A female perspective on online dating

[FrederickTheGreatParticipant 235]

Here is a video by a female about how she “hacked” online dating.

Here are a few things I noticed, courtesy of the red pill:

1) Her stated motivation for finding someone was not to have a companion for life, someone to talk to, or sleep with. Her motivation, as she puts it, was that she saw other women in her family having children. Her “timeline” ends with a child. She ends her “success” story with a photo of her child.

2) Although she does not tell us all of her 75 criteria, you can freeze frame to see some of the ones she wrote on the screen. Two are that the man must always be 20 pounds heavier than her and that he must be a certain height in case she wears heals. In other words, she not just being superficial in the sense of “I’d like to enjoy looking at you.” Worse, she wants to man to be a prop so that she always looks good next to him IN THE EYES OF OTHERS. Once again, the man isn’t important…it’s what he does for her.

3) Her #2 criteria is “Be very good with money. . . Make it work for us.” I think we know what that means.

4) Her #3 criteria is “Career must be important but not all consuming (like me).” I’m not sure what the “like me” means. Either she means that she makes her work all consuming, in which case she is a hypocrite and is admitting that she will not be there for the man. Or she means that she herself must be all consuming, which is control-freak stuff.

5) She says that she is only attracted to 1 in 10 men, yet she is hardly in the top 10% of looks. (Not that she’d get a pass for being better looking, but at least it wouldn’t seem so hypocritical).

Did any of you notice anything else?

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

She certainly doesn’t have it–her only criteria should be: is he still breathing!

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

This just goes to show how f~~~ed up online dating is. A 4 out of 10 who would get no interest in real life suddenly thinks she deserves one of the top 10% of men looks wise who also has money.

Love the way she has used photo’s that look nothing like her. So a year after meeting they were married, 18 months later they had a baby looks like the bitch got exactly what she wanted. Only a few more years and she can divorce rape him and get back on the carousel.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Can you imagine the fire storm if a guy came out with a list like – must be between 5’2″ and 5’7″ , not weighing more than me at any time?

Oh yeah I forgot,we’re just supposed to be thankful that they offer their stinking, disease filled pussies to us.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

What? This beautiful specimen of fertility is still on the market? Shocking!

[HitmanParticipant]

that woman wants to date ???
with a man?
human?
living?
good luck with that..
.
she should lose half her body weight,
exercise and find some form of spirituality.
..her inner ugly is showing on the outside.
brrrrr….

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I watched that video last year. What astounded me the most was her list of demands for such a frumpy woman. I mean, look at her, she’s not even last-woman-on-earth material. Seriously, if she was the only woman left, I’d pass.

[FrederickTheGreatParticipant 235]

Mr. Man wrote:

I watched that video last year. What astounded me the most was her list of demands for such a frumpy woman. I mean, look at her, she’s not even last-woman-on-earth material. Seriously, if she was the only woman left, I’d pass.

But even if she were a 10 out of 10, would that entitle her to behave like this? Looks fade. Walls get hit. If she’s going to have high expectations about aspects of a man other than his looks, why shouldn’t she be required to bring an equal amount to the table?

Hitman wrote:

that woman wants to date ???
with a man?
human?
living?
good luck with that..
.
she should lose half her body weight,
exercise and find some form of spirituality.
..her inner ugly is showing on the outside.
brrrrr….

Well, according to her, she did find someone. If you can explain what that guy was thinking, please do.

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

FrederickTheGreat wrote:

Well, according to her, she did find someone. If you can explain what that guy was thinking, please do.

The Greatest Irony in all of this – She Probably was the Only one who was talking to him.

Aside from all her BS data IF there was a total BABE talking to him who would he have chosen ?

Her data points were BS

She rationalised that She beat the Competition. Simply there wasnt any.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh
She summed it up at 0.17 – 0.28
Naturally she went looking for answers from others when she already knew what the truth is, she just couldn’t accept the truth. The rest of her presentation is more of a woe is me, but here are my demands kind of thing.
Pretty big list and expectations for a fat 2/10 (I’m being rather generous IMHO)

After quiet a few relationship attempts, I figured out the 1 constant in those failures was me. I concluded that since the issue had to be me, obviously I am not relationship material, and took myself out of the game. Strangely I am happier now than at any other time in my life before I un-assed that AO
Now, seeing as just a lowly stupid man that had 1 too many head injuries like myself could identify and take corrective measures in that game, I fail to comprehend how supposedly intelligent, educated, and “savvy” women can’t make the connection.

