Looking back on my online dating experiences I can see that many times women met up with me not so much hoping things would work out but more so they could cancel me out and move on to the next sucker. This would happen even after spending quite some time writing long and intimate messages to each other. To me that time is an investment and even though I met a few women from them that I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship it doesn’t mean friendship is out of the question. For women though it is that all or nothing pursuit.

It starts with that sense I get even via email, she wants to meet, it feels kind of rushed, certain words slip out in her emails, words that give me the impression of “Lets get it over and done with”.  Upon meeting I can tell straight away, no quick hug or peck on the cheek tends to suggest she has already made up her mind even though she knows what I look like and we have shared a fair about ourselves it is hardly a blind date. So handshake it is, if that, then we sit and have a coffee, doesn’t matter if the chat goes well or not, she has already made up her mind. This is just a formality now, I used to ask if she wanted to meet up again, now I don’t, spare me the speeches of how nice I am BUT….!

Anyone else find this with first meet ups?

The proof is on their profiles most times they usually have a long list of do’s and don’ts and some of those things are quite stupid and shallow.

I pity the fools who haven’t understood yet that a date is nothing but a job interview.

Anonymous wrote:

Upon meeting I can tell straight away, no quick hug or peck on the cheek tends to suggest she has already made up her mind even though she knows what I look like and we have shared a fair about ourselves it is hardly a blind date

She may not like you, but that doesn’t she won’t try to get something out of you.

I’m done with dating, be it irl or online. I never tried online anyway.
If they’re worthless skanks in real life, I don’t see why they wouldn’t be worthless skanks behind a computer screen.
Actually, all the attention they get from thirsty males probably makes it even worse when it comes to online dating….

I pity the fools who haven’t understood yet that a date is nothing but a job interview.

Oh I get it, it’s just after chatting to them a while I figure some rapport has been built up already.

Mango Ingaway wrote:

Actually, all the attention they get from thirsty males probably makes it even worse when it comes to online dating

I agree with that 100% women sign onto a dating site and before they even type the first letter of their profile they are getting hit on.

Oh I get it, it’s just after chatting to them a while I figure some rapport has been built up already.

Haha no prob I wasn’t talking about you, man, if you’re here that means you already know enough about male/female relations~~~s :p

The latest event was this bitch that added me to facebook because she saw my profile on a conversation exchange site, she had a boyfriend and I guess she was looking for foreigners to f~~~ and not get caught, she wanted to meet on Monday, then I contacted her in the morning just to see if the plan was still on and she said “her electrician was going to visit her apartment tonight so had to cancel out” which is probably BS. I already gave up on dating women but a f~~~ request by a hot woman is hard to pass by as I still have sex needs, so I took some Arginine pills to boost my libido and s~~~, and then got cancelled out as easy as nothing.

Just 1 more guy on the c~~~ carousel, why waste time?

We should no longer make it easy for them.

I1 pity the fools who haven’t understood yet that a date is nothing but a job interview.

Which is why it’s so important to let a woman know she’s not a job. She’s not even a hobby. Walk away and she will come running after you.