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    Sky-O
    Sky-O
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    Rape:

    When a slut finally gets the kind of sex she has been wanting and does all of the things she has seen in porn movies.

    Afterwards, she looks at her phone and sees a text from her boyfriend that she was cheating on and he told her he misses her and loves her.

    Then what little amount of guilt she is capable of feeling consumes what is left of her soul considering it’s like the 9th time she has cheated on her boyfriend.

    At that moment. . . . . . . And as a strategic and not so well planned out attempt at reconciling her behavior along with the fact she thinks she might get caught this time.

    She decides she was ‘raped’.

     

    #44153
    USMC0331
    USMC0331
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    I was married for the better part of 10 years. Since we already had a child together it seemed like the logical thing to do because in the US you get certain benefits such as being able to put your spouse on your medical plan and file joint tax returns etc. My divorce was fairly easy compared to most but it really opened my eyes as to how little control you have over your own life. The paperwork spelled out in amazing detail how they could micro-manage your life even after the divorce is final. It amazed me how the courts think they can dictate virtually everything to you. If you don’t plan to have children, do not ever get married. You do not want to have to go to court to break up with someone and have some clown in a black dress tell you how much of your money you get to keep. I’m not one to tell men to stay away from women entirely, but I do tell them to be very careful and avoid the usual traps I got stuck in. If you tell a women you don’t plan to get married or have children and you will not financially support her, you will see how fast some of them disappear. Those are the ones you want to stay away from anyway.

    Chuck Wow
    Chuck Wow
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    Hello everyone…it feels great to have found this website and message board. Despite being in a bad marriage (are there good ones anymore?), I feel surprisingly optimistic. Why you may ask? Well I am planning my escape and looking forward to my future for the first time since I can remember.

    The marriage:

    Married for almost 20 years and we are both in our mid-40s and have a wonderful 14-year old son. I can’t remember the last time we had sex or had any type of intimacy but I don’t miss it at all to be honest. Like most women my wife is extremely selfish, including in the bedroom. I would be lucky to get 1 or 2 BJs a year but when we used to regularly have sex I would go down on her almost every time until she had an orgasm before intercourse. Makes me sick thinking about doing that now. Every single time I was the one initiating sex and finally just got tired of trying and making all the effort. I forced myself to eat her out a few months ago and discovered her pussy now stinks. She always used to have great feminine hygiene and I am too much of a nice guy to tell her about it.

    Luckily we never have the huge “blow up” fights (I hate conflict) but is that better than almost no interaction at all? We are basically roommates now but I always try to be respectful to her despite her rudeness. To give my wife credit, she is a hard worker with a decent salary and surprisingly good at not spending much money despite being an entitled bitch. Her constant negativity though is what makes me not want to be around her…it is truly toxic. Despite having a nice house, no debt besides a mortgage, retirement savings, yearly vacations, she drives a nice car, $130 hair styling monthly, nice makeup etc. All her work friends tell her she is lucky to have a nice husband and great lifestyle.

    Of course I take care of all responsibilities/maintenance for the house, yard, and cars….on top of that I also manage all the finances (which will benefit me). Embarrassingly like a little bitch I also do most of the domestic work like laundry, dishes, meals, and cleaning. I have never seen a slob like her in all my life but I want to keep a clean house for my son.

    I also realize doing all the domestic work contributed to her losing respect for me despite good intentions on my part. She never attends any of my son’s school functions, parent/teacher meetings, volunteering, and medical appointments. All the other mom’s of his classmates joke they never knew my son had a mother…pretty much the truth. I never get a thank you for anything from her. On top of it all, I have an advanced degree and make quite a bit more than her.

    My wife is so f~~~ing vain and it’s killing her now that her looks are fading. She is mixed ethnicity and was f~~~ing gorgeous when I met her and still looks pretty good for an older lady despite gaining a few pounds. Now I realize her looks are all that she brought to the table and her s~~~ty personality makes her so ugly to me. She also is a functioning alcoholic and drinks a bottle of wine almost every night. My fantasy is that some rich guy “steals” her away from me because she could still be a trophy wife to somebody.

    My red pills:

    • Her childhood friend divorced about 4 years ago and moved close to us.  My wife started going 4-5 nights/week instead of being with me and our child. I didn’t say much, because we never tried to control each other, but this was too much compared to me going to happy hour with co-workers one night/week.
    • Two years ago I came down with a serious illness (30% fatality rate) and had to be admitted for 3 days. I ended up driving myself to the hospital and she visited me once for about 10 minutes over my stay. Interestingly this health scare was the 2nd best thing that ever happened to me (the birth of my son is the best thing). It opened my eyes about our marriage and most importantly made me realize how important my health is. I am in great shape now and
    • My mother has severe dementia and is in hospice…she doesn’t have much time left. My wife never visits her or even asks me how she is doing. Even my friends and co-workers inquire every so often – this really p~~~es me off because my mother was always so kind and welcoming since the first time she met my wife.

    Going my own way

    • I am pleasant and respectful to her but could care less if I upset her. I don’t engage in her rant sessions and try to pacify her like I used to. Basically I don’t give a f~~~ about her feelings because she never cared about mine.
    • Most upsetting to her is that I have completely ceased trying to have any type of sexual activity with her.  This forum has taught me in her head sex is what she controlled me with. This is seriously f~~~ing (pun intended) f~~~ing with her head…she thinks it’s because of her age and weight gain. I just tell her it feels like my libido has decreased.
    • The past few months I have lost over 20 lbs thanks to a low carb diet and feel great about myself. I haven’t weighed 180 lbs and had a 33-inch waist in over 15 years. She doesn’t like this one bit and says I’m too skinny now and look bad. Last week she drunkenly admitted she doesn’t want to be the fat wife seen with the thin husband. Haha tables have turned bitch
    • I go out with my three good friends anytime I want but limit it to about twice a week because of my son. They are great guys around my age and pretty much MGTOW without knowing it. They are professionals and good looking but have never been married or had kids. Instead of traditional dating they have a “bull pen” of a few ladies to have casual hook ups with.
    • I don’t have any toys like motorcycles, a boat, or a sports car, etc. I don’t spend very much money on myself when it comes to clothes and entertainment. However my one passion is traveling, especially to Asia. There have been family trips and solo trips to places like Vietnam, Malaysia, Vietnam, Indonesia, Korea, Cambodia, and Thailand. As mentioned earlier, one positive about our marriage was that we didn’t try to control each other and I could take some solo trips (2 weeks max) which gave me a huge sense of freedom taking a short break from carrying the entire load at home on top of work. I have 10-day trip planned to Laos in June and for the first time she is busting my b~~~~ over taking a solo trip.  I know this is due to her low self esteem and she is nagging me almost daily. I can tell she wants me to cancel but no f~~~ing way in hell that happens…I need this getaway for my sanity. I have finally learned to put my needs first over hers and how good it feels! I am back in control and she just needs to deal with it.
    • Coming to the realization that I will be a great father no matter what happens in my marriage. I will never get married again nor get into a serious relationship…all my focus will be on myself and my son.

     

    Anyway sorry to ramble…I never intended to write such a long introduction but hopefully that gives some insight to my situation. I have already been stashing cash away but will need more advice/input on how to prepare for my impending freedom and be posting questions in the appropriate forums. Thanks for reading!

