maybe another time and made dinner Friday night. No biggie.

It’s on Saturday she really blew up like I did something to her. Weird. I guess it was a peek into her true personality.

[MonkParticipant 16985]

ForeverDone wrote:

And she’s a Psychologist …

That’s an out the door in under 2 seconds sort of Red Flag.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Monk wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

And she’s a Psychologist …

That’s an out the door in under 2 seconds sort of Red Flag.

LOL.

[StealthParticipant 5330]

ForeverDone wrote:

Monk wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

And she’s a Psychologist …

That’s an out the door in under 2 seconds sort of Red Flag.

LOL.

Monk is serious, as he should be.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

ForeverDone wrote:

Technically speaking, she did text me Saturday afternoon to hang out after she said she couldn’t on Friday, but my phone was off as I was hiking (no reception – battery would die). The issue was she said she was working on Saturday on Friday, so she couldn’t do chill on Saturday. I just said okay, maybe another time and made dinner Friday night. No biggie.
It’s on Saturday she really blew up like I did something to her. Weird. I guess it was a peek into her true personality.

“Technically speaking”? Your ego is trying to rationalize her actions.
There is no reason, no logic, no explanation. She did what she did simply because she WANTED to.

You (inadvertently) failed her continuing s~~~ tests on Saturday because your cell phone was off.
That’s why she “blew up”, and that’s a huge red flag signaling that she doesn’t want to be with you, she only wants to s~~~ test you.

Again, Why let her?

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

XSDBS wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

Technically speaking, she did text me Saturday afternoon to hang out after she said she couldn’t on Friday, but my phone was off as I was hiking (no reception – battery would die). The issue was she said she was working on Saturday on Friday, so she couldn’t do chill on Saturday. I just said okay, maybe another time and made dinner Friday night. No biggie.
It’s on Saturday she really blew up like I did something to her. Weird. I guess it was a peek into her true personality.

“Technically speaking”? Your ego is trying to rationalize her actions.
There is no reason, no logic, no explanation. She did what she did simply because she WANTED to.

You (inadvertently) failed her continuing s~~~ tests on Saturday because your cell phone was off.
That’s why she “blew up”, and that’s a huge red flag signaling that she doesn’t want to be with you, she only wants to s~~~ test you.

Again, Why let her?

Not. It’s funny though. She finally was able to text back and say sorry, sister and her hubby were in the hospital. Is it cool if I call you later. Said okay. Never heard back.

I swear. What a waste of time. Plus, I’m out like 60 bucks.

[ghostParticipant]

ForeverDone wrote:

Not. It’s funny though. She finally was able to text back and say sorry, sister and her hubby were in the hospital. Is it cool if I call you later. Said okay. Never heard back.

I swear. What a waste of time. Plus, I’m out like 60 bucks.

Reminds me of a few situations from my past. I hope you are done with this business now. Please, no more bro.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

I swear Gambit, you know what comes to mind with this situation?

I’ve disabled my dating account. I am 99.99999999999% sure they are all f~~~in crazy and nuts. Getting back to work and my own s~~~ together. Who needs this additional aggravation. Life is hard enough as it is.

[ghostParticipant]

ForeverDone wrote:

I swear Gambit, you know what comes to mind with this situation?

Hahahaha. That was hilarious.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

They are all the same, used up, and boring.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Anonymous wrote:

Women are not marriageable, cohabitable, or even dateable anymore. Modern women are worthless, yet dangerous to your WHOLE well being. STAY THE F~~~ AWAY FROM THESE GAME PLAYING CREATURES.

I assume that it’s just guys who can’t control/fight their sexual desires who still bother dating women nowadays. No sane man, with a degree of control, would date a modern woman. They’re just a bloody nightmare and so demanding/entitled. I’ve never dated or had a relationship with a woman, and given the way women are nowadays, I never want to. I certainly don’t trust women enough to actually marry one… and I want to keep what I have. Jesus, you must want your head testing, if you marry a woman nowadays; that’d be like asking her to screw you over. Guys need to get a grip of themselves and stop dating women; women are toxic and ‘the game’ is rigged, nowadays – why would a sane man even volunteer for that? Even if a guy cannot control his sexual desires, he can relieve them in safer ways that daing and having sex with the modern toxic woman. It’s like begging to be screwed over.

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