MGTOWFailed to save a Friend – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 16:13:04 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/page/509/#post-5539 <![CDATA[Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/page/509/#post-5539 Wed, 22 Oct 2014 20:59:46 +0000 jambear My best friends 1 year anniversary is coming up at the end of this month.  And I feel like a bit of a jackass. I always had a personal philosophy and look that kept me away from relationships but it never occurred to me to help my friends by teaching them said philosophy. I did not discover MGTOW till a few months ago so I was unable to do anything about his marriage.

A bit of background on my friend. He is a blue pill man and is pussy whipped. I have known him for 12 years and in all that time he was never out of a relationship for more then a month. Other then his constant need for a woman he is the best friend a guy could ask for. When I told him I was done with woman, he did not shame me but instead gave me support and encouragement to pursue what made me happy. Over all a great guy.

When he finally proposed to his girlfriend I was happy for him if not worried about him. I was always indifferent to his wife. She is your standard female with no interests or anything interesting about her, with above average looks. I did not know how dangerous she is until I found MGTOW though. She is insanely manipulative and irrational. I see that he is unhappy but brushes it off and says that is married life.

I honestly do not know what to do? The time to keep her claws out of him has come and gone. I see now that she is going to take him to the cleaners. If I tell him out right what I see he will not listen. What can I do?

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5550 <![CDATA[Reply To: Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5550 Wed, 22 Oct 2014 22:53:56 +0000 Deus Ex Machina @jambear

Not much you can do, it’s their choice and the chemicals in their Brain that wont allow them to see what’s truly going on. It’s interesting to look at a relationship of our friends, then look at it again with a new pair of MGTOW eyes, it’s as if you see a Tidal Wave coming, you’re telling everyone it’s coming, and they just look at like you’re some kind of an idiot. All the signs are there, He doesn’t see the huge red flags you see, he doesn’t see the potential for disaster.

I’ve tried numerous times to tell friends about their fiancee’s or girlfriends, one of my buddies even wanted to get into a fist fight with me because of things I pointed out that were bad on her part.

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5554 <![CDATA[Reply To: Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5554 Wed, 22 Oct 2014 23:04:39 +0000 jambear I was kinda of hoping there was something to be done T.T

I forgot to mention that I am keeping a close eye on her. I am fairly confident she used to ride the c~~~ carousal so her likely hood of cheating should be fairly high. I am trying to find evidence of this before they have children.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5594 <![CDATA[Reply To: Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5594 Thu, 23 Oct 2014 12:27:40 +0000 Total Lee I don’t know how anyone can find this funny, but a co-worker sent it to me with a hundred “LOL”s attached. Every indication the husband/groom is a laughing stock to everyone, and the last to be clued in.

https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=10154636606720713

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5754 <![CDATA[Reply To: Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5754 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 13:37:55 +0000 RoyDal I know several married couples like jambear describes. They have instructed me to “man up” and get married.

Did they have a candidate in mind, I asked? No, they expect me to hunt one up on my own.

What is in it for me? How does marriage to this as yet unmet female make my life better? They change the subject at this point, no answer.

Women, bah!! Phooey on marriage!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5855 <![CDATA[Reply To: Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5855 Sun, 26 Oct 2014 05:06:04 +0000 Rock St.Eddie

I know several married couples like jambear describes. They have instructed me to “man up” and get married.

Misery loves company. It’s not just a cliché.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5965 <![CDATA[Reply To: Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-5965 Sun, 26 Oct 2014 12:03:11 +0000 JollyMisanthrope It always amuses me when someone tells you that you better get married before you get much older, when they never actually ask you if you are currently happy the way you are and what your plans for the future might be. They just say “get married, you don’t want to be like so and so, at 60 with no family and living by yourself”. It’s like what the f~~~ business is it of yours how I choose to spend my days? Maybe being 60 without a family and flying solo is EXACTLY where I want to be someday. And it’s always married women that tell you this because they are oblivious to the fact that at least half of them have a husband who is sick of putting up with their bulls~~~ and wants out.

The best reply I can think of is “If I had to spend the rest of my life legally bound to someone like you I’d rather kill myself.”

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-6174 <![CDATA[Reply To: Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-6174 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 16:05:34 +0000 Jim01 Chaos I am currently getting the “when are you going to get yourself a girlfriend” line from my family over and over. It doesn’t matter how many times I point out how much I love having my own place with my own rules, my own money and more own free time..in short being completely free when not at work

Even if I sometimes think about getting a girlfriend I think about all the bulls~~~ texting and phoning I have to do and can’t be bothered, the less time I will have on my xbox and to watch football. Plus I have a habit of watching the same film for a few weekends in a row if I am liking it (currently doing that with the Alien films as I am into the Alien Isolation game at the mo) and if I had a girlfriend I couldn’t do that or eat the s~~~ I do at the moment as I would be broke.

No one gets it even if you spell it out to them

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-6195 <![CDATA[Reply To: Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-6195 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 17:41:49 +0000 Keymaster Oh yeah I love that one.

“When are you gonna get yourself a girlfriend?”

Ever notice how they phrase the question like she is some kind of OBJECT?
Like a girlfriend is a possession.

“When are you gonna get yourself a better car?”
“When are you gonna get yourself a lawn mower?”
“When are you gonna get yourself a bigger TV?”

Getting a girlfriend is easy. It’s getting rid of them that’s hard. When any man figures out to get a woman to LEAVE without requiring a bribe or payment, please let me know.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-6204 <![CDATA[Reply To: Failed to save a Friend]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/failed-to-save-a-friend/#post-6204 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 18:17:24 +0000 jambear @KeyMaster

Pfft that is easy enough. Fake your own death then leave everything to your dog, then wear a dog costume and impersonate your dog for the rest of your life. What? Still easier then getting divorced. >.>

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