Alimony (bulls~~~) is over

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  • #859430
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    Jackpine
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    Real quick background. Divorced in January 2015. Stuck with alimony (spousal support-f~~~ that) that I was supposed to pay until January 2019. She ended up getting married in July of this year. That dude is f~~~ed but that’s another topic. End of alimony and what a relief. I’ve been living it up with the extra $$ since. I’ve eased back but it’s so nice to receive what I’ve earned.

    To all you guys that are paying this silly nonsense money that the courts f~~~ us with, hang in there. It will end and the feeling is amazing. If any of you want to talk on the side and I can help, fire away. Please be strong and don’t do something you’ll regret. We got this!

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    SH3LLZ
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    Hopefully no kids? And extras points if he earns less. XD

    Not that matters. She’ll takes even more from him. CHEERS! (literally just raised a glass to you)

    WHAT’S YOURS IS YOURS!

    And she’s a bill pilled fools problem now!

    #ICETHEMOUT
    #MANOUT
    #HIDEYOURWEALTH

    #ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

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    743 roadmaster
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    Congrats!

    mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

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    Handsome Vic
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    Welcome Jackpine. Great message. I had to pay alimony as well, but it has ended. I had to pay out $90K to my long term/live-in girlfriend. So like you, I know how unfair and ridiculous the system is.

    The point is, alimony ends. A man just has to know and accept it as the inevitable cost of marrying or living with women in today’s society. It’s just part of the whole liability package that is the modern woman. Better to never marry or cohabitate in the first place. But for those yet to get through it, it ends… and a man gets back to doing what he should be doing — living a great life for himself.

    I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

    #859455
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    Shine
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    Go guy!

    Glad you have made it out the other side of your marital cage.

    I never married more by good luck than good managment, but now all I see is the truth.

    Good advice to keep your s~~~ together so you can get your peace. We are heading into exciting times for single dudes, so much cool s~~~ and fun stuff that a married man would miss out on.

    Not all men make it out alive though, just heard news of an old friend who offed himself. Brothers if you are struggling, a little bit of talk, basic exercise and eat some decent food. We are here for you guys, we are brothers of the same ilk.

    "Society is to blame" Denton

    #859456
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Alimony does not always end.

    The courts can make sure she gets it for the rest of her life. If the courts so decide. Particularly if she is older.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

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    In addition to a check for child support (which will one day end) and a check for spousal support which will go on for 10 more years (unless she remarries), I write a third check that was called a division of assets…so I will pay part of my military retirement to the ex FOREVER (regardless if she remarries).
    Congratulations Jackpine. Count your blessings.

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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    It was right the way it used to be.

    You leave, you want out, you take what you brought in. The other spouses protection and benefits end when you walk out the door.

    Pendulum has swung way, way way too far in the opposite direction, and it need a massive correction. Iniquity is running wild all over this land. And the women and libtard cucks say MEN arent the ones in control of themselves. These women and pussy men are still breathing today because a man they have continually wronged has controlled himself.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

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    Buller100
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    It’s good there are still some blue pill guys to marry our exes , mine married after 4 years .. We had a clean break split but my pensions were worth a lot , she agreed to a deal deal heavily favouring me, she did that as she wanted out as she was seeing him , she never knew I knew so I had a window of opportunity.

    Now she married a guy I am clear of any danger.

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    SpiderHerder
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    Cool. Lots of good news in this thread.

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    Jackpine
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    Forsaken-I pay her 50% of my military pension too. It’s goddamn wonderful. The catch that bugs the s~~~ out of her is, I’m 40% disabled and she can’t touch that part of my pension. Dudes, alimony is the biggest bunch of bulls~~~ out there. My ex went to school on my dime and then has the b~~~~ to say, “you sold a snowmobile we agreed you could keep. I’d like half that money.” Nope. She knows she’s wrong and she shut up.

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    Kbbroiler
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    Jackpine. I feel your pain but the thing men have to realize there is no exception to the rule with this. Someone told me something this evening about one of my co-workers who is a woman who is getting divorced. Now all of a sudden she wants to get a full-time job and there will be some at the end of the year which a few people are retiring. However right now she is temporary full-time so she makes more money because she is not paying into the benefit plan so I asked my co-worker doesn’t she know the finer point of math. She is taking home more money being temp full-time because she is part-time but now all of a sudden she wants to go full-time. She rented a place for 1600 a month which is 3/4 of our salary. Again, not knowing the finer point of math. But get this? She already planned to get alimony from the ex. This is what my co-worker said to me. Guys these women are premedated with their plans and she knows already she is entitled to this by the fact she was married to the man. The best thing to do in this rigged game is not to play at all guys. These women are calculating with their plans. Don’t fall for the I love you’s and that BS because all you are to them is a cheque with a bow tie around your neck. Rollo Tomassi said this there is no such thing as quality women today. There is just women. Unicorns and exceptions to the rule are very few and far between to the point of being none.

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    McQuade
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    In Australia, after divorce is done and financial settlements completed, they STILL get 12 months to have another go at spousal support claim if they are not done with you. I have 8 months left to wonder if that will happen.

    Uncunted

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    RealityBites
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    OP – I hear ya. As for myself I got extremely lucky; I got my wife to waive all Alimony and access to my retirement in exchange for a lump sum as part of the divorce settlement. Never ever marry! We learned the hard way…and hopefully all it takes is once for the lesson to sink in.
    Stay free my friends!!!! Look towards your future and build towards that goal!

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