A Woman's Subjective Mind

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

We know that a lot of women value their feelings more than logic. That’s why so many men go nuts when they try to settle a dispute with a woman based on logic.

What’s frustrating about having an intimate relationship with a woman: I have to get past her FEELINGS before there’s any discussion about solutions to problems. And if she’s not emotionally stabilized, I don’t get access to her body.

I have a simple mind. If there’s a problem, my immediate mode of thinking is solution-oriented. Having a long discussion about how I feel and how she feels makes me feel impatient if there’s an obvious way to prevent a problem from reoccurring. I just want to resolve conflicts quickly and go about my business. There’s only so much time during the day, you know?

In my past relationships, women would complain about something I did and my response was usually, “Yeah, I messed up. I’m sorry about that.” But when I would point out something about their behavior that I didn’t like, they defended themselves with all sorts of excuses. You see, I’m too demanding while they have reasonable demands. Get it?

If a woman doesn’t feel like acknowledging a man’s feelings when he’s upset about her bad behavior then…that’s just the way it is. That’s her mode of thinking. But a man must always acknowledge her feelings, and his sins are usually ten times worse than hers no matter what the situation. And if he doesn’t try to appease her, he’s an asshole.

If I’m dating a woman who believes that her feelings trump any problems we’re having, there’s no way the relationship is going to be long term—not unless I sacrifice my sanity. No amount of third party counseling is going to solve the problem of a woman who can’t see both sides of the equation.

Imagine if you had a child and you’re in a department store. The child sees a toy that costs $100 and asks for it. You try to explain that you can’t afford it because you have several bills that need to be paid. The child doesn’t want to hear any of that and starts screaming. You’re an asshole because you don’t care about what the child wants! You’re not making enough effort to get enough money to buy that toy! You should do some odd jobs or whatever. Don’t you care? How can you be so cold-hearted? Wah!

Some women act just like that.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 25]

a woman’s mind:

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I agree with your analysis. this is also why women should never EVER be placed in a position of authority. They absolutely do not possess the physical, mental or emotional ability to deal with responsibility.

Thus the only rational solution is to have nothing to do with them…ever for any reason…unless of course you like pandering to a tantrum throwing lunatic.

[GregB0Participant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

my immediate mode of thinking is solution-oriented.

A great post.

We are in the midst of Fight or Flight mode and don’t have the time, nor inclination, to wait for more information.

FunInTheSun wrote:

No amount of third party counseling is going to solve the problem of a woman who can’t see both sides of the equation.

There are not two sides, only her’s as she has already made up her mind. The man is wrong and needs to just accept that and deal with the new reality.

FunInTheSun wrote:

The child doesn’t want to hear any of that and starts screaming.

Of course not, you are the obtainer of resources … nothing more and nothing less.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 1]

the worst thing is when a woman comes to you to tell you her problems (please rescue me because i’m so hopeless at life that i can’t even handle these small problems!) and then either gets annoyed or just totally ignores your logical response that would actually help them.
they don’t want problems resolved, they feel what they feel and their brain tells them to make it known. they’re not interested in your opinion, even though it sounds like they are asking for it

[Anonymous 43]

woman comes to with a problem, she doesn’t like the obvious rational solution, then attacks you for telling her what to do and being domineering, insensitive or just plain wrong.

[MurineesParticipant 704]

An old video comes to mind.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Women don’t have any shred of objectivity. This lack of logic prevents them from actually solving problems.

Instead, they p~~~ and moan about, which if anything, only exacerbates said problems.

This is precisely why women love keeping Betas in the friend zone. He acts as her emotional tampon and can buy her things when she is “upset” from CHAD.

Both are fools playing a game that is rigged.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Anonymous wrote:

woman comes to with a problem, she doesn’t like the obvious rational solution, then attacks you for telling her what to do and being domineering, insensitive or just plain wrong.

