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Today I sit at my computer with a smile on my face. A smile and that great feeling of happiness from being alive. It’s amazing. I am able to do this my brothers because of this site. I joined about Feb’15 and began arming myself with knowledge. I was shocked and compelled by the countless stories of man after man dealing with such bulls~~~.It’s amazing to know how i felt my whole life has been validated. I am not alone! I know that some men are/were actually bad f~~~ing people (ex: Charles Manson, Jim Jones, Joseph Stalin, Adolf Hitler, Street Performers, etc.) That however is not the way that the majority of us men are. We are decent hard working guys that do care and try our asses off for all kinds of stupid s~~~ just kind of thrown onto us by society. Here we confirm our suspicions and share our experiences and ideas. The knowledge I have gained from the horrors that stand before me saved my life. I could have been just another number. Another miserable soul trapped in a never ending spiral vortex of drama. Hell I’m lucky compared to a lot of these guys. Some poor bastards are even on the brink of suicide. No one should be subjected to drama so severe and traumatic that they want to die. If that is not the definition of abuse then I do not know what is. We all deserve to live a life free of bulls~~~. You get a limited amount of time here on this earth. It genuinely warms my heart to see us helping each other out. I plan on writing more and sharing some of my personal stories. I’m inspired by the love I see here and I want to add to the cause and help save some lives! At 40 I felt I would compile a list of truths worthy of passing on to my son or any man.
> Never give women money unless you don’t care about said money. If you do, consider it gone. You will never see that money again and if you stick around long enough you’ll end up losing more.
> Yes marriage is a f~~~ed situation I think that’s more than well understood here. Do not overlook “just living together” either that is equally dangerous. Beware of the signs ALWAYS. Even better just don’t do it.
> Beware of excessive flattery or sudden favors toward you. If she says she will do ANYTHING for you that means she will expect EVERYTHING from you. Notice those two words. Anything can literally be anything. However everything encompasses all of you. Your health, thoughts, opinions, soul, savings account…everything for anything. Hell anything could be a f~~~ing bag of peanut m&m’s! You may have just sacrificed your entire future for candy!
> Be Patient. Don’t feel pressured to do anything because of someone else’s happiness. I grew up with many assorted “low dose” red pill moments. Little things you always always knew weren’t right but you didn’t have the puzzle put together quite yet. It took me 20 years of playing the game and overdosing on red pills before I realized I did not want to want to play the game. Again, Patience.
> Violence is not the answer. If a woman makes you want to kill her… dude totally understand haha…. but hate is not what good men are about. If your around one that makes you violent then get away from her yesterday. It’s just not worth it. That’s not healthy and nothing but bad things will happen and mostly to you.
> Always employ simple problem solving and don’t give that a second thought. I once went on a date where a woman actually pulled out a long numbered checklist of all the “activities” we would go do . I took her back to her car. Who the f~~~ does she think she is? Problem solved.
> Don’t worry about all the guilt and sob stories. A lot of people in life are pussies even some men. Let them go with that. I have gone far out of my way to help women and have them say they love me only to be attacked when I didn’t want to get married or have children. Suddenly the “oh he is such a great guy, I appreciate you so much, amazing person” becomes “coward, weak, afraid, not a real man” Haha don’t you just love the not a real man line. It’s like the soccer ball of phrases for us MGTOW we are always kicking it around. A mannequin with a dildo duct taped to it is not a real man. We are the real deal motherf~~~ers!
> Women come with agendas and I’m not talking about the usual drive you crazy and empty your bank account. I’m talking events. There are weddings, birthdays, holidays, family gatherings, couples dates, date nights, special nights out, movies, dinners, funerals, and if you are lucky you can even witness your own castration without sedation. Not to mention all the expensive vacations because she’s stressed and wants to get away from it all. Sign up for that s~~~ if you want but I’d rather have a steak a beer and jerk off all over myself.
