25-year-old Virgin Who’s Lost All Hope

Great intro. Read, read, read everything you can on the forums. You still have much to learn!

Welcome Disenchanted Bro! You are not alone with your described feelings/experience with young gals. A smile and curves will grab your attention. WPL asks a great question:

WPL wrote:

Is getting laid fun? Sure, for a few minutes — provided you don’t knock her up, catch a disease, or get trapped into a marriage

Disenchanted Bro: I have UNFORTUNATELY done all the above…STD from a whorish girlfriend while in university AND knocked up a girlfriend a few years later who I signed the marriage contract. 11 years later she followed her hypergamous nature and went to husband 2.0 leaving me with the child extortion bill for the next 8 plus years.
The bitchy girl you wrote about gave you a quick lesson on bait and switch. In our teens/20/30’s we tend to have our ejaculatory drive lead us into streets full of potholes…use the wisdom of our many brothers on this site and perhaps you will avoid some of the trouble we have encountered on our paths. I’ll be telling my grandson the same type of information when he is old enough to understand. Find out what you’d like to do for your life’s work and hobbies…pursue work and hobbies. Focus on work and hobbies (I’ve said it three times for a reason!!!) Also, pursue your Spiritual life within. God Bless

After reading so many posts I feel I need to pass this on to you.

DisenchantedBro wrote:

I’m ashamed to say it, but at 25 I’m still a virgin. Last night that was supposed to change, but, of course, the woman I was dating had a different plan. I honestly didn’t know about a lot of the things that most of you guys are so knowledgeable about, like the red pill stuff, the emasculation of men all over the world, and the way women treat men that never gets addresses in the media or anywhere.

Lets get the virginity thing out of the way you are 25 years old. Just get a hooker or a bar slut and get down with it and make your intentions clear as you just wanna f~~~ no love, no marriage and especially not a baby carriage. It is clear this must be a thing you do. Just get it over with and you will lose the title.

DisenchantedBro wrote:

I grew up without a father. I was raised by my mother, my aunts, and my grandma, who I love dearly, but I know that was not the right environment for a boy to grow up. I’ve never been to a shrink but I’m sure that a lot of the insecurity and challenges I’ve had as a young man come from the fact that I didn’t have a male figure in my life, a mentor, or an older brother.

This explains the manginery well as having women who f~~~ you up in life raise you. When you get raised by your mama and she tells you to be a gentleman to women and for grandma and your aunts reinforce this ideal gets it stuck in your head even when it is a complete lie that only retards you.

The reason you did not get laid till 25 is your lack of a father showing you how it is done (assuming he is not a complete mangina).

DisenchantedBro wrote:

Keymaster
Thank you for the tough love sir.

It hurt me more than it did you.

Thank you for all of your gracious and individual replies to everyone.

DisenchantedBro wrote:

To answer your question, I guess I was ashamed of being a virgin because I felt that’s what I was meant to do. I thought that since I hadn’t lost my virginity at a younger age like most men that there was something wrong with me, that wasn’t a real man, or that I was missing out on life.

A GREAT DEAL of what you have “thought” up until now is purely social conditioning. You ever see the movie “TOP GUN” (Tom Cruise)? In this movie, they liken female rejection to “crashing and burning”. Like going down in a jet plane and exploding. Like it’s the WORST thing there is.

A woman doesn’t want to go out with you?
You “crashed and burned”, man.

The message is EVERYWHERE. “Do you think I should go over there and talk to her?” …. “ho man you blew it!”….. “you f~~~ed up your chances man!”….. “go over there and approach her!”…… “I’m afraid I might get rejected!”….. “Lol you loser”.

But now what if you realize it’s all a bunch of bulls~~~.

You’re not gonna “crash and burn”. You’re not a “loser”. What exactly did you “lose” by not having sex with her??

NOTHING.

Now their game is over.

DisenchantedBro wrote:

And you are absolutely right. All my life I’ve always been thought that I have to become successful to be good enough for a woman. I’ve always treated women with respect, but I’ve never gotten it back. It seems like the nicer you are to them, the worst they treat you. It’s sick. Why can’t they just be noble and honest? I’m sorry if the answers to all of these things are obvious to you, I’m still brand new here. I didn’t even know about blue pill or red pill before yesterday. Is there anywhere I can read about s~~~ tests or the tactics women use?

Have a listen. It’s almost word-for-word what you said here:

/audio/do-not-worship-women/

You’ve “always treated women with respect”. But why should you be the one who has to earn their “respect” and you’re giving it away for NOTHING??

Just treat women SLIGHTLY better than they treat you.
Basic courtesy you would extend to any man.
But “respect” is up to every woman to earn.

Be proud to be a Man.

Women are mean by nature.

Women HATE Men.

DisenchantedBro wrote:

I’m starting very angry that I’ve been treated like garbage by women all my life without deserving it.

That is a big part of our motivation to be here.

Trapper wrote:

That bitch will get hers in the end. It happens, you’ll probably never hear about it. But it will happen.

Yes, when she has “hit the wall” (become an old hag) and you are in a well earning position, then she will (or would like to) come begging to you.
Most men start to make money after 30, when they are through with school, get promoted…

At the same time women’s looks will be in steep decline… That’s when the tables are turning. The old hag will see you getting approached by younger women.