There are upsides to it. There is always plenty of cash around. When it looks like you have less, very few women approach. Nobody asks you for money. I can spend how I please but can’t buy the house or car I want because of the current situation. What’s really f~~~ed up is that the money is there but I can’t spend it. I’m sure there has been a thread on this because I have not been a member very long. I’m just wondering how many of us are in the same boat when it comes to this. Thank you fellow members for listening to me whine.

They have a lot of people that want your money.

Just google ‘divorce forensic accountants’

Let the clock run out and then go party ……  you MUST invite me 😀

I’m single and I don’t spend that much money. I have a good chunk of money however nobody would know it. 😛

Although {{DON”T FOLLOW THIS}} I’ve heard too many times that second wives go absolute crazy at the first wife if she tries to come back for more money. The reason is it’s THEIR money now not yours, like marrying Delphine Lalaurie so she’ll fight off Irma Grese etc.

Hang in there!

Blue Pill Irma Grese:

Red Pill Irma:

If I ever showed any sign of doing well, I believe I would be back in family court faster than my head could spin.

You believe rightly. I have seen it happen.

He did remarry and did buy a modest house, but he told his ex his new wife didn’t work (she filed separately and didn’t change her name to keep her income out of the ex’s sight). He also said the house was rented and they were barely making ends, drove a old beater till both kids were 18, and they furnished the house very sparingly. His income more than quadrupled over the first 6 years after that divorce (add to that the new wife’s income), but the stupid ex-bitch was none the wiser, and although the divorce conditions confined my brother to living in southern Cal, the ex-bitch up and moved with the kids to Kansas where she has remarried and divorced 4 times since (and gained 200 pounds), so maintaining the illusion of being financially strapped was easier on my brother. Ex rarely let the kids visit either – the brother just had to pay and pay – so that lightened the potential of being discovered. Ex would also often move, never provide a new address, and then file papers against him for non-payment … fortunately my brother kept copies of everything, including the returned-undeliverable/not-at-this-address letters, but he still had to prove himself in court I think 5 times till the kids were of age. The bulk of this went down just over 20 years ago so records were less readily available too, plus his dopey ex is dumber than dirt. Near the end, he did break down and buy a very nice car, but when he learned the ex was in town on a visit he parked it at my place for a month and left his 20 year old beater in his open garage. You got to do all this s~~~ and more, these days.

The kids never much saw either their father or hardly a dime of the money sent, and grew up to mostly hate their father and think he was a deadbeat (not at all the case). He did finally get a chance to prove to the kids that he was not a loser, and the son believes him and is a good kid (disowned his mother), but the daughter just tries to bleed the old man (like her mama). My brother and his new wife (she is actually one of the few NAWALTs, I think) are now living it up and are loaded, but they know for a fact that would not be the case if they broke the deception. It’s imperative that you stick it thru, because the courts these days will f~~~ you from here to the moon for being a decent male human being and denying your ex-bitch the large chunk of your productivity to which she is so richly entitled and deserving. Yeah that sucks.