A Letter From The Present To Your Younger Self

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  • #127358
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    FunInTheSun
    FunInTheSun
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    If you could send a letter back in time to your younger self, what would you write? I would write something like this:

    Make good grades during high school. Try to get a grant for college. If you get a student loan, make sure your occupation provides enough money for your lifestyle and loan payments.

    Spend some time looking for the kind of job that’s best for you. Be patient and well organized when you’re searching for a job. Prepare for the job interviews, and try not to be discouraged if you don’t get exactly what you want. There are many opportunities out there, and you’ll find a job if you’re persistent.

    SAVE YOUR MONEY. Have an emergency fund in your bank account. You may need money to fix your car, pay a fine, pay a doctor’s bill, etc.

    Set up a retirement fund as soon as possible. Get an IRA or a 401(k) plan. Take advantage of these pre-tax savings plans. You can start investing small amounts of money if you have a modest salary. By the time you’re 65 years old, you’ll have a large nest egg!

    Women are more likely to be impressed with your personality and the way you handle your life instead of the gifts you buy them. So don’t go broke spending your hard-earned money on gifts and entertainment to try to make them admire you. Take care of yourself first, and everything else will be easier to deal with.

    Give yourself a good work reputation. Be on your best behavior at work. Don’t flake on the job. Get there on time and do what you’re told. Try to make yourself worthy of a pay raise and a promotion. Work extra days or work overtime if they want you to. If you have a good reputation, you can use your supervisors and co-workers as references when you look for better job opportunities.

    If you can’t afford your own apartment: share the rent with other people, and SAVE YOUR MONEY for a few years. Or you can ask your parents if you can live with them for a couple of years while you work and SAVE YOUR MONEY. Then get your own place.

    Don’t eat a lot of fast food or drink a lot of beverages with sugar. You’ll end up fat and tired. Try to eat some fruits and vegetables. Try to find a balance between healthy food and junk food. Ideally, you should be eating more fruits and vegetables than cheeseburgers and candy bars. If you’re stressed out, it’s a good idea to take a long walk or do some exercise. You’ll feel better.

    Don’t worry too much about situations that are out of your control. Focus on opportunities that are available to you so you can upgrade your life.

    Stay away from toxic people—the kind of people who discourage you from creating the best life you can have. Constructive criticism can be taken into consideration if the person genuinely cares about you. Also: don’t date women who are not interested in being your girlfriend or having sex with you. They don’t deserve your time, effort, and money. If you’re dating a woman, and she develops a s~~~ty attitude, stop calling her and date another woman. Your emotional well-being is more important than trying to develop a strategy to deal with her moods. A boyfriend is not a therapist. If she can’t be reasonable and work things out, forget about her. There’s other women that will go on dates with you. A girlfriend is supposed to respect you and be supportive of your goals in life. If she’s constantly trying to change you, you need to date someone else.

    Buy as much Apple Computer stock as you can during the 1980s! HOLD onto these stocks for 30 years.

    And last but not least…

    Go to the Kentucky Derby and bet on the following horses:

    Ferdinand, Alysheba, Winning Colors, Sunday Silence, Unbridled, Strike the Gold, (etc.)

    "I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

    #127370
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    LonerBoner
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    Since i know myself it would be short otherwise i wont read it:

    1. Dont allow yourself to love women, its a hoax.
    2. Spend time and energy on improving yourself, your body and mind.
    3. Dont be afraid of your father and sad that your mother ignores you, they love you and dont know any better.
    4. Ignore all the tough guys, you dont need to impress them, focus on your real friends. Ignore these people: “list of people to ignore”
    Take extra care of these people: “list of people that are solid”
    5. Travel, study abroad and do what you and only you think is right.
    6. Keep better contact with you brother

    DONT be afraid, life is a big joke, have fun!

    Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

    #127386
    FunInTheSun
    FunInTheSun
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    I wish I was the guy who provided the startup money for Google (in exchange for stock). I’d be so rich, I could wipe my ass with $100 bills.

    "I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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    LonerBoner
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    Tell Hitler not to invade Russia.

    looool always thought about this, Europe would absolutley be a different place, not invaded by muslim terrorists but f~~~ed in other ways…Freedom of speach bye bye

    Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

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    Anonymous
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    Never ever trust a woman or a corporate type.
    Go your own way and never depend on others.
    Do not put all of your eggs in one basket.
    Only hang around people of good character.
    You should have bought that 39 acres of land back in 1990.

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    Anonymous
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    You should have bought that 39 acres of land back in 1990.

    Hey C-Pig, I did buy 31 acres in 2000, NICE MOVE! and only a couple of years after my MGTOW awakening!
    If I could go back I’d tell that 13 yo NO! It’s not “child molestation” when she’s 13, and you’re only 11!
    I would have convinced myself to off women forever, and that I was right in hating Mizzz Parkins, and that I should have vandalized her car as well!

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    Anonymous
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    I should have vandalized her car as well!

    It’s best you didn’t do it. I just got paid back for egging a Porsche’s interior when I was 13. I recently got my Mustang convertible’s rear window smashed and now have a mentally ill homeless squatter living in a broken down van right in front of my house curbside.

    He’s not breaking any laws here as it’s a public road. He threatened to torch my house if I called police which I did. It’s going to take about 3 weeks to get van impounded.

    F~~~ the tax paying citizen home owner’s right to use his property w/o terroristic threats being made to him.

    #127484
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    Grumpy
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    I would send mine to my 16 year old self, and would be the following.

