She’s a pretty decent and dependable lay and less trouble than the younger chicks I usually go for (plus I can always think about hot teenagers while I’m banging her) so I said “Sure, I’m in.” and made her the promise that I wouldn’t be f~~~ing anyone else.

Until I do, of course. Because there’s no way to enforce this… if I find someone I want to f~~~ more than her, I will and that’ll be that. So what, really, is there to lose? She’s surely not going to be putting a saddle on my back or a yoke around my neck (unless we play “farmer john” in the sack and then it’s her that’s gonna get poked in the s~~~ter, not me).

So yeah, promise a female whatever she asks for in a relationship and then go ahead and do whatever you want. You think she’s not going to f~~~ the first guy (or girl) who turns her crank when you’re not there to do it for her? Of course she is. You want a pretty label that makes it okay for us to f~~~? That’s fine. Just don’t get any idea about trying to change or control me or I’ll be out faster than you can say “new pussy”.

What you need to do is have a good conversation with her, find something about her you genuinely like (don’t suck up or blow it out of proportion, just something like: “Wow, that is interesting about you, I would have never expected you to be like that but I like it.)  Say something like, “Hey, we should hang out, you want to come to my place for some drinks?”  Then, when she is there, all you need to do is steadily escalate to sex.  Afterwards, only be as affectionate as she wants, if you want to do it again later.  And know that she wants the sex just as bad if not more than you do.

With me, the dating came afterwards.

I’m subscribing to your philosophy, and a new rule No date rule = no sex then no dates, you genius.

This is how you avoid becoming a pussy beggar, an orbiter, a nice guy and a white knight… by accepting the fact that you want sex and she wants sex and that you’re not going to get any closer to her until that much happens. The morning after is when you really start to get to know someone anyhow. She’ll find out if you’re interested in her (when you remember her name and come back a few days later for more) or if you’re just a player (wipe your ass on her nice towels and leave before sunrise) and you’ll find out if she’s sane (has breakfast with you then leaves and doesn’t call you for three days) or out of her f~~~ing mind (gives you a pet name and starts talking about wedding invitations).

Only after you’ve f~~~ed someone can you POSSIBLY get to know them anyway so there’s no point in pretending you’re even trying to have a relationship until you’re intimate… and the only reason you should ever have sex with someone is because you WANT TO, not because you’re hoping to trade some pussy for a house.

Don’t ever fall for that s~~~ about “needing a relationship first”. It’s a f~~~ing LIE no matter who she is.
That’s just a way for her to see what hoops you are prepared to jump through for it.
And if it worked … she will use sex as a bargaining tool WITHIN the relationship too.

The desire for SEX & mating depends on ONE thing only: Attraction.
The desire for “a relationship” depends on a mile long list of things that are worked on and earned over TIME.

FACT: you are 10000X more likely to meet women who you are willing to have sex with… than women you are willing to like, talk to, date, eat with, spend your valuable free time on, live with, wake up next to, or marry.

Since the criteria is longer for a “relationship”, what idiot thinks you need a relationship to get laid?
So don’t fall for that nonsense that you need to be a in a relationship to get laid. You don’t.
Married men get the LEAST amount of sex.

And here’s a better one for you:
Until you have sex with her… you mean nothing to her anyway.

When you f~~~ a chick and she liked it, she will try and CLAW her way into your life.
If you concentrate on making her “like you as a friend first” she will not claw her way onto your c~~~.

Women who want to have sex with you, will have sex AQAP. Women who don’t are not worth your time or attention. Show interest if you want, and if she doesn’t respond, next her. Women like to pretend and talk other men from her past “used her for sex” but that’s bulls~~~ too. HE can’t TAKE anything from her that she didn’t willingly GIVE him. HE JUST DIDN’T LIKE HER. But instead of accepting that he didn’t like her, she calls him a “player”, and a “jerk who used her for sex”. Total nonsense. When was the last time you heard a woman say “he didn’t like me”? F~~~ing never. She always calls him a jerk or an asshole player.

Sex is the entire biological point between men and women. Gazing into her eyes all day – and all that relationship horses~~~ – is NOT. That’s all gravy. Nobody gets to have a problem with that. They can file a complaint with the creator if they don’t like it.

Brotha Docfenderson said ““Sure, I’m in.” and made her the promise that I wouldn’t be f~~~ing anyone else.”

STOP.

…Until you find out she is F~~~ing Someone Else.

“Jump-Offs” and FWBs Females like to make you make those pledges to Harness You and ride another Cowboy.  A subtle way to Beta our Asses and to Do what she wants to do.

“NAWALT”.   90% are.

I totally get LYING to HER and saying…”Ok. I won’t Fuk anyone else. ” But…Why Lie???  Tell the Hoe the Truth.

Instead…I would say “Nah…Not into Promises…We do it like this or Nothing.  F~~~ It. ” Throw a little Alpha Asshole in it.  Because it works.   She’ll keep giving you the Pussy. If she stops, then she Stops.  Blow a kiss to your C~~~ and congratulate it on having a Good Pussy Run.

Sure…I really enjoy Pussy…BUT…I’m not gonna let these Bitches play these stupid “I want to Beta you games.”  If this Pussy opportunity dissipates, then Re-Staff up.   I say keep 3 Bitches in rotation anyway.”

Having just 1 leads to Attachment and Fake-Wifing (Girlfriend Pussy).

Women need to learn how to Experience You without Possessing You.

She clearly wasn’t happy with what seeing me casually was and I’m going to end it by giving her what she thinks she wants for a week or two then ending it.

I’ve already got a date with another woman for Monday night. I’m really not the “relationship” type. After we get back from the trip to Palm Springs that she’s paying for this weekend, I’m dumping her.

Plus her oldest daughter turned 18 this year and wants me to take her shooting in the desert… so there are several, equally spectacular options available for me to make a really good story out of this in the end.