I am an Asian-Canadian myself, Chinese-Canadian to be exact. I was pretty much born and raised here and do not have an identity crisis like more recent Asian immigrants to Canada. In my mind, I am a proud Canadian of Chinese heritage. It’s as simple as that.

I heard that the men in mgtow tend to be more allured towards women of Asian heritage whether it’s Asian-American/Canadian or actual women living in Asia. I’d like to make clear that I am not one of those insecure Asian men who is angry about Asian women dating white guys. I am for relationships that are genuine. The key word is GENUINE. I actually pity many of the white men I see who are dating Asian girls. You can spot these kind of couples from afar. It is very obvious that they have nothing in common but are together because the Asian woman sees white guys as a status symbol. It’s like having an Armani handbag. She can show him off to her friends and show society how “different and progressive” she is. In public, she will play that demure submissive wife stereotype but in reality, she will sink her claws into him. And if the relationship fails, believe me, Asian women are natural born accountants and you can’t win against her when it comes to negotiating financial settlements. She’s got a spreadsheet in her head.

I was raised by an Asian woman. I have dated many Asian women and even had relationships with them. A lot of Asian FOB woman see CBCs such as myself as status symbols, second only to white guys. It was at one point fashionable to date a westernized Asian guy. Anyways, you won’t get a more calculative, manipulative, and strategic female species. When they are cold, they are absolutely frigid.

There is a reason why in developed Asian countries such as Japan and South Korea, there is a “herbivore” movement amongst the males. That’s what Asian women have reduced the men there to. And it will happen to the rest of Asia, particularly China, as it becomes more prosperous. In fact, in some big cities like Shanghai, it’s already happening. Basically, when these countries were economically booming, Asian men were working their asses of to become wealthy and successful and alpha-male and what did it get them in the end? They are now withdrawing and focusing on themselves, very similar to mgtow.

I am 30 now and after over a decade of dating Asian women, I have decided that if I were to ever start dating again, it would be with Caucasian females. I am done with Asian females and when I see an Asian female with a white guy, I feel sorry for the guy as to what he’s getting himself into.

Not saying that caucasian women are much better but there is a larger variation amongst them in terms of personality and outlook in life. Amongst Asian immigrants, there is a very particular type of person that would leave their homeland to strike it out into a foreign country. It’s something I’m not sure Caucasians understand, particularly those of you whose families have been in the Americas for hundreds of years. The type of people that immigrants are tend to be the more devious, calculative, strategic, ambitious and aggressive folk. So imagine what kind of daughters these types of immigrants would bring up. That pretty much sums it up.

Of course at the end of the day, these are generalizations but there is some truth to them and by and large, my entire point is that, women the world over are quite similar. But Asian women have taken it to the extreme and have destroyed their men much more. You only need to go to Japan and South Korea and see how few couples there are and having the lowest birth rates in the world. They went from being amongst the highest birth rates to the lowest birthrate within two generations.

I strongly believe the same is going to happen in Canada and the US and it already is.

“Racism” works much like “sexism”. Those who love to sling those words (and accusations) around tend to do it when they are enjoying NO BENEFITS. Treating a woman “like a lady” is HIGHLY recommended and encouraged by women…. but treat her “equally” (with no unearned privileges or extended courtesies JUST because she is female) and now you are a “sexist” or “misogynist”. As long as she receives benefits, worship and adoration because she is born with a vagina, “sexism” is perfectly acceptable. And encouraged!

As another example, you can’t even TYPE the word “negro” on Yahoo.
It looks like “*****” because it’s considered “racist”.
But you CAN donate money to “The United Negro College Fund”.

Fascinating, isn’t it.

So talking about Asians or blacks or gays or women as a group, is not remotely “racist” or “sexist”. In order for your comment to qualify as “racism” you would have to wish HARM to them, or deliberately seek with intention to destroy. Pity the rest of the world doesn’t f~~~ing understand these basics. One wonders if they ever will.

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Yes. My first girlfriend was Asian. The BEST girlfriend I had as Asian. The WORST girlfriend I had was Asian. And the most recent girlfriend I had was Asian. (Any other in-betweeners I didn’t get to know as intimately). They are generally no different than any other group of females. But they CAN be as cold as you talk about. They have the ability to go from warm to frigid at the drop of a hat. Like crying on command. It’s quite something to witness. I don’t even know how it’s possible. And I no longer care.

But there is one thing Asian girls AND white chicks have in common.
Their WORST qualities are what they are REALLY like.

.. the GOOD stuff is an ACT.

It takes a while to see them. Just be sure you you don’t wait until the divorce. And be careful out there.

I fear someday I will end up in prison of false accusation from a lying c~~~ who I have completely ignore. I have experienced where white women turning women and white knights against me when all I wanted to do is no longer communicate with her. In end the I prefer not to interact with women.

