34 years old and when will I ever learn?

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  • 2015-09-26 at 5:56 PM#121062
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    Lone Wolf
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    I’m single after trying for 10 months with a divorced, single mother. I already know what most will say. Honestly, I’m to the point where I don’t care and I should’ve known better than to even bother. Long story short, her ex husband left her for someone else a few years back and married the other women. She’s bitter because she has to raise the kids on her own every other week. Women have issues and rarely ever go find help, so they go through life living in denial. Basically, she told me she needed constant reassurance and attention. No guy needs to deal with a needy, insecure female that tries to control a man. You’re gonna complain about me being on my phone too much, but it’s OK for you. Mad because I didn’t want to post pics of us on Facebook. In my head, I assumed they would have to be removed later because bitches leave. That’s why it’s ended with all these bitches because I can’t deal with all the demands. I’ve already done enough and what will it take for me to learn I don’t need to do anything at all? They only say they love you until you run low on money or quit meeting their unrealistic demands. How can she tell me that I was going to bed too early some nights just because she had trouble sleeping? I’d say there’s plenty of reasons why she can’t sleep at night. She thought I’d just give up my sports teams and fishing almost completely to be with her and help raise her kids. She didn’t want to hear anything I had to say about my interests and thought of it as competition. Told me I didn’t spend enough time with her kids. All she did was yell at them and bitch at me and wondered why I’d rather be somewhere else peaceful. I just couldn’t see myself devoting so much time to someone else’s kids. Those kids more than likely won’t ever give a damn what you did for them later in life, You’ll drain your bank account too and just get replaced. This is my fault and why would why I expect things to be any different? Most, if not all women are fake, critical, irrational, hateful beings and the list goes on and on. Look, I’m not saying anything new here. You can call me a sucker for even trying, but we’re all here for support. I already know that they’re cum dumpsters too, so that’s nothing new. I just need to not ignore the red flags and run early or stay away completely if there’s a next time.

    2015-09-26 at 6:01 PM#121064
    Swen August
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    I was 45 before I figured it out.

    2015-09-26 at 6:09 PM#121069
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    Lupus
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    Women use s~~~ tests and they never stop. Check out Patrice O’Neal’s Black Phillip Show if you want to learn a bit more on those.
    He knew all that stuff and yet let a woman live with him, but it costs so much energy. Only do it if you want to be vigilant constantly and are prepared to “take an L”, as he calls it.

    2015-09-26 at 6:47 PM#121092
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    Whatpriceh
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    listen to this

    2015-09-26 at 10:56 PM#121169
    MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give
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    Women ONLY try that s~~~ on men who let them……….

    Never lose sight of what brought you here.

    2015-09-27 at 3:53 AM#121236
    Deus Ex Machina
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    You’re not a sucker at all, Bud.

    As a matter of fact, You hit on some solid things while getting your point across. Single mothers always are to be avoided at all cost.

    1. They’ll always be spiteful towards Men.

    In their minds, a Man is someone who either gives them a Alimony or Child support check every month, and if they want dick on the side, they’ll do their damnest to find someone who will give them Dick. They also harbor a decent amount of animosity towards their ex husbands, previous boyfriends, or guys they have dated.

    2. Their kids will never accept You

    I’ve seen My Friends, and few Male relatives Marry single mothers and just watch the snotty nose brats make snide remarks like

    “you’re not my daddy!”

    “Why does my mother even love you?”

    “I can’t wait for us to take you to the airport, and DROP YOU OFF”

    (I’ve personally heard all those exact words come from a Step-Child’s mouth.)

    3. Your time will no longer be your time

    No matter what your passion is or outlet, it WILL be put aside, because now you’re going to have to provide for Her, and support Her Kids as well. No more hanging out with friends, no more drinking parties, and no more having fun the way you use to. Sex will also be a “Reward”, everything and anything you do as far as a personal hobby, or passion goes, will be met with heavy criticism.

    Shaming language will consist of the following:

    “You need to spend more time with my kids”

    “Why the f~~~ are you still on your phone???”

    “You’re not going to hang out with Him again are you???”

    “You’re friends are stupid”

    “Your choice is movies suck!”

    “You don’t know s~~~!”

    “I wish you were more of a Man”

    “You need to help more around the house, instead of being a lazy ass”

    Yeah, trust me Bud, I can go on a lengthy tangent about Single Mothers, shaming language, and their snot nose brats like you said: “not appreciating s~~~”

    You were tested in the fire, now you’re Golden!, Stay away from Single Mothers!. Keep kickin’ ass and enjoy the Single life!!!

    Peace.

    "If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

    2015-09-27 at 6:58 AM#121273
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    Jon the Ex-Squid
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    The bottom line: women demand you meet all of their needs while rarely meeting a fraction of your own. Period. To ask otherwise invites the classic “you’re selfish” shaming card.

    Every single mother I’ve known or learned about through buddies has a massive entitlement complex. They think the world owes them everything because they’re taking care of a child on their own, despite the fact they frequently pull in middle-class salary equivalents from state and federal aid, have college intuitions thrown at them and their children like candy, and can get by just fine without actually working.

    Then there’s the resentment/bitterness. Doesn’t matter why she’s a single mother. Its someone else’s fault. Here’s the thing: they’re single for a reason. Someone left her or she left someone for a reason.

    Blah. Well now you know, and knowing is half the battle.

    2015-09-27 at 9:53 AM#121316
    I_Walk_Alone
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    Lone Wolf wrote:

    She thought I’d just give up my sports teams and fishing almost completely to be with her and help raise her kids. She didn’t want to hear anything I had to say about my interests and thought of it as competition.

    Told me I didn’t spend enough time with her kids.

    They really are just looking for a chump to just give up his life and pay for everything that she messed up in hers. Avoid. Not your sperm? Not your concern.

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