> Just about every strong and independent woman I’ve ever met has been neither. They almost fooled me a couple of times but it always shows through. Look at actions not words. If she is so independent then why does daddy pay her insurance or phone bill. If she’s strong why is she flipping out and crying about basic everyday problems.
> Fiscal Responsibility is nearly gone with women. Of all the women I’ve known I can think of only a handful that had this trait. I firmly believe at least 90% of women do not even have a backup plan or monthly budget. Even more so if she has a man. If you’re a hard worker and a saver and you plan and budget the last thing you need is a woman with no fiscal sense because once she burns through hers she will come after yours.
> Don’t be fooled by the sex. I don’t care how great it is. Eventually they will stop putting out or you will be so disgusted by the way they are that you don’t really want to bang anymore. Yes the crazy ones are the best f~~~s but they are the most dangerous to deal with as well. Friendly public service announcement: Your hand will never accuse you of abuse, rape, or try to take you to court!
> Loneliness can be difficult but peace and silence are beautiful. Nothing sucks more than having to listen to some broad run her mouth and still feel lonely.
Well that’s my few cents. It’s time for me to walk the plank. Until next time.. Keep fighting the good fight gentlemen.
The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."
> Loneliness can be difficult but peace and silence are beautiful. Nothing sucks more than having to listen to some broad run her mouth and still feel lonely.
Yep!
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
you f~~~ing nailed that !
more please..
no rush,
that was outstanding.
hell, i almost got a tear in my eyes…
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succinct.
i like succinct.And of course there is the wall,
post 40 women bring their true colours,
just them without the seduction to hide behind."Society is to blame" Denton
Well said – and sadly this applies to almost every woman out there. There may be among the billions a select few who don’t exhibit those rotten traits-but like the winning lottery ticket-your chances are almost zero. Added to that even if you’ve found the good one today – she could change in a heartbeat and destroy you.
Two marriages, thousands of dollars, destroyed physical and mental health-had I kept to myself the past 30 years I could retire today. Now at 56 I’d be lucky if I get out before I’m 70. Young men of MGTOW – announce of prevention is worth 100 tons of cure.Well said – and sadly this applies to almost every woman out there. There may be among the billions a select few who don’t exhibit those rotten traits-but like the winning lottery ticket-your chances are almost zero. Added to that even if you’ve found the good one today – she could change in a heartbeat and destroy you.
Two marriages, thousands of dollars, destroyed physical and mental health-had I kept to myself the past 30 years I could retire today. Now at 56 I’d be lucky if I get out before I’m 70. Young men of MGTOW – an ounce of prevention is worth 100 tons of cure.Some real gems here. It’s reeks of hard won experience. I can relate to all of them being at mid-life myself.
"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken
Well written..thank you.
I too would have saved the past twenty one years of my life if I had of had a lot of this information back when I was only 22.Its been blue pill for me since then and now choking on red pill rage currently(gotta get over it my son told me -too much red pill Dad he said)
One relationship -hundreds of thousands of dollars-be lucky to walk away from my current situation with anything but debt.Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.
> Loneliness can be difficult but peace and silence are beautiful. Nothing sucks more than having to listen to some broad run her mouth and still feel lonely.
Yep!
I was at a wedding last week and knew only two other people who I couldn’t stick to like glue so was trying to look comfortable standing there in a group of 50 – 100 people I didn’t know all day
The Robin Williams quote on this subject is so true
I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.
I’m using it in a slightly different context to the one he means but it still rings true to me last week. Every so often we all get lonely but being alone by myself is a million times better than being surrounded by people who make you feel lonely. It is an awful feeling
I’m using it in a slightly different context to the one he means but it still rings true to me last week. Every so often we all get lonely but being alone by myself is a million times better than being surrounded by people who make you feel lonely. It is an awful feeling
Sounds like my Ex.
Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.
Two marriages, thousands of dollars, destroyed physical and mental health-had I kept to myself the past 30 years I could retire today. Now at 56 I’d be lucky if I get out before I’m 70. Young men of MGTOW – announce of prevention is worth 100 tons of cure.
