13 Things you can do to move mens issues forward

why don’t you just paste them 13 pointers in this here forum so I don’t have to go to some strange domain?

kizell wrote:

I applaud your work but most of us here have “cashed out” on seeing serious changes. Most of us have chosen to adapt for survival. We chose to go our own way and ignore the the political fight. We see the greatest change in a man’s life happens in his inner soul as well as self – validation. We care nothing how the world sees us

I hope I can get there, I’m all talk, I’m insecure as hell on the inside.  I crave validation from a female that I am in an intimate relationship with…I feel ashamed of myself, for what is a natural tendency of a vast majority of other men as well.  I am what the pseudo sciences of psychology call a co-dependent – bipolar 1 – Comorbidity substance abuse with PTSD and generalized anxiety and with the occasional onset of panic attacks whose personality could be BPD or inverted narcissistic personality disorder.

I have to get away from those labels and excuses to move on.  I have empathy but its too much for me to handle, I hate these labels and categories that our society likes to put people in as an excuse or as some means to an end for their perceived “social justice”.  One could easily say there are only 3 types of women: Overt Narcissists, Inverted Narcissists, and Covert Narcissists.  Our justice system is f~~~ed, these protection orders that are complete baseless are still seen as relevant by the courts even after a clear co-dependent man keeps being manipulated by an overt or covert narcissist, they care little, even with evidence of the mother’s behavioral patterns showing clear instability they apparently see fit that the children remain in her primary custody other than a man who could and will be more stable without the woman in his life – even when the woman always comes back to the man and the man “allows” her to move back simply because it is the only way he can see his kids.

I’m tired of trying to figure out why I can’t have my kids with me, why I can’t hold them, teach them things, have them be a real part of my life – when I provided for them – they love me as much as toddlers can – I’m trying to figure out why this is happening…and why it happens to so many other men out there.  Part of me want to just give in and give up, I don’t know what keeps me going.