A "friend" got married and we lost him for good

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

“Friend”, as I only know him because some other friends used to chill with him every now and then, and I mostly saw him sitting in the back of the pub. We didn’t share more than 100 sentences over a course of 5 years, so more of a vague acquaintance. This guy was always the shy version, didn’t say much, sat in the back, laughed when others laughed.

He was in the friend whatsapp group and on facebook. I will not defend why I’m on facebook. Anyways, he got a girlfriend a couple of years ago. Nothing wrong. Then we saw him less and less in our fav pub. Still, could happen when money is tight, right? After that, he became her fiancee (scramble the letters, replace one and there we have finance!) and they married a year later. This was about half a year ago. His facebook account became a joint account. No more updates about games, metal concerts, awesome old cars. No, the joint account was all about female stuff now, but still signed by her & his name (hers first because duh, wimminz are way more important!)

Next thing we know is that she controls his phone, shames us in the whatsapp chat group, laughs at us “nerds” and removes the guy from the group where 75% of us is single by choice. Never heard of him again until there was a picture posted on the facebook account, not much different than the one that circulates here every now and then: the woman happy about the miracle, the man having the 1000 yard stare of anguish and defeat.

There’s another picture from here that he reminds me of: he used to have long hair, wore dark clothes (we’re all metalheads) and a veyr neat goatee. When he married he had his hair cut short, flamboyant clothes on and a clean chin, sigh…

I’m sure he loathes his life now, but I’m not going to waste my energy on him, mostly because I never really knew him that well. Still, 10 seconds of silence for a fallen brother is the least I can do, then raise a glass of wine and whisper “you f~~~ing idiot”.

“Best thing” is: the c~~~ already gained 15-20 pounds and she didn’t even poop out their kid yet, and I’m not talking about added weight from the baby.

I just had to get this off my chest as it’s 1:03am here and I’m drinking hard tonight for no particular reason.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

I’ve got a “friend” getting married tomorrow. His wedding is an outside venue and it’s going to be raining and thunderstorms! Bad omen me thinks. Then they’re going to Maui for the honey moon.. He wanted to go to Mexico, but the wife insists that she must go to Hawaii$$. Also she’s making him shave his beard for the wedding… er man card turn-in ceremony. He’s probably shaving his beard right now for the big day, crying alone in the bathroom..

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Why don’t we just call it Conscription? lol

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[TaxGuyParticipant]

There’s a 60-70% chance you’ll get him back in a few years. You may have to take turns buying him a beer though, he won’t have any money left.

Order the good wine

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

TaxGuy wrote:

There’s a 60-70% chance you’ll get him back in a few years. You may have to take turns buying him a beer though, he won’t have any money left.

hahahaha

so true. so true

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

If I were in that situation, I would send him an anonymous link to MGTOW with the message “Brother, I know you. The information on this website may help you at some point.”
This approach will keep you invisible while at the same time providing him with information that can save his life.

[Anonymous 18]

Manginas aren’t friends.

He, however, signed up for the pre-MGTOW classes. Once he fails her s~~~ tests he can join us as full-fledged MGTOW.

Keep a seat empty- next to yours. It’s a big hall. Chips?

[HitmanParticipant]

dead man walking..

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

He’ll be back,80% odds he will..

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[RhettParticipant 637]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

He’ll be back,80% odds he will..

He’ll be battered and bruised so just let him know that we’re here for him.

Single guys come home, look at what’s in the fridge, and go to bed. Married guys come home, look at what’s in bed, and go to the fridge.......But the best representative of MGTOW is…………… an empty chair,.

[Anonymous 11]

Her’s and his CIAbook account how quaint. I think I need to go to the emergency room now.

Sorry for your loss. He is so f~~~ed.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

I have seen this s~~~show 1000 times over the years.

I try to take them aside, warn then what that “I Do” really means.

Some listen and think before going all in. Others make fun of me. A very lucky few listened and thanked me later as they watched what happened to the next sucker she got.

But it’s “all good”. The ones who laughed at me, I get to laugh at years later when they have screaming kids, Child Support and Alimony to pay for years.

When they go Full Mangina, unless the consequences beat some sense into them, it is better to let them go.

Frank V.

[Anonymous 1]

Had a similar thing happen to a friend of mine.

He was in a long term relationship with a Polish girl (she had no money, no job, no education, no place to live. He, of course, financed her schooling, provided her a car (mercedes, of course), rented a posh apartment for them, everything).

They got married almost exactly one year ago. At the wedding I was talking to his brother (who is also married) and casually mentioned that that day was the last time I’ll see him (meaning my friend). The brother said “if that happens, I’ll kill him”.

So, one year later, you can guess what has happened. I haven’t told the brother as I know it’s a lost cause.

I think their marriage last a few years and come flying apart, as it always does. I have to say though, I’ve seen this happen with a lot of the men I know, i.e.: they get roped into/ actively seek a relations~~~ (marriage or other) and I never hear from or see them. If you see them when at the supermarket, they pretend they don’t know you.

But when they exit said relations~~~, they all of the sudden have more time. It’s like these men are using me as their emotional tampon between relationships. I’m getting tired of being a foul-weather-only friend. Next time I’m going to ignore them…

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Women that change you after marriage is the worst type of women ever. I am very much against it.

Everyone has his/her own expression of personality. Someone else should have no say in it whatsoever. Not parents, not spouses, not the government.

The only exception to this rule are schools and places of work….because of obvious valid reasons.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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