MGTOWSupress feelings. – MGTOW

Supress feelings.

Maverick — Tue, 27 Jan 2015 19:47:19 +0000

Ik a big part of mgtow is being away from women. But i have a core instint to love and be loved by women. I have feelings for them that i cant help. How do i supress them. Any ideas guys? I truly want to be mgtow but the indoctonation of society is grained in. I fortunately have tooken the red pill. Ik logically the need to rebel against the “golden” vagina. But its emotionally ingrained.

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Smitty the Great One — Tue, 27 Jan 2015 19:52:37 +0000

You need to not think of it in those terms. You are not suppressing your feelings for women. You are channeling them in a healthy direction. Everybody wants to be loved, that’s universal, but because men and women see love in completely different ways it is hard to obtain, and maintain once you have it. Your problem is not your problem, your attitude about your problem is the problem….

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

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Tue, 27 Jan 2015 20:05:06 +0000

@maverick

One way to suppress those “feelings” is to continue reading about the endless nightmares men have endured, over and over, to no fault of their own! Women have “crushed” their feelings! Feelings “crushed” and ground to dust, over and over and over again! Theirs hope for you, cause you appear to be somewhat awoken to the real “hard facts”! The RED PILLS of “reality”!

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... — Tue, 27 Jan 2015 20:12:21 +0000

Maverick: just keep a spreadsheet of your interactions with them and when the cost vs. benefit analysis isn’t working is a good time to go ghost for awhile. it takes time to figure all this s~~~ out so be patient with yourself.

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Keymaster — Tue, 27 Jan 2015 20:59:25 +0000

Someone else asked this just the other day.

You’ve been socialized and it’s a constant struggle.
Understanding that you’ve been socialized is a huge step in itself.

Right there, you learn the s~~~ you blamed yourself (and accepted responsibility for) wasn’t really your fault or problem. Neither is feeling like you do. Women are guiltiest of force-feeding you this horses~~~ too.

• You probably can’t get a girlfriend
• You can’t get laid
• No girl would ever go out with you.
• You’re probably going to die alone.

All bulls~~~ manipulations to keep you insecure and feeling inadequate.

There’s a common misconception that “MGTOW are just one blow job away from reverting to blue-pill”…. which is not 100% a misconception. If you’re not diligent the dark side of the force can have a strong influence on the weak mind. (if you get the reference)

The world will test you. Constantly.

PS… like the Godzilla avatar. Good choice for a MGTOW. See the last movie? Godzilla 2014 was about the male (enemy / PUA) making it his mission in life to breed and mate and chase the female. Godzilla just wanted to be left the f~~~ alone. The quintessential alpha. Interesting, that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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Jousting Sticks — Wed, 28 Jan 2015 00:03:36 +0000

Maverick, you don’t need to suppress any feelings, in fact I think that this would be unhealthy. In my view, you need to manage them. The same way we have to manage other things in our lives. A couple of days ago I went to a café for breakfast by myself. At the table next to me were two couples, aged late 50’s to early 60’s. I sat there listening to these two poor bastards be told what they will and should have for breakfast. Not a peep out of them. When I left I walked down the street feeling great. Yesterday I went shopping and watched man after man sitting outside the shops while their wives were inside those shops. Nearly all of them were staring into space, expressionless, no doubt waiting to be asked for an opinion that won’t be listened to anyway. These daily observations make it easy for me. Take your time and do it your way.

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knightslayer — Wed, 28 Jan 2015 02:24:55 +0000

adding to what keymaster wrote:

learn not to give a f~~~ and this list won’t mean anything. the power women have over you will cease to exist.

• You probably can’t get a girlfriend – i don’t need some bitch trying to emasculate me with her incessant nagging.
• You can’t get laid – someone used you as a cum receptacle and you’re proud of that? congratulations, you’re f~~~ing pathetic.
• No girl would ever go out with you. – i’d rather spend my hard earned money on myself than some ungrateful whore.
• You’re probably going to die alone. – newsflash, we all die alone you dumb c~~~.

it’s part of human nature to desire love, but chances are, it’s going to be very tough to find that. instead of chasing it, concentrate on yourself. when you learn not to give a f~~~ because you have so much going for you in your own life, you’ll find that pussy isn’t that important anymore. technically, it just isn’t. there’s enough people on this planet as it is and while sex can feel great, it’s a temporary satisfaction. but out in the world, somewhere, you could find something that will bring you that fulfilling satisfaction that withstands the test of time.

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jack reacher — Wed, 28 Jan 2015 05:30:54 +0000

its something Barbarossa has dealt with before but unfortunately I don’t have a good link. I think at its core the need to be loved by a woman, besides all the culturally biased s~~~, is a longing for and unresolved love from a mother figure. the gash we think about is the substitute for this unresolved love. but the bottom line is it will be forever unresolved because your mother will never fulfill that need and certainly no gash will or even should. you are left with the option of forever being a slave to the quest or recognizing it for the fallacy it is and destroying it. you need to be your own parent and give yourself love, or love yourself, and you shall find fulfillment.

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Keymaster — Wed, 28 Jan 2015 05:42:05 +0000

The video (i think) Jack Reacher is referring to… is THE first thing I thought of, too. I didn’t post it earlier, but here it is. About flawed male desire and thinking you can find solace in female companionship. VERY Highly recommended:

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And RE: The comment about dying alone. Transparent as s~~~. Since wives outlive their husbands by 8 years (avg), even if you DO sign a marriage contract, it’s more likely SHE is going to die alone. Look any woman right in the eye, tell her that and watch the expression on her face. I hate that excuse, “dying alone”. Even if she is in the same room with you when you are dying, she would stand over you and tell you that you probably shouldn’t have eaten all that bacon. Wow, for that experience where to sign up?

If “not dying alone” is the BEST sales pitch anyone can come up with, that should tell you everything you need to know.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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Maverick — Wed, 28 Jan 2015 16:57:29 +0000

Thank you guys. I appreciate your comments and advice. Ill use all your advice for my benifit. im a very caring person, and have women tell me im too caring and emotional. That i need to man up. Lol. Ya know. That funny comment. I usually tell them to cry a river, build a bridge and get the f~~~ over it. Lol. The funny thing is that helping people makes me happy. Im no pushover. But people smiling makes me smile. I think not giving a f~~~ is gunna be hard for me. Btw. Im a virgin. Sex is on the bottom of my list. But even though knowing what women are and what they have done to us, i for some reason, still have hope for a nawalt.