http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tracy-mcmillan/why-youre-not-married_b_822088.html

Tracy McMillian from Why You’re Not Married:

1.  You’re a Bitch.  I know it seems unfair that you have to work around a man’s fear and insecurity in order to get married — but actually, it’s perfect, since working around a man’s fear and insecurity is big part of what you’ll be doing as a wife.

Dear Tracy…my only fear and insecurity is that I’ll MARRY A WOMAN.  Huff Post is a POS.

What the hell?  What dictionary is she looking at?  A man of character would keep his commit yes, but making a commitment (when she clearly isn’t worth commiting to) is, by definition, stupidity.

And since the author has had 3 marriages, I doesn’t appear she knows much about character.

Men of character are, by definition, willing to commit

Implying “men are afraid (or unwilling) to commit” is an incomplete sentence – and women ALWAYS fail to finish that f~~~ing sentence.

Men roll up their sleeves and “commit” fearlessly (and without fail) to nearly every facet of our lives. Mortgages, business ventures, car loans, WORK, getting promotions and raises, the brand of motorcycle we like best, what radio station we like, favorite video game consoles, our favorite brand of beer, putting a rocket into orbit, splitting the atom, building the great wall, breaking the sound barrier, selecting who our friends are , how we like to spend our valuable free time…

So the complete sentence is: Men are unwilling to commit to her good-for-nothing worthless ass.

And why?

Because she is not a REWARD.
She doesn’t PAY.
She only COSTS.

Men will jump head-first with absolute conviction into commitments that PAY and REWARD.
Not goddam liabilities you can predict with totally accuracy in advance.

Make sure you always finish that sentence for them.
Preferably in front of as many other people as possible.

Men are unwilling to commit to her good-for-nothing worthless ass.

Yupp the consensus with women is committ commit commit no matter if they have absolutely nothing to offer you but bad companionship, debt and a miserable life sucking divorce. Its funny how they think we should just ignore the possible consequences as they do lol. Bitch we apply logic and thought to everything.

Look how happy they are now. Now that they’ve shown a real man’s character to commit. Embraced in love.

PS. damn, I wish SystemShock 1,2 were remade, such a great atmosphere there.

Of single mothers by choice:

After a year or two of thinking about someone other than herself, suddenly, Brad Pitt or Harrison Ford comes along and decides to significantly other her. Which is also to say — if what you really want is a baby, go get you one. Your husband will be along shortly.

Motherhood has a way of weeding out the lotharios.

So being willing to date a single mother is a part of this woman’s check list to seperate the “lothario’s” from “good commitment minded men”.

So seems to think it’s good thinking for men to choose a woman based on her character but doesn’t seem to think that conceiving and raising a child by yourself is no reflection on a woman’s character.

The author seems to focus on single mothers by choice but 99% of single mothers are not sperm bank recipients. They are lower class women who have been taught that the government tit is better than family.

So she thinks that smart men should take on some other man’s child. Take away the parenting time that some man who loves his children could be having with them while he, an interloper, who is not able to discipline the children who are running amok. I’ve seen it with my own eyes.

A smart man would avoid a single mother especially if he is looking for a long term relationship (shudder) with a woman for the purposes of making children.

No man should ever get involved in another mans family. If there are children involved just stay away. Single mom’s are the worst drama moma’s of them all.