I heard a concept that was associated with Barbarossa, and it really resonated with me so I want to include it in the intro and see if it connects. The concept of not waiting for that mother validation from bitches because it isnt coming, you have to go your own way. That is really powerful and I wish I heard it 25 years ago.

I lost a lot of my life with drugs and alcohol dealing with childhood abuse and betrayal, from you guessed it, dear old mom. And yet my coping mechanism besides what I mentioned, was to be a white night because bitches couldn’t be wrong. Right?

So I made every f~~~ing excuse for their s~~~, including befriending a toxic feminist bitch for over 20 years who further polluted my identity and thoughts. Until I could not reconcile the contradictions of feminism and her selfish, bitch, entitled, neurotic behaviour any more and cut her loose. The most frightening thing is as f~~~ed up as she is, she is a major player in the feminist scene here, and I found many like her in the movement. And the awareness of how f~~~ed up these feminist “shot callers” are was a huge wake up call and turning point for me. These are the ones lobbying for legislative, educational, political and societal changes to favour feminism.

So now I am working on self sovereignty and detoxifying my brain of the feminist garbage, ironically as even many women are doing.

I had a “female friend” for over 12 years too. Probably the only one I spent any time with who I didn’t screw. She was so f~~~ing toxic but I didn’t know it. If I could go back I would have told her to shut the f~~~ up – or not hang out with her at all. She wasn’t a screeching feminist or anything conscious, but just your typical modern girl. if I would talk about how screwed up chicks are over a coffee or something, she would “NAWALT” me every time. Then she gets ditched at the altar by some dude and called ME up for “support”.

I get “NAWALT”…. she got cheering up.

Then I moved to another city far enough away, and heard NAWALT again from some broad! How is that possible? So I actually GOOGLED “not all women are like that” and a world of videos on the topic and 1987358176452761542653 articles had been written in the Manosphere about it. Imagine my horror. Imagine hearing “not all women are like that” and finding hundreds of other dudes telling me they ALL ARE like that. It’s the same f~~~ing cover-up NAWALT excuse every time. It was like an out of body experience Like when that Australian actor in Terminator 3 thought he was human, and looked down and learned he was a machine. Same reaction.

Anyway, Im monologuing and don’t want to step on your intro, but you just made a light go on and this black russian is delicious. I think I will pour myself another. Cheers brother. Hope to read more from you. Peace.

The worst thing that can happen is females defining masculinity, which is what we are seeing now – the metrosexual, guys wearing skinny jeans, guys parroting feminist s~~~ without any internal processing, guys not succeeding in life because it “threatens” women, guys afraid to compete. Now that is something mostly in the urban environment I live, but it is so pervasive now, that even a young man in the rural areas is infected with it.

But we are making gains – I noticed all the new members just since I joined and it is fantastic. And remember the system is so weak, some whiny bitches with bulls~~~ lies for analysis got things changed, so we just need to turn the system in on itself and not let them do any more damage.

But we are making gains – I noticed all the new members just since I joined and it is fantastic.

Yes! We share your enthusiasm. When we opened, I remember the first 10 or 20 members. It was very exciting for us. Before we knew it, there were 50. Then 200. Then, at 400 it started to slow down a bit. We received an email from someone who didn’t like us very much (a feminist? Another MGTOW site?) and they were laughing at us. “Looks like it’s not taking off.”, they said. It would have been easy to believe them – but we didn’t.

…. It has been 500 new members a month since then. And now, MGTOW has exploded on Google. This is without any advertizing. A very interesting sign. So we are hardly “isolated”. We even expected the forums to be very quiet for at least a few months, but after only 2 months, are amazed how many have shown up to say hello and make an intro. So A VERY warm welcome to you, and thanks to guys like BARD(!!) who have really made an effort to participate and contribute here.

PS, I downloaded Jack Reacher (I have seen every Tom Cruise movie except that one) and will be watching it on the weekend. Thanks for making me curious about it.

Another RedPill-style movie I totally enjoyed was “WANTED”, with Angelina Jolie, Morgan Freeman, and James MacAvoy. It was hugely underrated. Probably for that reason.