    1, Invest in Microsoft, Apple, AMD, and Intel, hold on to it. Think about retirement now and always keep it a priority. It will happen sooner than you think.
    2. That “hot dirty blond chick you will hook up with on new years eve”, is going to f~~~ you up for the rest of your life. Pump her and dump her and never look back, I am serious kid, if you don’t 17 – 25 will be extremely painful for you in all aspects, and will follow you until you finally find some peace at 50.
    3. I know you love the army, stay with it, but learn when to shut your trap, and that breaking your body and mind in order to accomplish the mission, doesn’t always accomplish the mission. It will be painful later in life if you forget that.
    4. Finish your education NOW, it gets harder later in life
    5. Don’t worry about where you get sent, you’ll survive if you remember #3, Do not fall for the dying overseas without a family at home bulls~~~. Its a trap.
    6. Enjoy life, good bad and ugly, from this moment on. Don’t wait until your body finally breaks down to start remembering you are actually a human being.
    7. Never marry, it is toxic for you. It may work for others, but not you. Do NOT attempt it.
    8. Love and respect yourself, forgive yourself for your mistakes. Waiting or looking for Love and forgiveness from others is a waste of time and resources.
    9. Do what you love doing, but think rationally about everything.
    10. Do NOT throw this letter away.

    Love,
    The grumpy old bastard that you will become 🙂
    PS
    Buy the f~~~ing land you are looking at ASAP.

    There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

    #127514
    Rockmaninoff
    Rockmaninoff
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    Dear Rockmaninoff,

    Allow me to introduce myself: you’ll be I in a few years. Within the year I’ll be graduating with a degree in Computer Engineering from a reputable school.

    I’d like to tell you a few things that I hope will help, but it’s likely that you’ll take nothing to heart. You may be even a bit skeptical. That’s all right, though; it might be better for you to learn from your own experiences. Some of the things I’m going to tell you will never make sense until you yourself go through them.

    All your problems you have now? Some of them you’ll still have, but most of them will be completely gone in a few years; college has an amazing way of wiping the slate. Most of that stuff you’re so stressed about now will even matter a bit in a few years. You’ll have new problems. While I don’t claim to have the solution (I am, after all, going through them), here are some things that I’ve found to help:

    Trust your own judgement in everything; it’s the only thing you have. Seek advice from those who know more in some fields in order to help you form your opinion, but never take anyone’s word at face value. Most of everything is bulls~~~.

    Life cannot be perfect. There will always be some aspect of your life that you will find lacking. I know it’ll be hard, but try to focus predominately on the 99% of your life that is perfect, and take your time in your efforts to improve that 1%.

    Take the blame for everything you know you did wrong. But never take the blame for things you didn’t do, or things you didn’t know you did wrong.

    THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. Never listen to anyone who tells you there’s something wrong with you because your problems are peculiar only to you; he almost certainly has problems that you yourself don’t have.

    Women are fickle, flakey, and flighty. Their behavior is their responsibility, not yours. How they treat you is not your fault, but theirs. Taking the blame for what they do is a certain path for abject despondency.

    Every woman is either A) not attracted to you, or B) wants you to take her. If you don’t communicate your meaning to her, how can you expect her to communicate her meaning to you?

    ". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

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    Anonymous
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    He’s not breaking any laws here as it’s a public road. He threatened to torch my house if I called police which I did. It’s going to take about 3 weeks to get van impounded.

    Dude, let me tell you a story about an asshole that intimidated an old couple to use their land to park his recently acquired camper and began living in it! My friend noticed him casing his house, and I noticed him casing my neighbors and my house. Long story short; some outraged dude (in secret) with a strong sense of JUSTICE and moral f~~~ing outrage over the bullying of senior citizens I new since age 12, “Towed” his s~~~-box camper out to the main road and abandoned there! Just so happens I was driving by (noticing the hazard in the road) and called the police. Fortunately it was towed away before he got back from wherever he was, we never saw him again….
    Do you have a “tow” chain C-Pig? Old coke bottle, rag, and some gasoline? Sell it outright on craig’s list? You need to find some outraged dude with a strong sense of JUSTICE!!!

    #127588

    Anonymous
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    Do you have a “tow” chain C-Pig?

    I do have a very nice tow chain I inherited from my Father and a pickup truck. I’m just not wanting to end up on the wrong side of the law over this as they seem to be more about protecting the parasites these days. This f~~~er is truly crazy and has some woman living in there with him so it’s crazy squared. I always handle crazy with kid gloves until I’m ready to execute my elimination strategy. I am ruthlessly efficient, and they don’t even see it coming. I’m in stealth mode right now sapping his position. I can see her claiming I hit her or some other bulls~~~.

    The officer that came out told me he’d keep an eye on this guy for me as this is his beat. It’s nearly dark here, and no one is in there.

    Another point I wish my younger self would have known is that all women are truly crazy.

    #127639
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    Franky
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    “Dear franky junior,

    Do the absolute same s~~~ you’re doing now and listen to no one.You’ll achieve everything you wanted, yes even the absurd stuff,
    happy times ahead.”

    #127670
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    Anonymous
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    I’m just not wanting to end up on the wrong side of the law over this as they seem to be more about protecting the parasites these days.

    That’s what the tow chain is for! You go “between” the law! With a good strong chain you can pull allot of justice!

    #127708
    Casper
    Casper
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    Dear Casper,
    You got this!

    Sincerely,
    You

    I would never be where I am if I did things differently, and I love where I am.

    #127833
    RoyDal
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    It is said a great king once charged his wise men to invent him a sentence which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations. (He must have thought he had stumped them this time!)

    They had these words inscribed on a ring which they presented to the king: “And this, too, shall pass away.”

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

    #127835
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    FullMetalExo
    FullMetalExo
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    You will be fine. Thrust yourself.

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