     

     

    #43876
    MKB
    MKB
    Participant

     

    Building the Ship; 1 economics

    The first topic I would like to discuss is economics.

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    Being the first topic and to grow interest I will explain why I have chosen to discuss such topics and take this path. The notion of society collapsing is on every persons’ mind. Most people including myself have no problem with this happening, empires rise and fall. I do not care if the ship sinks simply because the ship deserves it. However I liked the ship, it has sailed many waters and even though there is plenty of s~~~ I still had fun. Why should we care about making a new ship? After all if the ship sinks then people smarter than me will design a new ship then all will be fine again. In order for me to answer this question I have to know, who will design the ship? and what will the new ship be like? I love having a ship, it beats the hell out of swimming in the ocean. The ocean will swallow up a person rather quickly after all and that fear is what keeps bad leaders in power. However the problem is, is that it very likely that the new ship will be built almost identical to the old ship and that is something I would like to avoid. Even if the ship does not sink I do not want to continue maintaining it. Does any MGTOW want to live in a place in which he has little say in most aspects of his life, especially his labor? Designing a new ship is difficult, history can prove that, but it can and will be worth it. The United States is a perfect example and I am glad to have been born in it. We are not forced to design a new ship, democracies are great because it is a system that facilitates such change. The reason I propose the designing of a new ship is that I do not think that the system will be able to change sufficiently and in a timely manner for the proposals I have in mind.

    As a new MGTOW I recently learned of gynocentrism and hypergamy. These traits can be changed if there is a greater alternative system that promotes different behaviors. Evolution tells us, as time passes traits that lead to success will be passed on to the next generation and behaviors can become traits. These traits will never change as long as it is successful and MGTOW is the result of these crude traits being successful. We have a choice, we can choose to stand still and die out or move forward. Which direction is forward is something that we have to be continuously thinking about, that is survival. When trying to change any basic trait you first have to satisfy the basic needs of a person, food, shelter, and clothing, in a different way. These basic needs are why men have created civilizations in the first place and are the things women try to gain from us with as little work as possible. Over time women went from negotiation to exploitation and with the advent of money there became a single item to acquire. This appears to be common knowledge for MGTOWs. Now the hard part is what traits do we want and how can we promote the behaviors to make those traits. Gynocentrism and hypergamy is something that is no longer necessary for our survival, but the systems based on these are still in place.

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    The world has a fixed number of resources. This scientific fact means that we cannot have whatever we want. The allocation of these resources is essential to the well being of the population. Supply and demand is the old testament of economics. I like to call it the old testament not because it is old but because it was developed in a world that no longer exists, is not rooted in science, and has a sizable religious following. Science was applied later and just made a mess. The biggest problem I have with supply and demand is that it encourages the exploitation and destruction of resources. Although many laws have been developed to curb those tendencies, the behavior is still remains. Look at the bloated industrial machine that is now the United States and you can see how these behaviors reek havoc on the world and everything in it. I see this as the finally of supply and demand in economics. Sustainability is the only logical choice of a civilization. Why would you live in a place where food could disappear at any moment? The Earth has a limit to how many healthy sustainable lives can fit in it and supply and demand can not efficiently determine this limit. This limit changes with technology and with nature. When this limit is reached supply and demand will force us into self destruction where survival of the fittest returns. That is my observation of supply and demand. With such a result and one that can happen in 50 years how will we grow as humans? What is the point of growth if we might destroy ourselves when we peak?

    I propose that all resources are divided equally among every person on the planet. These resources are not given away, but there is a max limit to the resources a single person can acquire, a planned division. This limit can be increased, but never decreased. With defined limits it is becomes possible to achieve equality and promotes recycling. These resources belong to that person at that person alone until they die. These resources passed down upon death to the new generation. It can be to their grandson/daughter, great grandson/daughter, or even to a the child of a good friend. Each person will have to prove that they are capable of living alone to gain a limit of land, such as a college degree. Each person can only have one child to their name, so a couple can have two children at most. People die by accident which makes free space. If the parents do not wish to make another child then a person can gain that spot through whatever means society wants to make, lottery is fair, and that person can add another child to their name. This is strategy makes living sustainable and easier as time progresses. Once the limit is hit our society will change from acquiring resources to using them more efficiently and that is the goal. It is also possible for people to pool resource limits together to do whatever they wish. For example space mining, 1000 people build a ship to collect beyond earth resources to raise their limit. They reach their new limit and trade then trade the ship for the raw materials or recycle it. Cities and commercial buildings are built with shared resources. One possible system is that each home unit comes with an inventory of the amount of resources placed in the city. These home units and be traded. For example, in city A the city was built with 20% of the resources in the limit and city B is 15%. It allows for cities to be diverse and can even be 0%. Cities can trade raw materials to ensure people can acquire their limits. City A has an iron mine and city B has an aluminum mine. All manufacturing is done within the city so that only raw materials are transferred. Products are only generated within the city to guarantee recycling capabilities, if the city can make it then the city can unmake it. The only exception would be shared products like the rocket for space mining. This system does not need money since it is resource and labor based. The long term benefit of this system is that it seamlessly integrates mechanized labor. As technology gets more advanced and labor becomes more mechanized, people are loosing their jobs or pay. As a city becomes more mechanized the only consequence is that less work needs to be done, since the labor is not exchanged for money. The carpenter works for the blacksmith and vise versa. If the people choose to pool their resources to work mechanization then work can be completely automated. The key point in this system is that theft becomes pointless since there is no material superiority. Gynocentrism and hypergamy will not be able to function in this system.

     

    If you find this to be a great idea then I will continue using it in my project.

    John Doe
    John Doe
    Participant

    The Bible references 200 million in Revelations

    I would have to disagree with your point as Revelations was  written around the end of the 1st century during the time of an advance civilization(s), I am talking about old testament books.  Most scholars believe it was written in Greek originally.

    Also we are talking about words, not numbers.  Even Latin or greek does not completely translate to words of today.  Words represent the cultures they come from, however there are some universal constants that are present in all languages.

    A few simple ones might be the ratio of the Sun’s mass to the Earth’s, the age of the Universe, the speed of light. Even getting a few things right in Cosmology;

    And why would it need this?  Since when has this knowledge stopped war famine or disease?  How has this knowledge brought peace between peoples?  A better question would be how would this help the common man, as many cultures thrived and prospered without it.  How does it define man’s identity?  You should get my point by now.

    If you have studied Astronomy at even a cursory level you’ll be familiar with the persecution of Gaileleo for positing Heliocentrism.

    I covered this on a separate thread.  Heliocentrism was not a popular stance amongst both religious and irreligious of the time.  Aristotle refuted heliocentricity a long time prior.  (along with many other philosophers and secular scientists.)  Also Galileo could not provide enough evidence, at the time of shifts in orbit.  He got in trouble when he abandoned it as theory and promoted it as truth, even though he had no evidence at the time.  Even if his position was proven true, it proved no issue for Catholic Theologians (Augustine for example) who remarked that God did not send wisdom to teach us about the course of the sun and the moon.  Also Galileo wanted to move the debate into a theological debate when personal interpretation of scripture was not allowed.  He pushed it up against the pope.  It was turned down.  His argument was based on a literalist interpretation of the bible, when most understandings were from a phenomenological interpretion (language of appearances).  He kept pushing that the bible had to be interpreted literally only.  He met with the pope again and the pope permitted him to write an argument on it, both for and against it.  He was not permitted to advocate it, only present arguments both for and against it.  He wrote the argument in the form of a story and he mocked the pope who permitted him to write it.  He also attacked one of the Jesuit astronomers (verbally) and alienated the Jesuits.   After this he was put on trial.

