Who are these people who do not matter? People like Paul Elam. Feminists. White Knights. Manginas. Trolls. Look fella, the only person who matters from here on out is YOU! You and the people in your life who have YOUR BEST INTERESTS in mind. We can support each other. We can discuss ideas. We can share experiences.

However, we absolutely cannot fall into the trap of trying to educate manginas. We cannot waste valuable energy trying to be reasonable with people who are unreasonable. Finally, you cannot sit at the table with your rival and expect logical and balanced outcomes. MGTOW is about choosing complete freedom over oppression and strife.

Every word you speak to your rival is a word wasted. Every thought you give to your rival steals your peace. Every action you give to your rival steals a portion of your life.

Society will tell you that as a man, you are worth nothing. You are worth less than nothing. I challenge you to prove them wrong. You can begin by refusing to acknowledge the people in this world who simply do not matter.

Arguing directly with feminists is absolutely pointless, and even indirectly it’s a waste of time. Acknowledging the nonsense that pours out of their mouths is just helping to give them legitimacy. It’s no different than atheists arguing evolution vs creationism with religious practitioners. If you don’t believe in a god then just say so and move on to something more productive.

It would have been enormously helpful to me at the time to have just had this site and maybe one or two older, more experienced guys tell me, “yeah kid, it really is as wrong as it appears to you to be…what you suspect has already been proven by our experience… your willingness to get married and play that traditional role would have been appropriate 50 or 100 years ago…as it was for the examples you’ve had… but is not the right decision for you today…”.

For a younger man to say no and go his own way in defiance of the enormity of the expectation and pressure placed on him by his family, friends, surrounding environment to just ‘man up’ and do what he’s been told… would take an enormous amount of self confidence and courage. The average, isolated 22 year old man considering marriage might find it impossible to resist all that pressure. But give that same young man a few examples of men who have actually done and are continuing to do what he knows he would like to do, and suddenly he is not an isolated person doing something that’s never been done before.

Following a successful example of someone older who’s already made the decision he is considering, involves much less uncertainty and anxiety for that young man than doing something that has never been done. MY MISSION HERE IS TO BE THAT EXAMPLE AND ENCOURAGE THAT DECISION.

I have no time for distractions by anything not contributing that that mission.

we absolutely cannot fall into the trap of trying to educate manginas.

I’m of the opinion they don’t need education anyway. Women will do that.  The most important thing is that men realize other options exist. After that they can decide if they’ll continue being a doormat, or go MGTOW.

“If you’re not taking flak, then you’re not over the target..”

I think the fact that we are now seeing the vanguard of an assault means we are having an impact on the current social paradigm.

Ask yourself, “What would ‘Joliet’ Jake Blues do?”.

If a mangina or white knight comes here looking for a lifeline, there are thousands of them in our water already waiting for them. But we all know hat if you go out and try to save a drowning man and he will attempt to take you under with him.

We are not lifeguards here and we have no responsibility to attempt to force anyone to take the red pill. That’s kind of he whole point, donchathink? Going your own way is a voluntary thing.