If I didn’t know better I would have thought you were describing me. I’m in my mid 40’s and in a similar situation (with kids), but I have my excellent health and a new found knowledge combined with a venue of like minded individuals here at MGTOW for support.
It’s all good, brothers.
Great post Rorschach! I need to print this out for my son…
Well said brother,
> Never give women money unless you don’t care about said money. If you do, consider it gone. You will never see that money again and if you stick around long enough you’ll end up losing more.
Unless they are a smokin’ high end escort that will rock your world for an hour and happily leave after,
Then it’s money well spent, lol
Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!
This has been one of my go to songs.The writer went to my highs school. Here is the time where others would state they knew him. I knew that my neighbor was His first wife.She was one of two good looking sisters that around the bend in e Dog River from Me.I understand she works for him until this day all though He remarried some one else. I was a freshman and He was a Jr in a all boys Catholic High School. I know of him.I was told by wet Willie’s Gtr. He was a folk singer and passed on seeing him play back in the day.Wayne Cochran the white James Brown and all the R&B great’s that played Like Dr Feelgood and the interns aka Tampa Red.All this talk about about the British music Southern Rock was alive and well long before it was discovered Greg and Duane Allman,Scott Boyer,Tommy Talaton,Tom Petty,Graham Parsons,Jimmy Hall,Dickie Betts,Billy Gibons and many home town heroes from the Gulf Coast that knocked up some chick and had to take steady jobs that the greats looked up to Johnny Walker from Pensacola is just one name that did not want to leave home town
There were some guys that staid in school just until old enough to join S.I.U and catch a ship.I remember a few that would catch a ship and come back to High School and show off their new 396 SS super sports that they bought with cash with one trip to Nam. The ships were smaller then and they had to anchor out and wait to be unloaded.They received combat pay(2x scale) the whole time.I was 14 ,rode a triumph tiger cub to school. I wanted to quit and catch a ship.No ones parents want kid to do this.JB went on to USM in Hattesberg,MS voted one of top party schools at time(think Animal House)
My Dad a pilot transferd from Brookley AFB to Pattrick AFB in Cocoa Beach the place shown as the Cape in I dream of Jeanie with missile garden Is Pattrick AFM .I met Murph the Surf in Satellite Beach.He was a Friend of Dick Catri owner of Surfboards Hawaii shop and later Hobie.Don Johnson played Jack Murphy in movie.The surfers were the smugglers of the day.They could travel to any of warm water places and there was a community there to assist them as where there was surf there weed etc.The song was written about a key west bar tender that was an ex smuggler.The words JB wrote was for everyone that did not want to tow the line.Get married settle down,do what your told ,blend in.The Album A1A was written when disco ruined the world.People wore silky shirts ate gorilla biscuits to mindless music.Greed was now King.Wall St and T Boone Pickens took over solid companies that were not in dept and made more busting them up.I do not know JB.I have lived on Aia,floundered and caught blue crabs on Mobile Bay ,but he plugged into a bunch of people that could not be sheeppol .That we were going to fight to be who we were
Mother, mother ocean, after all these years I’ve found
My occupational hazard being my occupations
just not around.
I feel like I’ve drowned,
Gonna head uptown.
If you have not run your body into the ground in your youth. Forty is a good time for a man. Men whom take care of their health tend to not start declining until their mid-fifties. And even then it is a very gradual decline.
In other words. You have a good 15 years left. Another 15 so-so years. And after that. Then, start looking for the exits.
You have a good 15 years left.
All we have is today.No one knows. I lived in Hawaii when dad was at Hickham AFB. I used to run into guys I knew that that were on R&R. I ran into a couple of guys I knew from the Main Line that went Back to Nam and die.I made up my mind to enjoy every day I have as these people would love to have another day the first one is James Dwight Newcomb a part native American, he never lived to drink a beer at 21 as were others. It has been sid I just can do what I want all my life. I can say I have so far. I know how to have a good life.I worked for being able to enjoy my life.
