A Moment of weakness

[Anonymous 1]

My family member who has been with me for a very long time 16 years has gotten injured, Yes it is a cat. She is the only woman who has shown me love compassion and affection every day we have been together. I have a weakness for animals. I was worried this was could be the time for the very hard decision which I have had to make in the past. She has been there thru my military service my divorce, multiple relationships and households. I fear an animal mortality more than my own. Animals show us a love we yearn for.
An animal is born with a soul but a human has to earn theirs.

I have failed.

During my time of uncertainly I contacted a couple of my ex’s to seek comfort and they have shown compassion to the animal. I have thought of posting here to seek comfort but I guess I felt that would make me less than a man.

I should’ve have posted here. I should have entered the chat, We need to be open to the fact that their are times we are irrational..

Then my thoughts reached out to those who have taken their own lives. That is not rational. To take your own life for a woman or anything less than a horrible painful disease is completely unnecessary and irrational.

We need to be there for each other and make it known. We will help another solider who has been knocked down.

Make it known my brothers. Life can be hard at times but not that hard.

[Anonymous 54]

A few weeks back i had to put my oldest cat to sleep.She was 18.That cat loved me for longer than all three of my marages combined.I hear you man.

[Anonymous 3]

A man that feels nothing is not a man.
Cats are great, I hope your friend gets well.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6413]

My Dad’s farm; there are a couple of cats that wander by now and then. I believe they also visit several neighbors places. He keeps a bag of food around and gives them a little when he sees them. There is also running water nearby so with the food and drink .. I suspect he’ll have these occasional visiting pets for quite awhile.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Who are we to mock that a man has found contentment and companionship with a cat?

Especially when it has served as a better companion that those that would call themselves human.

Sorry for your loss.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

NO man here will turn another man in pain away.

NO MAN HERE WOULD DO THAT.

We encourage opening up, ranting, drunken tearful regrets etc.

We pick up the fallen and are pick up ourselves when down.

We are all brothers and we accept any man as long as he has honour and love in his heart.

No man falls on our watch.

[WallyParticipant]

That sucks, anytime you have to put down a pet.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I’ve had to put pets down before and it’s one of the worst things I’ve ever had to do.

I know I joke about women growing old with their cats, but it’s just because it’s the stereotype. I’m more of a dog person myself, but I have some friends who have two cats. The people hate me because one of the cats loves me more than he does them! When I go over there, he just hangs out with me the whole time.

If you’ve ever had pets and had to go through that, it doesn’t matter what animal it is. S~~~ty is s~~~ty.

I’m sorry for your loss.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 2]

Anonymous wrote:

I guess I felt that would make me less than a man.

Keep detoxing your brain with a Red Pill diet, you are not there yet. It’s my party and I cry if I want to! The party being LIFE ITSELF! Sorry for your loss mate.

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Anonymous wrote:

During my time of uncertainly I contacted a couple of my ex’s to seek comfort and they have shown compassion to the animal.

I can understand your need. When my wife passed away in 2015, after 6 years of marriage where I was her care-giver, as she had end stage renal disease and was on home dialysis.

Emotionally compromised, I bounced around dating sites trying to full in that gap. I got scammed by “It’s Just Lunch”, to the tune of $2800, because they “guaranteed” me dates… they don’t tell you that what happens after, which is usually nothing, is not their problem. So yea… they saw my pain, used it to trick me into paying and was left with nothing. Not surprising the company is run by a woman, they know how to screw with guys who are in a weakened state.

If anything it was the IJL scam, and researching what I could do, that led me to MGTOW. So in a way it was a good outcome, expensive, but worth it to find the MGTOW cause.

After her passing I inherited her 4 Chihuahua’s. They were her fur-kids and even though they are all female, they have shown me more love than ANY woman has.

More so than my wife. As I think back over our relationship, she really exhibited bi-polar behavior. Going from “I can’t live without you” to “I HATE YOU, DON’T COME HOME OR I’LL SHOT ON SIGHT!”. She put me through hell, s~~~ tested me every day.

Also at the time I was on my green card (Australian immigrant since 2009, however Nationalized US Citizen Jan 8, 2016), she threatened to leave me which would cause me to be deported. Let’s not forget the fact that I was her primary care giver and aside from her pittance of a disability pension, was the sole breadwinner, on a 6 figure salary in IT.

She would always say “I don’t need you, I want you”. Well then darling, lets see how long you can survive on your $900 month income!

Like I said the Chihuahua’s have shown me more love, unconditional love.

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[Anonymous 54]

I like dogs and cats.Im cool with most guys not liking them.Funny thing is guys dont like them cause..ready..cats go there own way!hahha Cats know what you think of them. If you dont like them thell have nothing to do with you.When i walk down the street peoples cats come off there porch and follow me down the street. They show up at my door near death asking for help. I have saved the lives of all my cats. They show gratitude and love every day of there lives.Unlike women.Ok back to your cat jokes its all good!

[RennieParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

A man that feels nothing is not a man.
Cats are great, I hope your friend gets well.

They sure are. Best to get them when they are very young, then they bond to you. That’s probably why alot of people perceive them to be indifferent because they didn’t grow up with the animal.

[Anonymous 11]

Losing a beloved pet and bereaving it means you’re not a sociopath nothing unmanly about grief.

I hate losing animals even a lowly replaceable nameless chicken though that’s more anger than grief. I inherited my cat from my mom. She’s a nosy bitch is some ways a but great cat in others. I still enjoy good woman and cat humor though.

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