    Galileo was put under house arrest (given every convenience of the time including a servant) and later recanted his viewpoint.  Several anti-Catholic scholars were surprised at how well he was treated.  This was during a time of persecution of witches by protestants and many people were surprised by the Catholic churches treatment of Gallileo.  The Church ended up apologizing a long time later and produced several stamps as signs of this.  The pope never issued an infallible statement in regards to Galileo prior, during, or after this incident.   Some view this as evidence of the pope being fallible but this is not the case.  The pope’s infallibility is applied:

    (1) he must speak in his official capacity as the successor of Peter; (2) he must speak on a matter of faith or morals; and (3) he must solemnly define the doctrine as one that must be held by all the faithful.

    http://www.catholic.com/tracts/the-galileo-controversy

    You wrote that the rotational speed of the Earth somehow relates to the duration of a year. This is false as discussed previously.

    I am still not,  if the days were shorter or longer and the years maintained the same number of days, the year would be shorter or longer (not in days) but actual time as it was dependent on days.

    Carbon dating has a wider error margin than other radioisotopic dating methods.

    If I am correct you were arguing for carbon dating then switch it to radioisotopic dating.  Regardless it makes assumptions as to the
    stucture of rocks when the were first created, cannot consider contamination, and also assumes the decay rate is the
    same.  In regards to the last point, Uranium deposits were found in New Mexico and was dated to be 1.5 billion years old.
    However, the decay rate also produce Helium but only 6,000 years worth if measured by its current rate.

    If you have studied the fossil record you will be familiar with the homo group, australopitehcus group, paranthropus group — these groups then have species within them. If you go to a site like Smithsonian you can simply look at the photographs of the fossil casts to see these are different species.

    One of them was a sandal print……..

    Moreover the light of the moon shall be as the light of the sun, and the light of the sun shall be sevenfold, as the light of seven days, in the day that the LORD bindeth up the breach of his people, and healeth the stroke of their wound.

    Prophecy, if I remember correctly.  One cannot argue about what has not happened yet.

    Thus far I’m not even seeing basics like believers being able to drink poison as stated in the Bible.

    You bring this point up, show the verse.  If you are going back to the handling of “scorpions and snakes” part of this
    has to do with the demonology of the time, as demons during exoricism were classified as having certain qualities etc.
    Satan was equated to “devouring lion”, etc.

    Longevity myths are historical across many faiths, see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Longevity_myths%5B/quote%5D

    My point exactly, and so are flood myths.  And evidence of a Great flood is popping up more and more.

    [quote=43280]It depends upon values. So, yes, my morality is subjective.

    Not if the values are the same though.  One cannot value “life” and have two seperate moralities.

    One of my core values is peacable coexistence with others, where they are afforded the same rights to freedom as I have — and thus, I am going to deem killing slaves, for instance, as immoral.

    And what is that “peace” exactly?  And what rights are those too?  Also the church does not condone slavery as something
    that “should be in existence” but rather acknowledges as a necessary evil.  In regards to slavery, most athiest governments
    are for it in the form of labor and debtor camps.  The slaves of ancient Judaism were not viewed as slaves as you think
    of today and had more rights.  Don’t believe me go look it up.

    Also you deem the killing of slaves immoral.  Here is a reality check: on what authority do you says these things, who is
    going to listen to you and why should they listen to you?  You say slavery is wrong, however you acknowledge it as a
    neccessary evil (along with most americans) in their private purchases.

    Also you deem the killing of slaves immoral.  Here is a reality check on what authority do you says these things, who is
    going to listen to you and why should they listen to you.  You say slavery is wrong, however you acknowledge it as a
    neccessary evil (along with most americans) in their private purchases.  At the end of the day you can’t back up your
    “morality” in any way what so ever.  And even if you are immoral what consequences are there?  After all we are just
    animals created from particles.  If anything value has to be a logical or mathematical formula subject to the laws
    of physics/chemistry/mathematics/etc.  However, you say value cannot be objective.  But why can’t it be when we are
    defined by objective laws?

    For instance, I’ve known literalists who were ABSOLUTELY against usury or interest and stated, that it was immoral. I would say that is a fringe view among Christians, but it certainly exists. That is one example of many. Or American Catholics who use birth control and see nothing wrong with it despite Church teachings against it.

    First you are arguing for literalists, where if I have not stated before I will state again, the literalist interpretation
    was not strongly recommended or practiced even in the early church (before “science”).  The texts are so multidimensional that not only
    is literalism wrong but it also limits the texts.  Your second example is one of immorality and is beside the point.

    I would argue your morality is at least somewhat your creation; you decide what Holy Book will form the basis of your beliefs. And you elect to follow certain precepts and not others (you’ve said as much) — there is definitely subjectivity in how to interpret Biblical morality.

    The scripture is “not for personal interpretation”, it clearly says this in the scriptures..  Also I may chose a morality, but that does not make the morality subjective.  I may choose a set of rules, but I cannot choose the rules themselves.  You are starting to lose your
    “logical edge”, if you have one.  You better start pulling it together.

    I readily concede, my declaration of something as ‘immoral’ is subjective; but I disagree that it is ‘hypocritical’, unless it disagrees with my belief system.

    It does disagree with your belief system as you said all morality is subjective.  However you are making a concrete
    moral statement.  So you are lying in effect, if only to yourself.  So, yes you are a hypocrite (but don’t take this
    as a “f~~~ you I am right you are wrong” because we are all hypocrites in some sense of the word.).

    There are numerous cultures with mythologies including dragons, Chimeras, and other creatures that don’t exist. One only need look at Greek vases or ancient mosaics

    Some of these were of Stegosaurus’s and Diplotacus’s (I used to study dinosaurs as a kid).  These were not “made up”.

    I’m hardly seeing religion as some fount of morality, nor is non-belief some fount of morality, either, as a lot of skeptics seem to want to claim.

    Don’t take this as “me being a dick” but that leaves you as the only “fountain” of morality left.

    I’ll just say I disagree about gentiles coming into Christianity; there was significant debate about whether they had to become fully observant Jews, be circumcised, etc in the nascent Church.

    Actually some of this was covered with the “Jesus meets the Samaritan woman”.  Samaritans were very loose followers of
    Judaic law, and if I understand correctly ignored many parts of it.  How is this different than a gentile?  Also
    Jesus demanded that the Gentiles be preached too after his resurrection.  So although the 50A.D. council might have
    come to terms with the truth, it did not outright create it.

