Abracadabra. To the friend zone you go

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

If there is one word any woman can say that will banish you to the friend zone until they end of time has to be “sweet”.

“You’re sweet”. “That’s so sweet of you”. “You’re such a sweetie”. Condemned to oblivion once those words are uttered.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[RoyDalParticipant]

That’s what you get for being nice to people.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[foolsgoldParticipant 5664]

“You are not my type”= “I’ll f~~~ you when your income goes up”
“I’m just not interested”=”I’ll f~~~ you when your income goes up”
“I like you as a friend”=”I’ll f~~~ you when your income goes up”

You get the picture, gentlemen. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 581]

foolsgold wrote:

“You are not my type”= “I’ll f~~~ you when your income goes up”“I’m just not interested”=”I’ll f~~~ you when your income goes up”“I like you as a friend”=”I’ll f~~~ you when your income goes up”
You get the picture, gentlemen. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.

“I’ll f~~~ you when your income goes up…….and my physical attractiveness goes down and my usual taste in men start rejecting me.”

When a woman replies with “Awwwwww” at the start of her text/mail – she might as well be ruffling your hair like an annoying aunt!

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I stick by my words I used when I first joined this site:

“She sends me to the friend zone, I send her to the Phantom Zone.”

[megatoad69Participant 449]

‘I like you as a friend.’

And I’m like….’Yes! Another notch on the friend belt!’

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

I don’t have this problem anymore. With a little help from Neil Strauss and others like him , I came to realize that anything nice and considerate done for a woman is almost always counterproductive in a dating situation. So much so that it’s totally worth playing the odds.

Which is what I was doing anyway. I was playing the odds that I would luck out and find just the right girl who would be attracted to me because of what a good, kind soul I am. That’s like betting everything on double zero on the roulette wheel. Sure it might pay off once in a blue moon, more like once in a blood moon, but aloof and uncaring has yielded FAR BETTER RESULTS time and time again.

This was very difficult for me because it is very much against my nature. I really wanted to be a nice guy and get a positive response, but we all know it only leads to being shat upon time after time.

If I’m on a date I usually suggest we go dutch up front. Or sometimes I’ve suggested I’ll pick up dinner and she get the entertainment, that way I get to pick the restaurant.

Don’t act like you don’t care; Don’t care.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Well, a trick would be to use it. Here is a Sandman video on this:

Idea is to get resources from the zone, and not be played by it. I see you really should only have friends who actually are of benefit for you, and aren’t just there to validate your worth.

I know I also did a video where I commented on it.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[megatoad69Participant 449]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

Which is what I was doing anyway. I was playing the odds that I would luck out and find just the right girl who would be attracted to me because of what a good, kind soul I am. That’s like betting everything on double zero on the roulette wheel. Sure it might pay off once in a blue moon, more like once in a blood moon, but aloof and uncaring has yielded FAR BETTER RESULTS time and time again.

Don’t act like you don’t care; Don’t care.

And they wonder why they keep winding up with assholes, and they whine about the assholes they keep meeting.
It’s like buying a can of peas because they look great, then complain that they taste like peas!

It’s not hard to figure that the label indicates peas and peas taste of peas.
If a dude’s label indicates asshole, the asshole stench is all encompassing.

Next time I hear that ‘asshole’ story, I should tell her ‘I should slap you for being so dumbly shallow’, but likely she’ll fall in love with me because I threatened her.

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

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