Anyhow, not my circus so I don’t care about the clowns

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Hmm, what a mind boggling formula:

her peer pressure
+ her own (complicated enough) preferences
+ her own (again complicated enough) algorithm she came up with
x her own overall effort to find “Mr. perfect right” in this way

= her own rationalization hamster over-spins and explodes in an all time me-me-me-style-bang in the name of
complete happiness, which in itself (quick reality check) is non-achievable in the long term, because well: “Hang on. Actually, couldn’t I still do better than that…????”

If I personally was ever this desperate to go as far as that, eventually my rationalization hamster would rather quickly grind to a screeching halt and go: “Ahh well, you’d be way better off staying single and happily go your own way, if only because awalt…”
-Because I’m a rational thinking man by nature and therefore don’t need no “hamster” to do that work for me-

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[experiencedParticipant]

Women like that (all women) take pride in their taking pride.

Total mental hamster wheel perpetual motion machines.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

online dating is a waste of time

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 25]

I predict extinction for her

Her self-entitled genes will not be missed. I’m sure that in time nature will replace her with women who get the concept that they need to bring something to the table.

I think she should have her online dating username as “Princess Dodo“

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Great Eye Frederick.

FrederickTheGreat wrote:

Did any of you notice anything else?

“True love will find you when you least expect it”.

In every goddam example of female “guest speakers” , seminars, lecturing bitches on TV talk shows, self-help books, female relations~~~ “experts” and even in song lyrics… they always say exactly the same stupid s~~~:

“…..love will find you….”.

… as if it’s a lottery win, she has nothing to do with it, and all she has to do is RECEIVE. THAT is why she is a failure in ALL her personal relationships and is too dumb to see it.

47 seconds into this pig, and anyone can have her figured out better than she does — including all of her family and grandmother. “What’s wrong with me?”. I’ll tell you, you’re LAZY and useless and you think “love” is supposed to come to you. But it’s not what you get. It’s what you GIVE, dummy.

Thinks she has “online dating” hacked, but can’t even figure out her own personal failures.

“I”m constantly swimming in formulas and numbers and charts”.

“And fried chicken, by the looks of it. Love isn’t numbers, formulas, and charts you idiot. That’s banking, accounting or the stock market. Have another donut”.

I’m at 57 seconds now and I can’t listen to this stupid cow any longer. Anyone (and that includes women) who listen to female relationship advice – of any kind – is making a mistake of such gigantic proportions. it will ruin their lives and make wretched their destiny.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

PistolPete wrote:

She certainly doesn’t have it–her only criteria should be: is he still breathing!

Well, even a corpse gets stiff at some point… so I guess breathing isn’t really that important for a thing like her.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Keymaster wrote:

“I”m constantly swimming in formulas and numbers and charts”.

“And fried chicken, by the looks of it. Love isn’t numbers, formulas, and charts you idiot. That’s banking, accounting or the stock market. Have another donut”.

Ha! Funniest thing I’ve read all dingdang weekend!

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

The only way you can find a worthwhile woman is if you can get yourself a Star Trek-like holodeck and program your dream girl yourself.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

So she “hacked” online dating. Fair enough, I won’t be found there (or anywhere else near her) anyway. So she can “hack” whatever she wants.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[FrederickTheGreatParticipant 235]

Keymaster wrote:

“True love will find you when you least expect it”.
In every goddam example of female “guest speakers” , seminars, lecturing bitches on TV talk shows, self-help books, female relations~~~ “experts” and even in song lyrics… they always say exactly the same stupid s~~~:
“…..love will find you….”.

I agree that this is advice one hears a lot from women and that it doesn’t make sense, especially for a man. Men are expected to initiate everything (at their own risk and expense, of course). However, to give the devil her due, this particular woman in the video actually advocates that women not wait for love to find them. Rather, she is advising women to be more proactive by using her online dating methods, and claiming that this was the reason for her “success” in landing the kind of man she wanted.

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