James Dwight Newcomb house ended at Brookly AFB.From end of his street you can see the new Airbus plants rolling off factory line.These guys never lived to know about cell phones,dvd, direct tv or Coach Saban . I never take a day for granted. I wan never given pussy I paid for all of it one way or another.
Lance Corporal
F CO, 2ND BN, 9TH MARINES, 3RD MARDIV, III MAF
http://www.virtualwall.org/dn/NewcombJD01a.htm
other lost people
http://www.virtualwall.org/dw/WyrosdicWE01a.htmDaniel Murphy Bennett
http://www.virtualwall.org/dm/ManningWT01a.htmhttp://www.virtualwall.org/dt/TouartJE01a.htm
correction the Mainland or Continental USA
Damn, OP, there’s so many quotable gems in your post that I’d rather just give you a slow clap standing ovation. I’ll be looking forward to more of you posts.
Rorschach, I salute you sir.
You are a good man, and I agree with all the points he has laid out. I am not a loser, I am not jobless, I have a vehicle, I have a place to live on my own, I enjoy sports and video games on the computer, listening to metal and jamming out. Why in god’s name would I ever want to ruin what I have now….the peace and quiet of my own company. I have friends, but I am a homebody for the most part and after being outdoors 9+ hours a day, I need to recharge the batteries and unwind.
I told myself a year ago (after my breakup with someone who I truly can say I loved and cared for— as you can see, what good did that do??? AWALT), that I wanted to remember this “feeling” I had. Sitting and sobbing (I am not afraid to admit I was hurt emotionally from the culmination of 4+ years of events), I looked into my bathroom mirror and told myself “Remember how bad this hurts. Remember this feeling. Do not ever feel like this again. Do you like feeling like this? Was it worth it? No, it wasn’t. Remember how you feel right now, remember this pain the next time this comes along”.
I love your post man, you have some very quotable things. It’s good to see, because it’s not just me. In fact, cheers Rorschach! Really good post, he hit the nail on the f~~~in head for the most part.
> Don’t worry about all the guilt and sob stories. A lot of people in life are pussies even some men. Let them go with that. I have gone far out of my way to help women and have them say they love me only to be attacked when I didn’t want to get married or have children. Suddenly the “oh he is such a great guy, I appreciate you so much, amazing person” becomes “coward, weak, afraid, not a real man” Haha don’t you just love the not a real man line. It’s like the soccer ball of phrases for us MGTOW we are always kicking it around. A mannequin with a dildo duct taped to it is not a real man. We are the real deal motherf~~~ers!
> Women come with agendas and I’m not talking about the usual drive you crazy and empty your bank account. I’m talking events. There are weddings, birthdays, holidays, family gatherings, couples dates, date nights, special nights out, movies, dinners, funerals, and if you are lucky you can even witness your own castration without sedation. Not to mention all the expensive vacations because she’s stressed and wants to get away from it all. Sign up for that s~~~ if you want but I’d rather have a steak a beer and jerk off all over myself.
> Don’t be fooled by the sex. I don’t care how great it is. Eventually they will stop putting out or you will be so disgusted by the way they are that you don’t really want to bang anymore. Yes the crazy ones are the best f~~~s but they are the most dangerous to deal with as well. Friendly public service announcement: Your hand will never accuse you of abuse, rape, or try to take you to court!
> Loneliness can be difficult but peace and silence are beautiful. Nothing sucks more than having to listen to some broad run her mouth and still feel lonely.
Those are gold and should be framed for future MGTOW’s for the rest of time.
For the record, it went from “Is this the part where I say I am so lucky to have you? I love you so much!!!” to “You are very judgemental, I feel like I am always walking on eggshells with you, I am sick of defending that I have a boyfriend to my friends (while she posts pictures on Fakebook with “another man”), and I just can’t take it anymore– i never knew a relationship could be so damn lonely”. Do you know how quickly this happened? A WEEK.
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