Yesterday she was going to spend the night with me, we were just going to cuddle since she’s a virgin. I took a shower and when I come out of the shower I see my apartment empty and the door wide open. I of course, thought she had been kidnapped or whatever, I had a panic attack and even right now I feel as if my nerves were destroyed.

At first I thought that being an innocent girl she had seen my browser history and found porn and felt shocked, which made me feel even worse. BUT it turns out she got into my facebook (which by the way, I had made sure to close the windows in order for this situation not to happen though I never logged out as I didn’t think she was going to dig into my stuff.

Well, she actually digged into a conversation with my best friend who is a woman (I know) and scrolled up until she found a part where I mentioned she was a virgin and that was enough for her to be shocked and leave. After talking and all that we’re left in a situation of “giving each other time” but I’ve made up my mind and I don’t want to have my nerves destroyed every time she will have some trust issues or some paranoid s~~~ just because her ex had stood her up before the wedding. And of course, I don’t want to get my nerves destroyed AND have a marriage contract.

So, yep, bitches are crazy, dont need them, stay away from them they only bring trouble. You know that.

They sentenced Socrates to death for saying things like that.

Just be eternally grateful it came BEFORE you made any irrevocable mistakes.

There’s no such thing as a NAWALT, just women who haven’t proven themselves AWALT… yet.

AWALT = NAWALT + time.

avillax wrote:

she found a part where I mentioned she was a virgin and that was enough for her to be shocked and leave.

Or she realized the jig is up and you might not be as easy a mark as she had hoped.

The point is you really don’t want to find out which was the truth.

For instance, my ex before this one had trust issues and had been single for many years just because she spent 1 year with her previous boyfriend, the guy was giving her a ride to college and had to pick her up on the other side of the city every day and they hadn’t had sex, as she was a virgin too, he didn’t even push that much and the girl was almost about to tell him to have sex when on one heavy traffic day the guy couldn’t hold it anymore and complaint about not having sex. The girl immediately dumped him and felt traumatized for this during years and now she couldn’t trust men! Then I took her virginity (she did have a hymen) but trust issues continued and after 4 months of being together we broke up.

But it surprises me how easy they get traumatized?

How about a lifetime trying to get a date with women that stood you up before a date, go borderline crazy in the middle of the relationship no matter how good you treat them, and women putting you on a waiting list? I would say that is 1000000% more shocking and we’re still alive as men.

avillax wrote:

I mentioned she was a virgin and that was enough for her to be shocked and leave

Think about that. “Shocked” that she’s a virgin…. so she storms out and leaves.

How is it shocking? Doesn’t she KNOW she’s a virgin?

You realize she texted all of her friends and is talking with ALL of them about it right now. Including her facebook friends. But she can’t talk to YOU about it right? They can all talk about it, but you get walked out on because it’s “shocking”.

It’s not the porn. It’s not the “virgin”. She would have reacted EXACTLY the same way if she found a credit card receipt for flowers that you bought your mother. Think I’m joking? That actually happened to me. A dramatic break up, with an argument lasting 3.5 hours because I was “sending another woman flowers and I never sent her any”.

Don’t even THINK about running after her or explaining, or apologizing. It’s her issue.

She was really a virgin,

Which was never the issue. Everyone is a virgin at one time or another. It’s no big deal. What was a big red flag was her selling her virginity for a lifetime contract from you.

The girl immediately dumped him and felt traumatized for this during years and now she couldn’t trust men!

No offense, but that sounds more like a convenient excuse than an actual reason. Likely she never had sex with him because she simply didn’t want to have sex with him, and when he complained she knew her days of free rides were coming to an end so it was time to cut her losses.

If a woman wants to have sex with a man, she will have sex with him. Case in point:

Then I took her virginity

Q.E.D.

trust issues

Are another common excuse rather than a real reason.

But it surprises me how easy they get traumatized?

I honestly don’t think she was traumatized. But that’s beside the point.

What matters is SHE WENT SNOOPING IN YOUR STUFF.

Even if your personal data was up on a 60 inch flatscreen on the wall a decent person would know better than to go peeking. But not this woman. She proved that herself. This “traumatized” bulls~~~ from her is just a dodge to deflect from the real matter that you cannot f~~~ing trust her.

She was no NAWALT.

You just dodged a giant f~~~ing bullet.

Didn’t even took that long for the mask to come of. ‘sigh’

If a girl is a virgin/traditionalist, great, but no reason to rush it just because of  SEX,SEX,SEX. You have to be careful man, think with your upper head haha.

It’s sad that it happened but, better before marriage. You got Lucky.

avillax wrote:

At first I thought that being an innocent girl she had seen my browser history and found porn and felt shocked

lmao

avillax wrote:

I never logged out as I didn’t think she was going to dig into my stuff.

uhuh… haha. well, It actually saved you. I would actually leave it like that, to see how much do they sniff around your websites/browsers etc. Check browser history after she leaves etc.

She had her nose so far up in your business that if you yawned you would see her in there checking your dental work.

But yeah, I read your original post, and knew how this would end.