    My point was, the marketplace has determined GMO’s benefits exceed its costs, and that is why the adoption curves quickly go to nearly 100% in about 20 years. The marketplace may not make the best decisions for our health; rather it represents aggregate individual decisions to plant seed that gives the highest yield and thus revenue, per acre. As I said, there may be unanticipated consequences, like much technology. Is the automobile good or bad for us? Well, it encourages a sedentary lifestyle where I’m isolated in my car during a long commute, instead of living close and walking to where I need to go (I live in the ‘burbs), causes us to live further from where we work and waste resources and it creates pollution… And I may not even know the names of the closest neighbors to me… But it also gets me to where I need to go quickly… In general, higher yields mean lower cost for food and less starvation;

    I agree, however there is and will be starvation.  GMOs have done far from solve the problem, and because they are
    replacing natural foods, in many respects they are making the problem worse as all the food is now fundamentally
    becoming poisonous.

    The church building was destroyed; only the house survived. I would argue mircales are more faith-promoting stories.

    http://www.miraclesofthechurch.com/

    http://www.viralnova.com/modern-miracles/

    http://listverse.com/2008/07/14/top-10-astonishing-miracles/

    “I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.” — a good statement about many Churches AND judgmental Christians. And there are certainly Christians that don’t join a Church because they don’t like any of the denominations and the focus of their missions. And some who just want to sleep in on Sundays!

    I agree, and actually held this view for a long time.  And in some respects and personally guilty of this.

    I wasn’t familiar with this, but I have read about it & I still argue that atheism doesn’t contain any morals or guidance in and of itself.

    People naturally believe, it just happens.  To rule out faith in a Diety/dieties is just to have faith in something else
    and promotes idolotry (raising something or someone up past its place.

    I am running out of time, due to my work schedule.  With one final note, as a skeptic myself at times (in all facets of
    life) one cannot limit oneself to skepticism otherwise they would not be skeptical of skepticism itself.  Skepticism
    has its place, it just cannot be applied universally without being self defeating.

    Ironically I came to terms with Faith itself through cynism.  But that is another story.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    #42794
    BrainPilot
    BrainPilot
    Participant

    I’ve written about it in other posts, so my apologies to those who’ve already read this. I was probably no better than average looks in high school and college, and had no ‘game’ or money to compensate. Between high school and the end of residency training about 14 years later, I got friend zoned about a half dozen times by girls I really did care about, and had my head scrambled up pretty hard by it. They weren’t rude about it, but stayed just out of my reach… As I got further along in training, and the hours and academic load got more intense, I gave up even trying to have a social life and lost contact with them.

    Fast forward 12 years. I’m about 30 years old (and they are hitting the wall as their carousel ride ends). Training is ending. Private practice, the title and (finally) some money are on the near horizon. One by one, each of the six of them just sort of popped up out of the blue… having magically discovered a newfound attraction to me that they’d somehow never known they’d had. The first time it happened, I’d already been told of the possibility of it, so was not really surprised. But when all 6 of them did it, it became like a cheap side show at a carnival. Each of them thought that they were the only one who had this plan…keep me on ice in the friend zone until I got to a position to produce, then reel me in.

    By the end of this procession, it had gone from comical and amusing to just sad and pathetic. In response to their offers, I said that over the years, we’d both had numerous romantic relationships come and go, but we’d stayed friends… and our friendship had become so valuable to me that I didn’t want to take the risk of trying to take it to the next level (one of them actually used that phrase) and then losing the friendship over it if it didn’t work out. I basically freind-zoned them back.

    Of course, this was disingenuous bulls~~~, and a little tough for me to keep a straight face at times. But it was no more disingenuous than the bulls~~~tery they were serving up to me…

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #42741
    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    I wouldn’t pretend to know based on such little info, but it’s a money shot every MGHOW can appreciate. Ruining a guys joy. Women are just f~~~ing excellent at that.

    I went on a road trip to Napa & San Fransisco once (2009) and made the mistake of taking a female. It was THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE – since I began working at age 17 – where I got 2 paid weeks vacation. This was a very big deal to me and totally unheard of. TWO WEEKS PAID OFF??? I never had jobs like that. I was paid when I worked, and not paid when I didn’t work. This arrangement is OK with me.. but to finally be at a job where I would collect 2 weeks pay for f~~~ing off…. well, I had planned it for 4 years and nothing was gonna bring me down.

    I was going to drive along the California coast – Highway 1 – The Pacific Coast highway. One of the grandest drives in the world. Couples do that on anniversaries and honeymoons and they fly to do it. This bitch was not going to let me enjoy it. She had her mind set on making me MISERABLE.

    SHE: “Can you put the top up? Im too cold. Can put the top down? It’s hot. Should I take my sweater? I dunno if I should take my sweater or leave my sweater. What if I need it later? Should we leave it in the car? Do you think it’s gonna be cold? Maybe I should take it.”

    ME: “Just take the f~~~ing sweater! What’s wrong with you?”

    SHE: (now pouting )

    ME: “What’s wrong?”

    SHE: “Nothing”.

    That “nothing” was of course a time bomb and the fuse was lit. It was ticking and I knew it was going to go off in a few hours. Sure enough… 5 hours later “OMG if you loved me, you wouldn’t have to ask me what’s wrong. You would just know”. It gets scary when (not long ago) I heard Tom Leykis tell an almost IDENTICAL story – right down to a road trip to Napa. Women are unbelievably skilled at RUINING a great day. Of course “skilled” is the wrong word because that assumes she does it intentionally. They are totally unaware of how little fun and how MASSIVE a buzzkill they are.

    She was a drag to be around 9 days out of 14. Just a dreadful vacation it ended up being.
    When it was time for her to finally leave, I dropped her at the airport like a bad case of ebola.

    “Well I guess this is a it. Have a great flight” and I left smoke trails behind as I sped off.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #42385

    Anonymous

    Well, it happens. There was a study that shows that male and female brains are wired differently. I think that, because women have so many advantages in life, it does not occur to them that for those that DON’T have so many safety nets (a.k.a MEN) s~~~ happens. If a woman loses her home, she can always go to a DV shelter, or you can bet that there will probably always be there a MAN willing to offer her some kind of help. Men on the other hand are not always that lucky. We have ourselves and MAYBE those around us to support us in times of need, but that’s it. Try asking help to a stranger and MOST of the times they will refuse.

    Even on 3rd world countries, like Brazil, where there is no escape towards poverty even for women, THEY STILL are better off then men. There was this video I saw, sometime ago, of a WOMAN bragging about the support she was receiving from the government (She didn’t know she was being recorded). By the end of the video, she boasted about maybe having a kid, because if she got pregnant she would receive 5,000 reais (around 2,500 US dollars on the cambio exchange at the time, where 1USD =  2 reais) for doing, you guessed, nothing.

    Do you think the kid would benefit from this? Probably not, and on top of it, he would probably be sent to get a job instead of getting education in order to get more money for the mother (and I know cases where this actually happened).

    So yeah, sad but true. And the saddest thing, I guess, is BECAUSE men are treated like that, is the reason why MEN are the ones keeping society together. WE were always the ones on the fringe of civilization, either in the past or nowadays. WE are the ones that take the risks when its necessary and WE are the ones that deal with the consequences when things don’t go as plan.