No woman is worth the effort for marriage. Very few would be the effort for a relationship. I just don’t think about women that much. It causes me stress to think about them. 😛

Interesting thoughts. I agree. Feminism in North America is very strong.

However, I think something else is taking hold in East Asia. I’m not sure what it is or how to call it. But it goes back to the herbivore men in Japan. It’s been labelled that in Japan by intellectuals but it’s happening in South Korea and parts of China as well. I think it has to do with the over-commercialization of society in East Asia and the extreme importance put on social status and face. East Asian culture or Confucian-oriented culture somehow breeds this mentality that won’t accept anything except the best.

China maybe atheist but it’s strongly Confucian which means that the women still somewhat have traditional values and ethics but that doesn’t make them any better than women all over the world. I disagree it’s like North America. I actually think the average white women is better than the average Chinese woman in China. When I say “better”, I mean better values, treatment of men. Not that it’s saying much.

I no longer interact with Asian women unless it’s absolutely necessary. I am actually going to visit China next year because I admire the country’s historical achievements and civilization but I’m going to ignore the women when I’m there. I am completely done with them.

As for white women, I still am willing to interact with them not for any relationship but mainly because I feel there are less smokes and mirrors when dealing with them. More upfront, honest, open, and less judgmental.

Haven’t really looked into much about Japanese women, or even Asian women, but this post has been a real eye opener as well as with combined with this article i just came across: http://www.returnofkings.com/38058/the-ugly-reality-of-dating-japanese-women

As per my conclusion, based on these two sources:
Never let your guard down regardless of their attractiveness, personality, ethnicity, or culture.

TY OP, for the real eye opener, don’t think i would have dived right into searching about Japanese relationships without it; might of even saved me a potential mistake in the future 😛

They are quiet, calculating and strategic. They know exactly what they want and most of the time, it’s a white guy. You pretty much know where you stand with an Asian girl upon first sight. If she likes you, she will make it very obvious. If she doesn’t, don’t even bother. And yah, as for the white guys who end up dating a cute asian girl, I’m not remotely jealous anymore. It may be a sweet deal at first, especially since most of these white guys couldn’t get the same quality with a girl of their own race, but that’s just the beginning. Try being in a relationship with an Asian girl. There’s a reason why she’s with you. She’s using you like a fetish and believe me, after a couple of years of this, it will tire really fast.

Usually after I’ve been overseas and I come home to Canada, at the airport border control, I’m usually greeted nicely by Canadian border security guards. It’s one of the first things I look forward to when I come home. The last time I was overseas, the security guard was this asian girl. She had a sour expression and asked me rude questions and didn’t even smile once and didn’t think me ONCE. The white border security guards beside her were all smiling and being polite and welcoming the travellers home. No, not this bitch.

I would go back to South, Korea in a heart beat if I had the opportunity.  I have no interest in dating women however I can still be falsely accused or rape or violence here in Canada.  I would have a less of a risk in South, Korea.  I seem to only attract much older ladies or much younger neither are ideal for dating material anyways.  The younger ones are not mature enough and older ones usually are very controlling.  It would have to be a special woman for me to have any kind of interest in her.  At the age of 45 I’m pickier than ever. 😛

I think what the guy says is mostly true. However, I disagree that he leaves mainland China out of it.

It’s a cold war propaganda by the west that says the cultural revolution in China changed traditional Chinese culture. You don’t wipe out 3000 years of confucius culture in just 10 years which is how long the cultural revolution lasted. Confucianism is alive and well in China and these same effects described are happening in the urban prosperous areas as well.

I agree that South Korea and Japan tend to take things more to the extreme. Perhaps because things like confucianism were imported and not indigenous to the culture and so they interpreted it and applied it to a more extreme level. Whereas Chinese confucianism is more at a very grassroots level, it’s almost embedded into the Chinese DNA. It can’t ever really be destroyed. I think the situation is probably better in China for men but not by much.

I also disagree Japanese and South Korean women prefer to be single. Western caucasian men have a lot of success in those countries. Asians are naturally attracted to the tall, round eyed, sharp-featured angular look. So an average looking white guy who has those features will be a big hit in Asia. Then all that stuff about not wanting a relationship goes out the door. Of course there are good looking Japanese and South Korean men who have those features too and they generally do very well in the dating world.

It’s the same with how Asian men are toward white girls. If you take a skinny white girl and a skinny asian girl, the skinny white girl is more attractive. Asian guys love that barbie doll look. The blonde hair, the blue/green eyes, white skin, etc. I’ve seen a lot of Asian men who can get hot white girls but generally, they are quite successful in dating girls of ALL races including Asian.

For average asian guys, it really is like rolling a boulder up a hill. They have to be financially successful, be in the right social groups and know the right people, live in the right area. A whole bunch of factors have to come together. And on top of that, they have to try really hard and face a lot of rejection. I’m one of these kinda guys except I’ve lost the willpower and the capacity to take anymore rejection.