“Not making anymore coffee today, I make MY coffee in the morning.”

“So you’re saying you are not a gentleman?”

“I’m not saying that. You’re implying it.” By this point I’m done.

“Weren’t you taught to take care of ladies, you know like a proper gentlem…”

“YES. But because I was raised that way, it doesn’t define my behaviours. I CHOOSE to be polite to people who have done the same for me, seeing how you are not one of them, I’ll say this one last time. NO. If you want more coffee, make it yourself.”

“YOU ARE SO F~~~ING RUDE! I’ve just gone through a really bad breakup, I’ve been depressed for over a month and…”

“Well too f~~~ing bad. If you want coffee, heat up the pot with your frustrated, unfruitful, and unkempt c~~~.”

She left not long after, she and my sister had a concert to attend to. She did stain my kitchen floor with tears however. Is it odd that I find it amusing?

IF they start to argue with you over it or use Shaming Tactics then it is clear that it is a power issue and they are resorting to emotional manipulation in order to get you to comply.

You may ask yourself why they are doing this. It is a dominance test: if you comply, you fail the test and it means that you are a Beta Male. IF you REFUSE then that sparks their interest for more testing to see if you are an Alpha Male.

IF you continue to REFUSE all requests AND any advances that are made then they will begin to feel rejected.

Women are raised to expect men to do their bidding. They view men as slaves or indentured servants whose only purpose is to work for women. The rare alpha male is viewed as being sexually desirable because he posseses certain behavioral characteristics that are deemed to be advantageous for children to have for survival.

ALWAYS say NO. If you are in the habit of complying, take a very long pause before responding, always count to ten and really think about whether or not to comply.

Pausing will give you time to overcome your own programming, so you won’t respond automatically without thinking, it will also cause uncertainty and doubt in the woman’s mind about her ability to control you through the fact that she is a woman and is sexually desirable.

Get some testosterone gel and you know what to do.

???

a friend of my sister arrived at my house, and inmediately asked me to brew some coffee.

Who the f~~~ walks into another persons house and immediately requests that their host begin taking care of them? It’s disrespectful and narcissistic right from the get go – you could have told her to leave right then and there and you would not have been anywhere near as impolite.

Even a guy who walks into your house, immediately sticks his head into the fridge, and yells “WHERES ALL THE BEER?” has a bit more class than this waste of space. At least he demonstrated a willingness to take care of himself.

The only polite thing she could have done was waited for you to offer her something to drink.