    I think the tricky part here is this: how to keep MAN’s edge and show EMPATHY for those that can’t make it at the same time. I think that treating men like WOMEN would be a disservice to MAN. If I am not mistaken Keymaster and someone else (Doc maybe?) mentioned that a long time ago on some other thread and I actually got p~~~ed at them at the time, but I think I am finally getting what they meant. The solution, on my view, would be: treat WOMEN like MEN. Let them suffer the consequences of FAILURE and then see what happens. I bet that they will show a lot more sympathy for those homeless men when this start to happen. At the same time, offer those that couldn’t make it a chance for them to STAND UP on their own feet, but without carrying them INDEFINITELY as we are doing with WOMEN. This would create a class of MAN and WOMEN that would just live from the SYSTEM without ever doing the effort to get out. How to do this? I have no idea. I’m no politician or economist and I am just throwing my thoughts out there. Execution would be a whole other story.

    Anyway, those are my thoughts. Its late and I need to sleep.

    Cheers

    #42372
    Darth Sin
    Darth Sin
    Participant

    @Darth Sin: That is an excellent opinion piece! You mentioned in your intro that StarDusk personally introduced you to the MGTOW philosophy. How did you take to it when he first mentioned it? What were you like when he first brought it up? I tried introducing MGTOW to a young friend of mine but the blue pill in him is pretty strong. I gave up when he told me that we sometimes have to take risks in life. It was an interesting conversation though. It gave me good insights into the mind of a blue pill man. The male mother need was pretty strong in him. I have personally concluded that you cannot shove the red pill down somebody’s throat. A man needs to be in a particular situation or stage in life that makes him seek out answers and finally find the red pill by himself and then decide to take it. We can only leave red pill information where people (who need it) can find it. It’s entirely up to them to adopt it or reject it. That’s the only natural way to spread the message and help men IMHO.

    I took to it pretty quickly, within half a year or so. See when Stardusk introduced me to MGTOW, I was in a relations~~~ with a woman in another university. I was in college at the time. When I started learning about MGTOW, I started treating her differently. I no longer cut her slack, especially on what she thinks or self censored my thoughts to make her feel happy. She is a leftist who thinks religion can be reformed and feminism was a good thing and social justice was awesome. I thought that she was full of s~~~ and irrational and when I learned about MGTOW, I did not hold back on what I thought.

    So what happened was she left me and just hooked up with another guy who is like her. A feminist leftist mangina. She did not even say that she was breaking up, she just left. Needless to say, her departure solidified my decision to be a full blown MGTOW.

    I would say that I am different compared to most men. I am someone who is intellectually curious and will change my mind if presented with sufficient facts. I grew up in a social conservative town near the Malaysian-Singapore border. When I was young, before 18 that is…I was a devout Hindu, someone who listened to parents, homophobic, transphobic, I viewed women as this special goddess, I hated electric cars, I thought social justice was a good thing, I thought feminism was good and I thought religion and science were compatible…

    Now, as a 23 year old man…I am a full blown MGTOW and an atheist. I am indifferent but intellectually curious towards homosexuals and transsexuals ( I no longer hate them but I don’t care much for them but I am interested in the scientific explanations of how they come to be).  I view women as a cunning shapeshifting vampiric siren who need to be dealt with using a cold and indifferent Vulcan style logic. I love electric cars like Tesla and would like to get one. I despise social justice after understanding that it is a form of mob rule. I am indifferent to feminism after I understand that feminism is simple female nature turned into a social and political weapon.

    So I do not know about this young man you are trying to enlighten or feed the red pill. If he is intellectually curious, he would pick it up quickly and if he is not, he needs to get burned by the gynocentric reality to be awakened. Or there is just no hope for him.

    #41930
    Peterfa
    peterfa
    Participant

    Last night was attacked publicly by this crazy woman. She said I attacked her, but she wouldn’t listen. I’d like to tell you my story. I’ll call her Mrs. Crazy.

    So, I was at my favorite Italian restaurant last night. There was this pregnant woman who’s pretty in third trimester. She’s not the crazy lady. I’ll call her Mrs. Preggo.

    I find pregnancy fascinating but being a single man, I really don’t have a woman to talk to about this. So I was asking her questions. I was starting on my first glass of wine that night. I teased her a little, did a little banter. She seemed fine.

    Mrs. Crazy is there. She’s involved with the conversation. She’s nice and polite. I tease her too. A little banter and some joking about drinking well pregnant. She fired back a little and I took it. I even made fun of myself with it.

    As the conversation went on, I talked about nutrition and other aspects of pregnancy and I do learn some things about pregnancy that day from her. I told her that women in third world countries die just because of a lack of vitamins. All you need is a prenatal (it’s also impossible to eat enough for the nutritional needs). Mrs. Crazy interjects and tries to protect Ms. Preggo as if I was making her feel nervious, or something. I defend myself by saying she’s fine since she’s in America. Ms. Preggo mentions that she takes her pre-natals. Unfortunately, Mrs. Crazy doesn’t let me get a word in and talks over me. She doesn’t give me a chance. I hold my position. I feel I’m right. Mrs. Crazy still has her happy face on.

    Anyways, after about my third glass of wine. Mrs. Crazy appears to me and looks me straight in the eye, “You attacked me.” I am surprised to hear this. And she goes on. The things I said about her daughter and such about all that (her daughter seemed totally fine, I met her, nice gal), she took personally. I give her a chance. Obviously, she took my banter seriously and personally.

    I attempt to explain, but she won’t let me finish a single sentence. She cuts me off, demonstrate total misunderstanding. I told her it was banter, she’s like “No, that wasn’t banter.” (OK, I got that much in). I tried to tell her that I was open to her response, but I couldn’t even explain that. I could only get, “I’m open to…” I wanted to spell out that if I open up like that, then that invites her to respond should she chose. She won’t listen. She just won’t listen.

    Eventually I tire of her. I’m not even hurt or anything, but I’m done. So, when the staff walk by, I immediately call out to them, “This woman is harassing me.” I failed to notice the man who was standing there the whole time. When she said to them that I was an asshole (or attacking her, can’t remember what she said exactly), he said, “I’m a witness to this.” I’m not even bothered by him. Already she’s proven herself irrational and unreasonable. Because at this point she is. She doubles the nastiness. She calls me a coward and all this other crap. I call out for staff again, “She’s still harassing me.” They acknowledge.

    After a few minutes of her crap, I pull out my phone and begin to dial 911. She starts realizing she’s not getting what she wants. I haven’t fired back at her, I’ve only attempted to explain myself. I didn’t call her names or anything. That man watches the whole thing, doesn’t even try to mediate or say, “Hold on, I think he wants to explain himself. We should give him a chance. I would like to here this.” Instead, he stands behind her and backs her up. She starts throwing things at me like, “You were looking at that PREGNANT woman…” yadda yadda like I viciously attacked a defenseless pregnant woman and raped her, cutting out her baby and forcing her to eat it or so. She even manages to throw “ugly” at me, as if it was that and my lack of money that make women stay away from me.

    She eventually does leave, and after she found out that there were going to be some consequences if she doesn’t back off. So, I got labeled a coward, an asshole, and worse, I’m a sexual predator against pregnant women.

    So, when they finally leave, I go back to my sipping and begin analyzing the situation. By now I have 3 glasses in me, which probably helped me stay focused on this woman and listening to her. I think worst case scenario I’m guilty of being gauche or a foux pas, which I’ve done before.

