MGTOWHow do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money) – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 04:50:15 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/page/319/#post-60290 <![CDATA[How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/page/319/#post-60290 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 02:45:25 +0000 Clint I’m almost done reading The Rational Male and I think the spinning plate theory he talks about makes sense, although it may be too much work to be worth it. However, I was wondering if a man can get laid without spending money on women. For example, my brother was trying to hook me up with this girl, and I’m indifferent about it. She likes me and that’s nice, but I don’t value putting my dick in a wet hole over my values.

What I mean is I would have sex with her, but frankly I don’t want to take her out because I don’t want to spend money on her. It’s not even because I’m broke or anything – I just don’t like the idea of a woman thinking she is valuable enough for me to just spend money on her right away without doing anything.

This leads to sort of a loop where there is no winning situation, or so it seems to me at this moment. If I spend money on her, she classifies me as a beta provider male and I don’t be who I want to be, but I could get laid. If I don’t spend money on her I don’t see how I can get laid. She isn’t just gonna hop in my car and let me f~~~ her without us ever even talking or anything first. I kind of just want to say to her that I’m not going to spend money to go on a date for a girl who hasn’t proven herself worth anything to me.

Why isn’t she impressing me? I’m a man with a lot going for me, who is she to assume she deserves to be taken out on my dime? She should be paying for my meal the way I see it. Anyways, I have done a ton of reading since I first posted here, and I can feel my mind being remolded into a much better perspective. Just wanna know if I can get laid without trading the values I have as an MGHOW.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60294 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60294 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 03:05:10 +0000 Snake It is a numbers game. Ask girls back to your place to hang out. Sooner or later you will get a bite.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60296 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60296 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 03:12:13 +0000 Clint
Snake wrote:

It is a numbers game. Ask girls back to your place to hang out. Sooner or later you will get a bite.

I guess I need my own place then, I’m 22 and live at home still.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60298 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60298 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 03:20:07 +0000 Sky-☯️ That is an interesting question. I have not thought about getting laid since being MGTOW. That is because before I was MGTOW, during my blue pill era: I had enough sex to be able to take a step back after becoming MGTOW and have the ability to not even care about it anymore. In a sense, regarding out of control sex with sociopathic sluts: I’ve been there, done that and got the t-shirt. So women now have nothing to try to bait me with. So, in a way – I’m confident ill be able to stay MGTOW, because I already covered about 98% of things sexually with women and sluts have nothing now to offer. – Now, if a woman is attractive, wants to redefine the meaning of the word orgasm with me and just f~~~, I’m always ready. However, any woman lil that would be smart enough to leverage her vaginal power towards luring in a blue pill, beta male chump rather than deal with me anyway, so I’m not holding M breath on that scenario.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60300 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60300 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 03:22:08 +0000 ILiveAgain One way or another you will pay. Financially, emotionally or medically.

There are NO free rides I’m afraid.

The most honest and best deal you’ll get is with a hooker.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60304 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60304 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 03:32:04 +0000 AFT
Clint wrote:

too much work to be worth it

+1 Couldn’t have said it better myself.

For me it’s a sliding scale, the hotter they are the more effort I’m willing to put in, but at the end of the day, I bring a s~~~ load more to the table, so they really need to hop on board my carousel before it’s too late.  Give them whatever impression they need to get them wet.

I had this moral problem of being two faced about my interactions with them, basically appearing like the nice guy before disappearing when the crazy or clingy starts.  Now I see it as screening, I am willing to take auditions for a potential LTR  partner, and it inevitably unravels as I know they are not a Unicorn.

I just don’t care anymore, by the way I noticed that I’m tending towards Asian / South American / Eastern European women more, as I find them more feminine.  My take it or leave it attitude means I’m getting laid once every two or three months, but it’s as hassle free as I have ever had it.

Focus on yourself, and the rest falls into place.

I enjoyed the Rational Male and find Rollo Thomassi very helpful in gaining insight into the Feminine Primary social order, we just got to exploit the situation as best we can, it’s not too hard now that there are so many strong independent whores around.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60309 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60309 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 03:45:14 +0000 BD
ILiveAgain wrote:

One way or another you will pay. Financially, emotionally or medically. There are NO free rides I’m afraid. The most honest and best deal you’ll get is with a hooker.

I second this, brilliant ILiveagain.

 

Snake wrote:

It is a numbers game. Ask girls back to your place to hang out. Sooner or later you will get a bite.

Yep, Snake is right to the point, wanna stop by my place, use any excuse or tell her it’s for drinks, lead her to alcohol for the slut deniability excuse.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60315 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60315 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 03:59:32 +0000 Clint
AFT wrote:
Clint wrote:

too much work to be worth it

+1 Couldn’t have said it better myself. For me it’s a sliding scale, the hotter they are the more effort I’m willing to put in, but at the end of the day, I bring a s~~~ load more to the table, so they really need to hop on board my carousel before it’s too late. Give them whatever impression they need to get them wet. I had this moral problem of being two faced about my interactions with them, basically appearing like the nice guy before disappearing when the crazy or clingy starts. Now I see it as screening, I am willing to take auditions for a potential LTR partner, and it inevitably unravels as I know they are not a Unicorn. I just don’t care anymore, by the way I noticed that I’m tending towards Asian / South American / Eastern European women more, as I find them more feminine. My take it or leave it attitude means I’m getting laid once every two or three months, but it’s as hassle free as I have ever had it. Focus on yourself, and the rest falls into place. I enjoyed the Rational Male and find Rollo Thomassi very helpful in gaining insight into the Feminine Primary social order, we just got to exploit the situation as best we can, it’s not too hard now that there are so many strong independent whores around.

Thanks for the feedback, I guess this is another part of becoming MGTOW. The realization that there is no consistent situation where things work out well for us when it comes to women. I was hoping there was a better answer to get consistently laid for free, but I guess I kind of knew it to be true in the back of my mind and just didn’t want to admit it.

I think the hardest part is dealing with people you know about it. I’m pretty sure my siblings or parents are guessing I might be gay at this point because I never bring home girls and have never had a girlfriend. I’m not, obviously, but I just never had that out of control “must get a girlfriend” mentality. I always thought other things were much more interesting since I’m an introvert who thinks deeply a lot.

It’s hard though because even when family asks about it, you can’t even explain it to them in a way that makes sense because they just don’t understand. It’s not even possible in their minds for me to just not care that much.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60317 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60317 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 04:01:20 +0000 Sky-☯️ Snake is right. Sooner or later you will get a bite.

However, the one’s that usually bite are the ones that are hungry. Hungry sluts have motives that include way more than just your dick.

 

Be warned

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60320 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do I get laid as an MGHOW? (Without spending money)]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-do-i-get-laid-as-an-mghow-without-spending-money/#post-60320 Mon, 01 Jun 2015 04:06:40 +0000 BONE Good question, unfortunately I have no clue…In my opinion it’s a f~~~ing chore trying to get laid, If I have to pull a Shang Tsung and be somebody I’m not just to get a piece of pussy it ain’t even worth it, you literally have to “test your might” with these hoes. Honestly, I’ve been changing my whole narrative from “how can I get laid” to “does she deserve my TIME let alone my dick?” but hey, I’m a virgin so what the hell do I know about getting laid….I’m pretty sure I’m going to lose my virginity to a hooker/prostitue and I’m completely OK with that.

You say you don’t value putting you dick in pussy over your own values? Good, you shouldn’t..none of us should, don’t be Shang Tsung.

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