MGTOWMGTOW and Birthday's – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 09:45:15 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/page/233/#post-88086 <![CDATA[MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/page/233/#post-88086 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 04:44:31 +0000 MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give Well today is my 39 birthday and something hit me,when family or friends asked what I wanted I couldnt think of anything, since going my own way any material things I want I already bought for myself so my list is empty. This would have never happened if I were anchored down in a marriage or to some bitchy c~~~. I hardly spend any money because there’s not much to spend it on,I have everything I want. Just wondering if any of you guy’s have gone through something similar to this? Did it feel weird to you? I spent the day working in the backyard,I know I will get thumbs down and booed when asked how I spent this day from family and friends. Just weird………

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88119 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88119 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 05:44:41 +0000 Edog I don’t really regard my own B-day as being much. To me, it’s just another day, just like all the others. And yeah, I typically have the same response when asked if I want anything. I always just have to be honest and say, no…not really. Since I depend on myself, I’m all sorted out. With my family, this usually ends with everyone just giving me cash, which to me, of you are insisting on giving me something for being born, cash will work better than anything else you’re likely to come up with.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88122 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88122 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 05:52:49 +0000 Jason Same here; when people ask me what I want for my birthday, I just reply “nothing or money” – because when it comes to material possessions I either already have what I want or I know that other people can’t do it right even if I give them a list, because I have such specific needs and tastes. As for how I spend the day… Usually I spend it with my dad, getting some nice food and a cake. I usually meet up briefly with my mother, also. The rest I spend by myself. Occasionally people ask me, pityingly, if I wouldn’t want something more “exciting” or whatever. I always wonder what they mean by that; I don’t have the extra money to do much stuff on my own, and they don’t exactly go out of their way to arrange anything, so just what goes through their heads when they ask that kind of thing…? Eh, whatever.

In any case, other people have “weird” birthday stuff going on, too, not just you 🙂

There lies serenity in Chaos. Seek ye the eye of the hurricane.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88210 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88210 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 08:36:15 +0000 RoyDal I collect things, so I hit them up for that. I also have a storage problem because of my little hobby, but I don’t mention this. I want to cater to their generosity. I am grateful to have such people in my life.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88253 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88253 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 11:11:30 +0000 Crazy Canuck I never cared for birthdays, Christmas, thanksgiving and other stupid holidays. These holidays is just to make companies rich. You get something you don’t really need. I don’t need anything but the basics. My computer, bike and my ipod touch other than that I don’t care for much.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88296 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88296 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 13:32:45 +0000 Burgundy When they ask for gifts, I tell them the most mundane and universal stuff, or money. If I want something, I buy it myself, and I get to buy it right away, can’t wait for this s~~~, so just tell them to buy whatever brand of whatever stuff you use regular of anything but don’t really need right now.

 

And ever since I stopped giving a damn about relationships, I haven’t really cared much for my birthdays either, more like just having people over for dinner, and you make a little more than usual, just for the sake of hospitality.

 

Christmas though, all about the food, that’s all I care fore.  Actually that’s also only what I care fore at birthdays….

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88302 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88302 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 13:53:30 +0000 I don’t remind people, especially my family, of my birthday and they don’t remember. This makes me happy as it fits with me going my own way and not depending on others to make me happy.

Then they include my birthday in some other up coming celebration to assuage their guilt. Their guilt is their own problem.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88312 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88312 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 14:24:08 +0000 Knights Templar Rising Birthdays and Holidays were only important to me as a child/teen.  After that they slowly lost meaning to me, because they are nothing more than perfunctory.  But what has made me downright hate them, is years of my SO making these events out to be some dire need to over blow the situation.  The emphasis on these notions seems to be a classic female flaw.

Sovereignty above all else.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88330 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88330 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 15:02:51 +0000 Gunslinger Nothing wrong with not wanting anything. I know when it comes to birthdays, I’d care less if I ever get anything. All I care about is hearing from my family, not for the B-day wishes, but just another day to speak with them. Since the bitch dragged me to NYC I only see them maybe twice a year now, so any time I have to speak or skype them is precious to me. I tried to tell my Mom this but she still has to send something.

Last time I truly asked for anything was back Junior year in college. I was broke, like broke broke. Couldn’t even afford a good amount of Raman noodles, I asked mom to come up and stock me with some groceries for my present. And good god did she…I had real food to eat for the first time in a month or more. Then I got the lecture about not letting her know sooner, that’s what Mom’s do though.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88425 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and Birthday's]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-birthdays/#post-88425 Fri, 24 Jul 2015 18:04:16 +0000 I tell my family not to get me anything. They give me money anyway LOL. I tell them I am too old for the birthday thing.

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