Just reading that made me mad. I would say “welcome!” and all that friendly s~~~, but I’m too p~~~ed. I don’t even know where to begin! Any woman who uses the words “deadbeat dad” in a sentence again is going to get a f~~~ing earful from me. (Like it matters)

What is with these c~~~s who are OK with this s~~~?

Can you see another judge? Find a lawyer in your corner? A men’s rights expert? I’m so totally lost for words. Knowing me, they would NOT get away with it.

Its a sobering and depressing fact that this is what “family courts” have turned into in America. The judge wasn’t biased against you I don’t think (certainly possible though), but it is more likely that she was biased against your attorney. Family court judges and lawyers develop backroom kickbacks and “partnerships” to an extent that you would not believe. One of the first things an attorney wants to know is who is representing your spouse, this is because they can foretell the inevitable decision of the judge, more often than not, on this one piece of information. The family court is a lawless, authoritative, abusive, immoral, corrupt, and disgusting pit full of vipers and thieves. But you know this already.

As far as your child goes, I’m no expert. If I was in your shoes I would document everything that my ex, the court, and the lawyers have done to me and then put it all into a nice little presentation to give to her when she is old enough to make up her own mind. There is no doubt that your ex will poison her mind with lies about you, this is what vindictive women do. You are left with no recourse but to continue fighting for her and to hope that one day she will see her mother for what she really is.

You are not a victim. You are a man who has been severely wronged by forces beyond your control, but you can adapt, you can survive, you can prosper. If you don’t fall prey to the lure of “playing the victim” then you have won the war and your ex is powerless over you.

Nice mechanical mod BTW!

Equal protection.  Family law has gone so f~~~ing far from the concept of Equal protection that it makes my head hurt.  The whole thing should be thrown out by the supreme court on the basis of violation of the constitution, specifically Equal Protection & gender discrimination.  I really hope that someone is working on this.  If there is, I would love to know who, and what case?

Here, in Canada, the supreme court just threw out all of the old laws that governed prostitution, citing that they were in violation of sex workers’ rights to safety of the person (safe work environment).  Of course, our f~~~ed up government’s response was to come up with new laws that endanger sex workers even further.  Uphill battles on all sides.

One would logically think that the right to work somewhere safe for sex workers would be just a little less “personal domain,” and effect fewer citizens, than the rights of all parents to keep their children (very personal, effects everyone).  One would also logically think that if a right is more “personal domain” and effects more citizens, that the right would have to be at treated in a more constitutionally sound way – equal and fair treatment.  By that test, current family law should have been thrown out long before the prostitution laws were.

Feminist groups lobbied for the current Family Law structures in Canada and the USA.  Both Family Law structures are in violation of the concept of “fair and equal treatment under the law”.  By logic alone, I have to draw the conclusion that Feminism is NOT ABOUT EQUALITY, not even one little bit.

Where does the logic break down?  Is it as simple as the fact that there are more female voters than male?  That’s what the constitution is designed to do:  protect the individuals from…the majority (government).  Or are we being governed by thieves and liars?  History has taught us that once the populace is convinced of the corruption in government, anarchy and revolution are the usual results.

It Ain’t Right – One Bad Son

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One more thing on my list of ‘what a woman will do for money…’

No conflict of interest there…LOL

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When my parents were married, and my dad would finally lose his cool over my mother’s outbursts, she would call the police on my father for being “violent” against her.  The police, of course, took her side.  Once he was gone, I was the new target…my sister wasn’t a big fan of that, either.  I won’t forget when my mother once called the police on me for “buying alcohol.”  It was kept in the closet of my room where no one knew except myself.  She then proceeded to kick me out of the house, and when I calmly tried to reason with her, she blew up and called the police on me for “being belligerent.”  The police then proceeded to speak to my mother and myself separately, treating me like I had a weapon and was about to attack them, while talking to my mother calmly.  They then told me to leave, much to her happiness.  Having nowhere to go, my mother eventually let me back in after a short span of time sleeping in my car (this happened frequently).  She then called the police on me again for the same reason.  When this happened, my sister stood up for me and said I was doing nothing wrong, and that my mother was just having “another bi-polar moment that she’ll end up apologizing for later.”  The police told my sister to shut up and go back into her room, then told me if they have to be called again, either my mother and I would be going to jail, or only I would be going.

The legal system is horrible.

I remember when my parents were divorcing in 2009.  They had been together almost 20 years.

This was around the age when my own mother began to turn on my father which conveniently coincided with the house finally being paid off, like she was saying “OK your job is done and now the house is mine you can sleep anywhere but in your own house”. She did her best to try to turn me against him too but it was all puppetry, smoke and mirrors.