    As it turns out, I know the staff there. I’ve been eating there for over a year now. I love those people. They’ve given me rides home before. Anyways, one of the staff told me that I argued with a woman. You never do that, he says, they’re irrational and you’ll never win. He gives me extra wine, FYI. The owner is going to buy me a free wine glass too later on. So I kind of had a bit much that night. Anyways, what he says is that the woman was jealous. She’s not all that good looking. Mrs. Preggo is though. So, Mrs. Crazy had a reaction and lost her s~~~. I picked up on that she wasn’t dealing with the information I was giving her, instead, she’d cut me off and sort what she heard, which is only what she expected to hear. She didn’t even know what banter was, she said that that’s what we’re doing (in the time that she was presenting her case to me).

    I don’t deny that that man witnessed the material facts and got them right, but I am clueless to what he decide to do and why. He could have just pulled me a side and said, “Buddy, that my friend there was hurt by you. This is what she said about you and I saw that. She feels attacked. Care to explain yourself?” I could have even then.

    Anyways, so I call him Mr. White Knight. He’s a brave warrior, noble, and virtuous. I will strive to be like him. I will first begin by sacrificing my testicles to The Goddess, who is most blessed and pure.

    Back to the staff, who continued his explanation, that women do tend to be irrational. He sites a source, a wealthy woman who’s a billionaire who is highly intelligent and cannot lose in an argument. She states that women are irrational at times due to PMS. She says you cannot reason with them.

    I know most men here won’t consider another women ever again, but what about a billionaire woman like this? Doesn’t that make you wonder if the NAWALT might exist?

    I know this staffer to be an honest man, who was destroyed in a previous divorce and lost .5 million over the life of his child support. So, I feel sorry for him. Another staffer also told me he was divorced.

    Finally, the women who drove me home that night, I asked her if it is true what they said, she even said that there are times she thinks she shouldn’t show up to work because she’s too cantankerous that day.

    Today I thought about what happened. I think Mrs. Crazy just has borderline personality disorder, for the reasons that around her you have to walk on eggshells. I wasn’t allowed to break the taboos of talking about pregnancy or anything. I’ve talked about pregnancy with women in front of a whole bunch of tradcons back in the day. She was well-informed and I was fascinated to hear what she had to say. Imagine all the poor souls overhearing this, and suffering in silence since they cannot handle this information.

    I do suspect Mrs. Crazy liked me and was jealous when I talked with Mrs. Preggo. She wanted to interject and get some of my attention. She totally misunderstood me because she does not understand men. She’s also seriously insecure. I touched her insecurities. I will admit that I feel sorry for hurting her, even though she’s a nasty piece of s~~~, and proved it well.

    I also think she’s in a seriously dysfunctional marriage and I’ve seen this before. Another woman, who was my ex’s mother acted much the same way, but she didn’t do that same cutting off/sorting crap, and she understood my humor. She didn’t have Borderline Personality Disorder, I don’t believe. My ex’s mother was seriously messed up and really hurt me bad, but I’m giving the devil his due. She had serious issues and one of the patterns is that she did have reactions. She was way smarter and coherent than Mrs. Crazy ever was.

    So, my ex’s mother was in a nasty marriage. I thought she was just a controlling bitch to her emasculated husband, but as it turns out he’s not that nice of a person. He would cut her down and make her feel insecure. He really screwed with her. They did it to each other. When they divorced I gloated but now that’s over, and I’m happy that the marriage is over because it was that sick. Her family was so dysfunctional, like her brothers and sisters. How f~~~ed up they were.

    Therefore, while Mrs. Crazy has a personality disorder and treated me with total s~~~, she is in a dysfunctional family, and whomever Mr. White Knight was, I’m sure he’s related, and he’s in a dysfunctional family too (probably same family, I don’t know, don’t even care). Super rigid gender-roles, etc.

    Mrs. Crazy was definitely projecting like all hell. She stuck all her worst on me and attacked me, just like the Phantom from Phantom of the Opera in the end where he smashes the mirrors. He can’t stand his own face. She saw her lack of femininity, my interest in that other woman (which wasn’t sexual at all), the banter, and everything. Then she tried to make me feel like what she always feels (I haven’t figured out what she feels overall, and I probably won’t). Then she ends up doing exactly what she accused me of, and attacks. She also refused to listen and probably over pride.

    Thanks for reading this story. This is Mr. Sexual Predator with a Fetish for Pregnant Women who attacks total strangers, a coward, and probably a few other things signing out.

    And when I wrote this where did I say “humans are not animals”?  I said “in this respect we are not animals”.   Because we have both animal and I guess you can say “divine” qualities, but also neither in different respects.  One would best understand our nature as that of a “fusion”.  Are we animals?  In one respect yes in another no.    To deny this last sentence would be to deny common sense itself/lower humanity/raise animals.

    Finally you express your beliefs.. In a way we can all read and understand! I now understand but will never agree only laugh at this contradictory hogwash that tries to put words in my mouth..I will not say we have “divine” qualities but you did and now I can stop calling you Eggplant because you have as much as said humans have god like qualities..I will let you act like a god now not an eggplant but will stop short of worshiping your drivel. We are animals in every respect not just one..So I deny the last sentence and hold that animals = animals no need to lower or raise or create god like status that only exist in your head. If any animal destroys this planet to the point of becoming uninhabitable it will be humans who are so arrogant to believe they are more important than other animals. This planet would be better off without humans trying to act like gods..

    The Human with self proclaimed god like qualities wrote this;  I said “in this respect we are not animals”.

    There it is again proof you believe in some respect we are not animals..I know we are animals in every respect..

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

    BrainPilot
    BrainPilot
    Participant

    I don’t advocate suicide or violence at women, and so this is a sad story. But let’s look at what really created the situation that ended in the way that it did. This girl lived in a westernized country and so had probably been vaccinated and made safe from diseases that kill millions around the world every year. Being in a NATO country, she was similarly pretty well protected from the effects of wars and insurrections. She also had no fear of starvation thanks to the industrialized agricultural system and the democracy that insures that she will not be allowed to starve. So, the things that are most statistically likely to kill the largest numbers of people on the planet before their time had already been eliminated from her life. She was healthy and safe.

    She also had a college degree, and was employed as a hospital administrator. That guarantees literacy. So we can add education to the list of blessings she enjoyed that already made her quality of life greater than the average person on the planet. And, it’s a level of education that the average person on the planet never even has a chance to receive.

    Next, she had a white collar paycheck. If you look at the personal net worth of all the people on the planet and take an average, you will have the number of dollars necessary to be richer than half the world’s population. That’s the definition of average. Most people estimate that number to be 40 or 50,000 dollars, but it isn’t. To be richer than half the population of the world, you need a total personal net worth of about 1500 American dollars. If you have just 1500 dollars to your name, you are richer than about a billion Asian peasants, and richer than about a billion African peasants, and richer than about a billion Indian and Russian peasants. 3 billion people is half the population of the planet. Almost any employed person in the western hemisphere has at least that much net worth. Hell, government benefits and charity available to most western people are worth that. So even if you’re broke and homeless in the US or England, you are probably still better off than half the planet. Therefore, in addition to being healthy, safe, and educated, we can also add wealthy to her list of blessings. And she was born into that wealth.

    Finally, we learn from the article that she was loved by a number of people. Healthy, wealthy, loved, educated and safe. Yet, despite all this, she believed her life was not worth living because… ?