Honestly, that sounds like my mother. She extends this attitude to her doctor(s). You see, she gets it in her head about what her problem is and she’ll go to the doctor. If the doctor doesn’t agree with her diagnosis then she will seek a second opinion. Then a third and so on until she finds the doctor that says what she wants to hear. I always give my opinions and she says that I am unsympathetic or lack compassion. My mom ALWAYS has a medical issue and believes that there is a pill somewhere that will make it all better.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Anonymous 6]

The gets the differences between male and female brains. Females have a larger deep limbic system. That’s the part that deals with feelings and such like. Some of the reports that I’ve read say that the woman’s limbic system is 2 to 3 times larger than a man’s on average. So there you go gentlemen, a scientific reason as to why women are emotional wrecks and use emotional reasoning (well reasoning might be a stretch).

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Anonymous wrote:

That’s the part that deals with feelings and such like. Some of the reports that I’ve read say that the woman’s limbic system is 2 to 3 times larger than a man’s on average. So there you go gentlemen, a scientific reason as to why women are emotional wrecks and use emotional reasoning (well reasoning might be a stretch).

I watched the black fish documentary about killer whales. They stated that orcas have limbic systems that are 2-3x largers than humans.

I would much rather live with a orca than the modern day slore. Orcas won’t divorce rape you, and they won’t nag you.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Anonymous 6]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

Travis3000 wrote:

That’s the part that deals with feelings and such like. Some of the reports that I’ve read say that the woman’s limbic system is 2 to 3 times larger than a man’s on average. So there you go gentlemen, a scientific reason as to why women are emotional wrecks and use emotional reasoning (well reasoning might be a stretch).

I watched the black fish documentary about killer whales. They stated that orcas have limbic systems that are 2-3x largers than humans.

I would much rather live with a orca than the modern day slore. Orcas won’t divorce rape you, and they won’t nag you.

Orcas don’t speak either. Now that’s a real winning combination.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Anonymous wrote:

Orcas don’t speak either. Now that’s a real winning combination.

Most definitely. With Orcas you truly Free Willy!

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0106965/

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Murinees wrote:

An old video comes to mind.

Exactly. It’s not about the solution. It’s about pandering to her emotional needs (puke).

It’s rare for a woman to do any self-reflection and see how they ruin relationships. Every problem has to be “handled” by a man and all their psycho drama has to be tolerated.

If they didn’t have sexy bodies, why would we even spend time/money for their companionship?

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

FunInTheSun wrote:

It’s rare for a woman to do any self-reflection and see how they ruin relationships. Every problem has to be “handled” by a man and all their psycho drama has to be tolerated.

This is because women lack any sense of introspection. Women don’t have intellectual parity with men.

Name one women who contributed anything of significance to science…

I’ll wait.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Even in this case, the teacher plays the victim, and appeals to emotion.

She doesn’t take any responsibility for her actions. It is all the boy’s fault. Always!

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

the worst thing is when a woman comes to you to tell you her problems (please rescue me because i’m so hopeless at life that i can’t even handle these small problems!) and then either gets annoyed or just totally ignores your logical response that would actually help them.
they don’t want problems resolved, they feel what they feel and their brain tells them to make it known. they’re not interested in your opinion, even though it sounds like they are asking for it

They just want to use you as an emotional tampon.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

Even in this case, the teacher plays the victim, and appeals to emotion.

She doesn’t take any responsibility for her actions. It is all the boy’s fault. Always!

It would be funny if Dr. Phil had the police off stage and called them in to arrest her after the interview. Imagine a grown male teacher sending nude selfies to a 17 year old female student. I don’t think Dr. Phil’s audience would be amused at all. So much for all this hype about equality.

Women want every situation in life to benefit them. They want to be seen as strong and competent in the workplace, yet weak and helpless when they get caught doing something illegal or morally reprehensible.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[AttonParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

I agree with your analysis. this is also why women should never EVER be placed in a position of authority. They absolutely do not possess the physical, mental or emotional ability to deal with responsibility.

Thus the only rational solution is to have nothing to do with them…ever for any reason…unless of course you like pandering to a tantrum throwing lunatic.

Responsibility is their kryptonite.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[MountainMike68Participant 137]

What I have learned is to simply not rationalize with them at the start of a conversation. I give either a yes or a no. Everything said is a statement of fact and not open for discussion. Only when she achieves a calm submissive state will I justify my reasoning.

What value does a woman offer a man that he cannot get cheaper and easier on his own?

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