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    Anonymous
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    I have known this female friend since we were 7 years old. We are both in our twenties now. I remember when we were teenagers and she used me as her emotional tampon anytime her asshole boyfriends treat her like crap. Her younger brother whom i am still good friends with warned her numerous times not to date assholes. I distanced myself from her for a while and last year she called me out of the blue and asked we hang out at her place. I foolishly went to her place thinking nothing dodgy would happen. I got to her place and behold…”Her family was having a dinner and i got invited” (btw my parents and her parents have been close friends for decades even before we were born). I sat and enjoyed the dinner with my “close” family friends.
    All of a sudden her parents started talking about me being her future husband. I was irritated and shocked. I did not want to reply rudely to her parents to i laughed it off. Next day, she called me and asked me when am I taking her out on a date. It was then i didn’t give a s~~~ and cut the line immediately. Few days later her younger brother texts me and says she complained to her parents that i rejected her LOL. Before i know it my parents are knocking on my door asking if i physically and emotionally abused my female friend. My parents told me that their family friends informed them that i called my female friend names and tried to hit on her WTF.

    Since then i cut all ties between her and her family…I keep n touch with her younger brother a few times but it is mostly “hello” and “hi”.
    Females in genaral are slick and dodgy.

    #384502
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    007 (Reborn)
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    You rejected her so she tried to get revenge.
    Conniving bitch.
    You’re better off without her.
    Any future contact with her will only endanger you.

    Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

    #384505
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    Anonymous
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    An arranged marrage! Wow. You dont hear about that anymore.
    You said no. Your a Baaaaad Man.

    #384506
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    TaxGuy
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    Another example of the old tried and true saying:

    One Change, Per Person, Per Lifetime.

    She just showed you why she never gets another chance with you. Even if the first time wasn’t really even a chance, she still burned the bridge.

    Bullet successfully dodged. You may now enter the next level of the game.

    Order the good wine

    #384508
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    Aleph Male
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    Hell hath no fury like a scorned woman.

    Behind every miserable man there is a very happy woman.

    #384526
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    Awakened
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    Oh yeah, She’s a CRAZY one !! Just imagine the stories you would have to tell from jail if you actually dated her.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #384527
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    Experienced
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    She gives Chads pussy and gives men s~~~.
    “A former female friend” at this point, or, if a man pulled s~~~ behavior like that, “an enemy”.

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

    #384537
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    Truthseeker82
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    Typical of the modern woman – the “nice guy” provides the shoulder to cry on while the bad boy gets all the pussy and ass. Don’t feel bad dude, myself and many others have played that part. I’ve learned to walk away from any woman who thinks I’m her no charge shrink. F~~~ that – go pay for therapy yourself bitch!

    #384545
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    Mr. Spock
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    It’s bad enough she tried to use you but involving the family and thus compromising the friendship between the two families? That’s rough. Imagine what it would be like if you were to actually get married to her. Every time there was a hiccup in the marriage you’d be fighting battles on multiple fronts; hers, her family’s and your family’s.
    I wouldn’t chance ever being alone with her for ANY reason. No one rejects the princess!

    Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

    #384551
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    Badger
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    I remember when we were teenagers and she used me as her emotional tampon anytime her asshole boyfriends treat her like crap. Her younger brother whom i am still good friends with warned her numerous times not to date assholes. I distanced myself from her for a while and last year she called me out of the blue and asked we hang out at her place.

    So, she finally realized there was no future with the assholes and now she decides to target you. Your parents need to be clued in on her past behavior and they need to be told that they have no business cooperating with her parents in trying to get you to marry her. She could have chose you instead of those assholes when she was younger, but did not, and your parents should be made clearly aware of that fact.

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    Anonymous
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    Basically, she gave the bad boy her ass to play with, now, she wants you to put a ring on it. Lmfao, this is the modern day female. F~~~ed like there was no tomorrow, now, she wants a walking ATM to take care of a stretch out pussy. F~~~ no!

    #384572
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    Survivor
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    She’s had as many Alpha Fux as she can get away with. Now you are for the Beta Bux. Walk away and save your soul, your sanity, and your money.

    "Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

    #384595
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    PistolPete
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    Run away! Run away fast! Never speak to her again if you value your safety. She thinks her c~~~ is a golden crown to be bestowed—and you rejected it—in order for her to continue to believe her c~~~ is the holy grail she must discredit you. RUN AWAY!

    #384626
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    Anonymous
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    My parents told me that their family friends informed them that i called my female friend names and tried to hit on her WTF.

    So, the family of the girl knew your parents. I always knew, that this kind of thing is a bad idea. (not only with girls, also with friends and acquaintances.) They can talk bulls~~~ behind your back, and mess everything up. You are in better control of your own situation, when people cannot talk s~~~ about you behind your back. And yes, that’s why I’m not on any social media, so that different groups in my life do not mix, and do not know much on each other. So that I can be honestly myself in the life, but pretend for my parents, that I am a “good behavior” boy, or not talk about things they do not need to know. Yes, handle private information on a “need-to-know” basis.

    #384668
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    Anonymous
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    Truth. I’m moving out once i get a job. I hope my younger siblings do the same.

    #384675
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    Anonymous
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    Run away! Run away!

    wow Pistol Pete I think you nailed it hard there.

    #384677
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    Meister
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    Sweet Jesus!!!

    Run! Run! Run!

    And stay away from your parents!
    Move and don’t givem your new address. An email will do.

    Did I mention to RUN!?!

    Monk

    #384689
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    Nerevar
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    RUN, FORREST, RUUUUUUUUUUUN!!!

    "One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

    #384736
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    Rorschach
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    Cringe. That gives me flashbacks. You sir dodged a s~~~storm. I agree with the other brothers definately let your parents know that you do not want them speaking on your behalf or acting as your dating service. Your a young man and your old enough and sounds like wise enough to know what you do not need. You did the right thing by rejecting this NPD/BPD disaster don’t forget the lesson here ever. If they cannot respect your space then you need to get a space of your own.

    The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

    #384810
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    she gave the bad boy her ass to play with, now, she wants you to put a ring on it. Lmfao, this is the modern day female. F~~~ed like there was no tomorrow, now, she wants a walking ATM to take care of a stretch out pussy. F~~~ no!

    this

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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