    Another person had not yet stepped up and agreed to sign over to her the ownership of his earnings, home, assets, civil rights, personal safety and children in the form of a western marriage contract. Her sense of entitlement to all that, from another person, was so deep that when it wasn’t delivered, and delivered on time, she came to believe her life was not worth living.

    How did she come to believe this? She was not born believing this. That message found its way into her head sometime much later. And when it arrived, that message made it so deeply into her mind that it overshadowed and out-influenced all of the obvious and very real blessings in her life.

    That message did not originate with a man. No man sends that message to women. The first voice, the last voice, and the only voice to ever utter that message to this girl was a woman’s voice. Women do that to each other. The worst message from a male voice in this story is that signing over all that stuff to another person would reduce his quality of life below which was worth it for him, and so no man had (yet) chosen to do it. But men never created the belief in women that this was a reasonable expectation. Even the men who are out there signing these contracts don’t believe it’s reasonable. They are just still doing it in a blind blue pill fog trying to shoulder that responsibility and meet that enormous expectation that’s been placed on them.

    Women created that expectation, and women circulated that message, and women built that belief in the minds of themselves and each other… Based on what is written in this article, this girl killed herself after NOT having been raped, hurt or otherwise abused by any man.

    She killed herself after having been outrageously misled by other women.

    As I’ve posted elsewhere, the basis of my red pill philosophy is that I do not ‘owe’ a relationship with me, or the benefits of a relationship with me, to any person. But it is sobering to be reminded of how deep the sense of entitlement to a relationship with me can be…

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #41507

    In reply to: Just ban me now

    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    Hi @fschmidt and welcome to the MGTOW.com forums. Where introductions are not required, and the only thing that will get you “banned” is:

    • Suggested or endorsed violence as a solution to anything. We are not Jezebel.
    • Spam, threats, or naked pictures of you with a goat… or anyone masturbating in their own feces.
    • Signing up wit a bogus / disposable / fake email.
    • Attempting to belittle / shame / insult / disrespect other members (as if that s~~~ works here) or lower the image of the website.
    • Ownership of a vagina.

    Getting banned isn’t up to US…. it’s up to YOU.

    Any member can make sure he is not banned without trying. But if you want to be, just threaten to find and beat the s~~~ out of any member, and that will certainly do it.

    … or just type the words: “I am a woman”.
    You’ll be thrown out before you can pussy-fart.

    Once upon a time, I was arbitrarily banned – TWICE – from the old MGTOWforums when I signed up and made an introduction. There was no possible reason on God’s green Earth that I would be booted for anything. No explanation. Nothing. Not only was I banned , my IP was blocked and I couldn’t even visit or read anymore. Here I was FINALLY finding a place where I would be surrounded by people who understood, and the door was slammed in my face. It was very hurtful, painful and hollowed me out for a couple of days. I just talked about passionately it in a hangout with other MGTOW….

    You just don’t do that.

    Too many men arrive here – quite literally – absolutely fed up and at the end of their ropes.
    We don’t slam the door in his face. It’s wide open for a reason.

    So rather than “joining” anything, we created our own.

    This is a very strange approach from you. “just ban me now” (as your first words to everyone) is the kind of bitch move I expect from a chick the morning after a one-night stand. “Just dump me now and tell me you won’t call me again.”.

    I never fell for that s~~~ either.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #41291
    AlmostNiceGuy
    AlmostNiceGuy
    Participant

    Recently I have had confusion on my life. I guess it’s because I’m young, and I still have no idea where I’ll end up. Lately I relapsed, watched How I met Your Mother, listened to many “love” songs, and had emotional bonds with a couple of my ex girlfriends. Truth be told I am not sure what I need to do anymore, before the path was clear, go my own way and eventually ghost out of society. Might just be the plantation trying to pull me back into it’s icy grasp, yet I am still very confused about everything. I decided I’m going to practice what I preach, and truly go my own way. While the red pill has never truly left my system, the blue pill is some how out powering it right now. And even though I know about the danger, I need to try. Right now I’m a freshman in college, and haven’t gotten laid since I left my previous country, upon arrival I took the red pill, so it changed me a lot. Up to this point my girlfriends never lasted longer than a month, I either grew bored or they cheated, never even gotten to “official”. So, to cut to the chase, I need one final mistake to get the blue pill out of my system, most likely a long term relationship. No marriage or kids, no way in hell, but one final mistake that will put my mind to rest and this blue pill out of my system. Any advice?

    Axiomaticus
    Axiomaticus
    Participant

    I’ve been meaning to do this for a while now, but it’s a long story and I want to trim it down without losing too much others may find valuable So here it goes. I was raised in a far right wing, and heavily traditionalist household. I was raised Mormon which is a mind-f~~~ to say the least. My mother had some mental issues somewhere in the bi-polar spectrum with a heavy dose of an explosive disorder. My home was inhabited by a screeching abusive banshee on a regular basis. My father silently struggled with PTSD since he was drafted to Vietnam, they both had issues and without bashing them I think it is fair to say that neither of them should have had any children, they had nine anyway. I was a younger child in the long line.
    When I told my father I was going to be the first male son to not go on a Mormon mission because I wasn’t really sold on the religion myself, he made it clear that I should find somewhere else to go, so I enlisted the Army. I served my time in co-ed units nearly always being under the command of several females in varying levels of the chain of command. To make a short story of it, I would not wish a female NCO on anyone; just f~~~ing awful. Also I have glossed over several of the more typical MGTOW events: manipulative relationships, depression, recurring suicidal impulses, and a host of gender double standards I experienced before, during, and after my military service. Including a girlfriend who got pregnant and had an abortion against my indoctrinated wishes, she was such a whore I strongly suspect now that it wasn’t mine in the first place; so dodged a bullet there.
    I got married as I prepared to leave the army, but that only lasted a few years before she walked out on me. Typical story, she was everything I wanted and sexually insatiable before we were married. After the “I do’s” she became aggressive, abusive, nearly-celibate, and all-around intolerable.  She decided to try to reign me in by playing the walk-out game, and I was so tired of her s~~~ that I let her go. I filled out and filed the divorce papers myself and never involved a lawyer. She signed the papers without drama, the divorce was clean, and again I dodged a bullet.
    I was going to college and had a good deal of feminist propaganda and lies pushed on me, it took me a few years to really start to dismantle those lies (but at-least college did help me free myself from the remaining threads of religious dogma that were stitched into me). Every relationship I had was toxic and I removed myself from the dating pool for a few years. I was enjoying being single until I was snatched up by another Chameleon. This one was an older single mother so she tried extra hard to keep up the facade, but it broke too early and she quickly became highly controlling.
    I was disillusioned with it when I finally first saw the MGTOW acronym online. It described what I was doing before the single mom got her claws in me. It was the life I wanted back. I became more aggressive in disagreement with her, knowing she wouldn’t tolerate her lap-dog disobeying his training. It worked like a charm and she closed the door on the relationship. It was my plan to have her leave me as a precaution to her getting the rejection-rage.  Another bullet dodged. So by some miracle here I am divorced with no alimony and no kids. In short I am now a single, happy, stable, MGTOW. I have no interest in dating and have not had any in quite some time, I intend to remain a MGTOW-Monk for the rest of my life.  Thanks for reading through all of this. I hope it might help some of the younger guys know that even when it seems dark and hopeless there can be value in struggling through another day – each day.

