Hi everyone! I’ve been reading many intros. My heart goes out to each and everyone that posts on here. Let’s keep the support going.
Being lied, cheated and manipulated sucks. What’s even a worse feeling is thinking “I can’t believe I was too blind to see it.” Don’t let that eat you up. What’s important is knowing that you, myself and everyone on this forum now has the knowledge to know when we are being manipulated. Without the bad experiences, we would not move forward in life. I do believe it is our responsibility, as men, to teach young men in our lives the importance of self independence as well as trusting your GUT instinct if a situation seems bad or too good to be true.
Cooking, cleaning, ironing, laundry are all things men MUST know how to do. Why? For years this has been viewed as a job for a women. Why? I believe it was to control a man. How many times have we all heard “A way to a man’s heart is with cooking” I have been asked by plenty of women “Are you gay?” This was an attempt to insult. I have nothing against gays. However, once a women sees that a Man is independent and reliant on himself, it scares them. It scares them to know MGTOW exists.
I’ve spent the last 10 years of my life working as a EMT and a Paramedic. I have seen the best of humanity and I have seen the worst of humanity. Life is short. We have no way of knowing what the future has in store for us. However, you can live the life you want to live. It doesn’t mean you MUST get married. It doesn’t mean you MUST have sex. It doesn’t mean you MUST find a GF. Society unfortunately will try and create these traps for you. You know what is best for YOU. If it doesn’t feel right, GET OUT OF THE SITUATION BEFORE YOU GET INTO A DEEPER PIT WHICH MAKES IT TOUGH TO GET OUT.
This life is NOT your parents lives, GFs lives or your wife’s life. It’s YOUR LIFE. Never let ANYONE; man or woman, tell you “YOU CAN NOT AND WILL NOT ACHIEVE SOMETHING!”
From an early age, I never understood weddings. It made NO SENSE to me. A big celebration for what? Did they cure cancer? Did they solve the poverty issues that this country is facing? I would rather use that money to invest in MY WELL BEING. Going to school, learning a trade, taking random road trips around the country, eating well and living comfortably and still have enough to save.
I’ve heard the term “Women like to s~~~ test men” I don’t believe this is a test. I believe it is their true personality showing off. I believe the mental health issues facing men and women today are very real and they need to be addressed and not taken lightly. I have dated women who have severe anxiety, bipolar and depression issues. THIS WILL CREATE A TOXIC ENVIRONMENT FOR YOUR MENTAL WELL BEING. A women who criticizes men, for something like getting the wrong kind of ground meat, does not have a good head on her shoulders. If you think that is a big deal, how the f~~~ are you going to handle yourself when death comes knocking on your door?
If a women insults you, call them out. Give it right back to them. Don’t fall for the “I was just teasing you, no need to get angry!” excuse. This is a red flag to identify someone who can’t admit mistakes and it will occur again. She might not say it to your face but you can be certain she will talk s~~~ about you behind your back.
I’ve never been married and I don’t want to.. I never plan to have children. I am currently obtaining my BSN in nursing, with dreams of becoming an RN on a medevac helicopter and aeromedical plane. When a women brings up “Why don’t you want to get married? You’ll be lonely.” I ignore them. By them telling me I will be lonely, they are trying to create a sense of fear in me.
Men, learn birth control medications. Side effects, names (generic and trade), when they should be administered and how long it takes for the wanted effects to take place. Test women on this to see if they are bulls~~~ting you. The research you do WILL save YOU. I would look online for the names of medications and use a nursing drug book from the library to find the information like side effects, duration of the effects, etc.
Perhaps I’ll make a guide for everyone. I’ll also make a guide about the menstrual cycle. That is important to know to see if the woman who claims to be pregnant, really is. Remember, condoms ARE NOT A FAILSAFE METHOD. NEVER,EVER,EVER,EVER let a women try to convince you otherwise. I almost fell into that trap. Thankfully I was drunk and couldn’t get it up. Otherwise, I might not be where I am today. I do believe the woman I was with when I got whisky dick was trying to get pregnant. I was on a fire department at the time and I was about to become full time. That means good benefits and a nice pension. She knew this. She lurked around FDs trying to claim she wanted to be a FF/Medic but she had ZERO interest. Instead, she wanted a man’s money. I called her out on it and the idiot ADMITTED IT!!! I was more p~~~ed that she admitted it because she really had a good scam going! She blew her cover!
If you are hurting from emotional and financial pain a woman has given you, I suggest becoming active in nature. Hiking, trail running, etc. It will bring peace of mind and clarity. I live in Colorado. It is awesome. I certainly wouldn’t be here if I got married or had some kid.
Be well to your mind, body and soul.
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