    #40942
    Rebel Angel
    Rebel Angel
    Participant

     

    My story started out very similar to yours. It got worse and worse over the years and the societal changes. Im not sure im ready to tell my story yet.My story is very complicated and has a very unique chain of events. Most of it was a living hell and its not even over yet.

     

    Oh, that was just an intro… just the visible part of the iceberg… the whole story is way more complicated than it sounds…

    Let’s say that she used circumstances to lock me in a situation I did not planed nor never wanted to be…

    And it took me years to recover and get my head out of the water but now I am finally free therefore I dare to talk about it on this forum.

    I also want to help other brothers to get out of such crap because, as I’ve said, I haven’t found much help… However, if I’d been a woman that would have been TOTALLY different!

     

     

    #40081
    Lazarus Long
    Lazarus Long
    Participant

    Vector I wanted to post this and I sincerely hope that you will not take anything here as intending to run you down, this is all to try and illuminate things for you. Admittedly I cannot say anything that someone else here has not already said i am hopeful that if you hear it enough and in whatever happens to be the right way for you that you will get the message.

    Firstly I do want to congratulate you on your first realization and taking the first red pill, unfortunately this is a road of many awakenings and you are still new to this from your recent posts. Again this is not intended to belittle you but to remind you that there is a world of truth out there and it can be hard to see it especially when you would like nothing more than to believe in the opposite.

    Maybe you are having a hard time seeing the big picture here so I am going to try and distill this thread and the information you have provided into a timeline. First you come to us saying 

    That night she got really drunk, and blurted out to me in front of her mother, aunt’s and cousins “I’m going to rule you.”  This was a BIG red flag for me….

    Well you certainly were right about that. You were then advised to go ahead and do the breakup which you did. 

    Since you both are living under your parents roof you were advised to get all of her s~~~ out as soon as possible but you were somewhat resistant to this idea. We (MGTOW commentators) suggested several possible means to do this i.e. Get a storage place and move all of her s~~~ there (You missed this one). You then informed us that her parents were going to come get everything and of course that would have been a fiasco so you were advised to pack everything up and leave it outside for them (You missed this opportunity as well Strike 2) Then she changed her mind about leaving and is scheming with your mother behind your back and you are now living together again in a really s~~~ty arrangement (Strike 3)

    I encourage you to go read all of your posts in order and when you do so pretend that you are listening to a person on the internet and this is not you writing what would you tell yourself.

    I want to close this by giving you a short story about my mistakes. I was married and had two kids, My then wife had pretty much abandoned us but when she moved out she took the kids with her. Later on she made mistakes that ended up with me having our children (Fortunate for me) as she lived on her own and continued to struggle and leach off of people the anger between us cooled and overtime because we interacted somewhat regularly due to our children she slowly ever so slowly convinced me that she changed. Long story short on that is that I took her back into my home where the game continued until she got another branch to hang on and left again. It was then I finally finalized the divorce.

    Please do not live the mistakes I made, you have a choice right now to leave and put this all behind you. Who gives a damn if its a cheap s~~~ty apartment nothing is permanent except death. Use the time to gather resources and make future plans. Just LEAVE you are almost at the point where it will be too easy for you to fail and fall back into the relationship and it will be much worse next time because she was not joking when she told you she was far more prepared than you were. She tipped her hand again do not miss the sign, If you continue as things are she will execute her plan and it will not be good. I pray that you will make it through this well but do not let her have a chance, to steal from KeyMaster If i handed you a box of grenades and asked you to pick one up and pull the pin with the knowledge that not all of them will blow up on you would you still do it?

    Anyway sorry for the long post but just think it over. Do NOT talk to her and avoid any contact you can. Remember time is on their side not yours, the sooner you divest yourself from the situation the better you will be.

    Willfully turning aside from the truth is treason to one's self. -Terry Goodkind

    #39923
    Robert Hallam
    Robert Hallam
    Participant

    I agree Doc Fenderson:

    They’ve got a plan. And it is a fairly obvious one at that. Keep them together, under the same roof, and probably the same bed and bathroom. Get them talking civilly to each other, which they are betting will lead to discussing the situation (true confessions). They will even have the subject of discussion, order and substance all worked out, so it appears as though she is going to compromise with him taking the bate (she’ll promise to give him a blow job every day of the week). She has already mentioned she is willing to change (for a while anyway). The mother will be pushing from her end. Her parents, who were supposed to be picking up her stuff, will be pushing from the other end, and finally she’ll get him into bed. Game over. Back to square one. But this time it will be wedding plans in great haste. Invitations going out. No backing out now.

    Poor bastard. And I liked him so much.

    #39853
    AFT
    AFT
    Participant

    Warning spoiler alert if you’re into House of Cards. Just watched the final episode of the House of Cards Season 3. In the finale, Clare Underwood, the first lady, wife of Francis Underwood, President, decides to leave him just as he is at the early stages of a successful pre-election campaign.
    I know this is fiction, but it cuts close to reality, it got me thinking. How many times a woman decides to go drama queen and pull the plug, just as the man is under the most pressure trying to forge ahead and overcome significant obstacles.
    Its like they’re waiting for the most stressful difficult time for the man as an opportune moment to get the maximum destabilizing f~~~ you effect, for their deceitful, underhanded treachery.
    In the past, whenever a woman has given me trouble, it always seems to come at the most inconvenient of times, when I’m under the most stress, dealing with big issues that I’ve invariably taken on for the greater good of our combined futures.
    Perhaps it’s because they crave the attention, and feel ignored when the focus is on the challenges rather than them?
    Maybe it is partly as a result of the stress that major challenges invariably bring on a relationship.
    I have come to believe its a natural part of women’s nature to pursue a nice life together, in order to get the maximum effect when they f~~~ things up to high heaven, it’s something they can’t control or avoid, it’s manifestly a part of them, like hypergamy.
    I know MGTOW is all out of F~~~s to give, but it’s just another reminder why I’m better off without being chained to a destabilizing, vagina, ready to erupt all sorts of chaos. Feminism is also the provision of endless temporary promiscuous vagina, so f~~~ the plantation and take your place on the carousel, life has never been better for a free man unburdened by the elimination of old fashioned values.

    When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

    #39734
    Wakingup
    Wakingup
    Participant

    Update….

    Divorce is final as of today.  I’m single again.   And very much not sulking or depressed…feel relief and hopeful for my future.  Things are moving ahead great with my plans on paying off debt and all the bills are now caught up.  I’ve established a savings and my plan is moving forward.

    Not going to throw a party but not sitting at home either.

    After reading Carves reply – it makes me glad I think long and hard before posting.  “passive aggressive” and “feminine”. lol  Hilarious.   Anyway.  I stand by my reaction to that situation.  I was very much in control.  The feminine thing to do would have been to cave into her manipulative controlling action.  I didn’t listen to my c~~~ and gave her no satisfaction of being able to somehow dictate the moment.

    I have been going to a counselor and have gained some great insights.  He believes she has a personality disorder (big shock there) that involves being self – absorbed.  She can’t tolerate those closest to her NOT being equally as absorbed in her.  So she tries to control the person.  After my own research on disorders and looking at the past 20 years of my marriage.  It’s clear his assessment is dead on.

    I’m single, i’m hopeful, i’m financially stable and horny.  Bring on the day.

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